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QueenBia See my TER Reviews 4549 reads
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1 / 44

I posted in the PO forum, so I am giving the guys an equal opportunity. Please share your experience with providers disclosing, or not their menstrual cycles. Has this ever been an issue for you during a session? How do you prefer a provider conduct her business if it happens? Inquiring minds want to know. Please be honest. I love whore stories! Lol Smile for me!

arrowman 41 Reviews 79 reads
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2 / 44

I prefer to know.  And with someone I haven't seen before, I would want to wait.  But if it's someone I know and like, I have just gone head with appropriate precautions.  It CAN be very sexy.

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 87 reads
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3 / 44

I assume most don't either, but I won't speak for anyone else besides myself.

 
As long as the provider makes it clear that she's on the rag, and it's done in a timely manner (ie, not ten minutes before the rendezvous)  I think it's fine. Not gonna judge anyone for being into running red lights.

 
I do think provider should take time off during that, but if she is OK working and it doesn't prevent her from working at 100% capacity and she has enough people who like running red lights, I don't see why not.

 
The main takeaway is asong as information is provided in an honest and truthful manner, it's OK. Last minute notice is not Ok.

 
And yes, I've had last minute (literally after I texted that I parked) cancelations wirh the reason given as aunt flo. I wasn't a happy camper to say the least.

davincib1 96 Reviews 92 reads
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4 / 44

Beforehand, that is.  And if it happens during, Greek better be on the menu with no up-charge

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 86 reads
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5 / 44

I prefer not to engage, but understand life happens. Giving someone a heads up & the choice to continue is respectable. I have heard that the majority of men, do not mind running red lights, like you referred to yourself. Thanks for sharing. No judgement here. I appreciate & respect your candor.

CurlyW-NatsFan 90 reads
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6 / 44

I may just enjoy it...  I do like a good Bloody Mary every once in a while.. I have enjoyed such things in my younger days (20s) I once fucked a gal on her period in the shower.. It was actually on my 23rd birthday.  She wanted to cancel the appointment because her period came "unexpectedly". Not sure how that happens.. I thought y'all get them every 28 days or so. I guess some folks are just not good at Math...  

 
To answer your question, I do like prior intimation. I like to know if we are going to make a mess or a bloody mess.. lol  

 
See what I did there... ?  I played nicely.. Your post was actually thought provoking. It required the reader to do  more than respond with "Google It" or "Use Common Sense"..

-- Modified on 3/22/2023 3:45:53 PM

WICardinalfan 37 Reviews 86 reads
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7 / 44

In college I learned of a saying.

"You can tread the Red River Canyon, but do not drink from it."

Humor aside, tell me before but please give a great BBBJ.

MasterZen 34 Reviews 81 reads
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8 / 44

I think grown-ass men should understand it's a natural part of life and not fret about it.  

 
The only time it was ever an issue was once when a gal's period came unexpectedly - right in the middle of the deed. The bedsheets looked like a murder scene. I had to call the front desk for new sheets (apparently it's not that uncommon of an occurrence) and I tipped the maids well. All's well that ends well.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 107 reads
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9 / 44

is why God invented BLACK bath sheets (beach towels), although I don't recommend using them on a car date.  Lol    They can be washed and used again without seeing any repulsive stains.  Most of the regulars I have had over the years keep them at their incall as a short-notice mitigation of potential damage should Mother Nature appear without warning, and a few of the ladies I see at hotels will bring one tucked into the bottom of their travel bag if they are near to the start date of their period.  

 
With that said, it's really up to the woman to decide if she wants to continue the session once the evidence is discovered.  For many, but not all, women, sex during their period can oftentimes be more arousing than normal, as their nerve endings are in a heightened state due to the hormonal changes they are going through.  I have found providers to be generally resistant to keeping session appointments on the day their period starts, but the ones that actually get hornier during their periods will usually leave it up to me to make the decision on whether to go or reschedule.  However, familiarity helps, so don't expect a woman you are seeing for the first time to be all that enthusiastic about starting a new customer relationship with period-sex and the associated extra cleanup.    It can be GREAT sex, but not much of a romantic atmosphere.

AaliyahATL See my TER Reviews 96 reads
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10 / 44

To answer your question on how it can come 'unexpectedly', yes it is supposed to come every 28 days. But sometimes, it may be a little early or late. This can happen for many reasons (stress, hormonal imbalance, conditions like pcos, etc).  When I was younger, I was that person who was very irregular. Even how long it lasted would vary. Hope this helps!

followme 96 reads
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11 / 44

Flying Bravo she should take a few days off....

 
Having said that if both parties don't care have at it

-- Modified on 3/22/2023 8:35:29 PM

Boobsman100 21 Reviews 91 reads
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12 / 44

Especially if it's  someone I know well.  With that said, we have options. How about a great blow job instead,or greek for those who are into it. Maybe an awesome  massage  somewhere in between.  
Let's  set the date for another session, and pick up where we left  off.

Nonetheless  though msome women say they get real horny during the cycle , so if she is  not worried  about getting messy ,well so do I.Maybe we can take it to shower or hot tub instead of the bed.

RegencyHobbyist 109 Reviews 85 reads
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13 / 44

Personally, I’d prefer not to see a working girl when she’s on her period. We’ve all done it with our wife or S/O when in a relationship, but when I’m a paying customer I’d prefer not. I would hope that a provider would give me the courtesy of letting me know before our appointment. If she still wants to work maybe she can offer a discounted blo ‘n go at my option. But for me daty is an important part of the gfe experience and that’s a no-go when she’s on her period.

WIMissScarlet See my TER Reviews 79 reads
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14 / 44

I am 43 and started getting my period when I was 11, so yes, you can track it down to a T but it can still come a day early, a day late, at 2:00 in the morning or 2:00 in the afternoon. It can vary from 4 days to 8 days. I keep very meticulous records of everything and have my schedule planned out about 6 months in advance but it is sometimes not precise. I have even had mine start *during* a session, so very unexpectedly does happen. I do let my clients know, I have had a few reschedule but most it really does not bother.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 98 reads
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15 / 44

I thought minstrel dates were small dried fruits taken on tour my traveling musicians because they don't spoil easily.  Lol

 
I will be the first to agree that during their period, DATY is USUALLY a pass.  However, if they shower and douche before you start, you have a window of opportunity to get the DATY done before things start tasting funny.  One squeeze bottle of insertable douche followed by two bottles of plain water will usually buy you at least 20 minutes.  Then you can transition to mish (the recommended position if she is menstruating) and it becomes your dick's problem, not yours.  

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 117 reads
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16 / 44

...just so he can DATY.  Most doctors recommend that women do not douche.  Douching can change the necessary balance of vaginal flora (bacteria that live in the vagina) and natural acidity in a healthy vagina.  A healthy vagina has good and harmful bacteria.  The balance of bacteria helps maintain an acidic environment.
http://www.womenshealth.gov/a-z-topics/douching#:~:text=women%20not%20douche%3F-,Most%20doctors%20recommend%20that%20women%20do%20not%20douche.,helps%20maintain%20an%20acidic%20environment.

brownjack 87 reads
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17 / 44

As others have said, as long as the level of service is unaffected, intellectually, I don't care.

 
But, practically, if activities are going to be off limits.  Or, maybe more importantly, the provider is not feeling 100%, I would prefer to reschedule.  So, I guest that I would like to know, so that I have the option.

 
I was with one provider, whom I had seen previously, who was clearly menstruating, but did not let me know.  There were activities that we had shared in prior meetings, that were off limits in the session.  And, she was emotionally distracted.  Neither of use enjoyed the encounter (except that she got to leave with the donation).  It wasn't until much later that it occurred to me that her cycle may have been the cause.

anthony1976 25 Reviews 90 reads
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18 / 44

If I know in advance I would rather reschedule. Several years ago a lady canceled our date bc of an unexpected arrival. It probably would have been a bit of a letdown if she had let me come over just to find out mother nature had a schedule change!

I did have it happen with no warning once. After some vigorous sex in a few positions, pulled out of doggy and saw blood all over me. My first thought was this beautiful girl was injured in some way, like a vaginal tear. Fortunately, it was just her period. Although she was embarrassed and afraid I would be angry, I just smiled, washed up, and we continued with other activities. She became one of my faves.

BTW, I'm sure everyone knows that "safe sex" does not include having contact with blood, as there are many blood borne diseases possible. Even with condoms, no guarantee to be completely safe.

CurlyW-NatsFan 80 reads
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19 / 44

Further research suggests you are right..  I never really bothered to research too much on menstrual cycles. I was  born as a male, and I identify as a male. For foreseeable future I plan to identify as a male. So I am reasonably certain I won't get blood down there. If I do, might need to see a nephrologist ..

 
You stay strong pretty lady !!

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CurlyW-NatsFan 82 reads
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20 / 44

You are also right on the money with your response like Ms. Scarlett..

 
You stay strong pretty lady..

inicky46 61 Reviews 88 reads
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21 / 44

Have you been channeling the late, unlamented Rod T?

holystonethedeck 104 Reviews 80 reads
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22 / 44

I've never really had it come up. One regular I see makes sure she tells me if her period is due when I try to see her on a particular day because she doesn't work those days. I've had period sex in civie life with no problems, although maybe DATY would be an issue.

 
I did meet a provider once who had an problem - it wasn't her period and she later told me she had some issue with her IUD and while she was riding me she bled all over the place - a crazy amount of blood. We went to switch positions and when she looked down as she was getting off of me I heard her say "holy shit". When I looked down I was drenched.

 
We got off the bed and the white sheets and comforter looked blood-soaked. I don't know how she explained that to the hotel. I was concerned that hotel staff would think someone was murdered. I never heard another word about it so I guess I was worried for nothing.

CurlyW-NatsFan 74 reads
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23 / 44

Indeed... Rod Tidwell... a.k.a. Turdy.... a.k.a  Turdball..  lol.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 85 reads
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24 / 44

post something like this that is pure speculation.  When a provider notifies me that her period has started and gives me an option to reschedule or keep the appointment, I will tell her I like DATY and so I assume that is going to be off the table that day.  If SHE suggests that she can make it happen, then I will still go, and having done this several times, this is how they prepare for DATY during a period, i.e., a douche and a rinse.  If you weren't so ignorant and inexperienced, you might know this yourself.  I never EXPECT anything when an issue comes up, but I am usually amenable to any solution to any problem that a provider suggests.   If she is more comfortable rescheduling, I have no problem with that, either, but often they have rent or bills to pay and would like to have the session, so I accommodate on their terms when it's reasonable to do so.  

 
You should also know that there are PH balancers that can be introduced AFTER douching that can restore the vaginal flora to their original state.  If you had read more than one article when you had to look it up on, you might have learned this.  Once again, a complete fail by BigP.   Ignorant of all things sexual is no way to go through life, but it seems to be your choice.

anony3274931 99 reads
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25 / 44

I’ve had a few ask me to change a date when they were due . Not a problem and I appreciated the heads up.

axmr41 10 Reviews 82 reads
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26 / 44

Having played for more than 20 years in the "hobby" I have had ladies reschedule for the monthly flow. That said there have been instances with my favorites that their period started that day or during play time.  Having been married a couple of times period sex has not been a no go for me. In my opinion as long as both parties are ok with things...let the dance continue. A bit of a mess is not a deterrent, as I said, as long as both parties are comfortable. Those occasions have actually resulted in some awesome pre penetration oral from the ladies...smiling in the memory..

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 88 reads
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27 / 44

I have to agree 100% that douching is not recommended by Drs.  

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 82 reads
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28 / 44

How much will the presence of her period affect the quality of the session?  Rescheduling is usually the best option, but I have had many instances where a lady wanted to see me anyway and said we would work around it, and I never had a bad experience with a lady who talked me into coming anyway.  

sjsfn 68 Reviews 105 reads
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29 / 44

It happened to me last year.  I had flown into a city specifically to meet this one lady.  I had been wanting to see her for years.  Had an 8pm date. We talked at 1pm and everything was ok.  Then at 5pm, she called and said she had just started her period early.  She felt very bad about it. She said she wasn’t feeling well.  She did offer to take some meds and that hopefully she felt better later in the evening to come over.  I had an early flight, plus I love to DATY so I passed.  She was very apologetic and offered to make it up to me on a future visit.  She wanted to make some small talk and she decided to give me her political views.  I am not really into politics but I found her thoughts to be off-putting so I probably dodged a bullet.  But I did appreciate her honesty in letting me know.

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 85 reads
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30 / 44

If someone cancels she might not explain (truthfully) why.  So while I've had a few cancel none have ever mentioned periods.   (I  have seen sugar babes who were having their periods, so I've done it that way, but never with a pro because  they never mentioned if it was the reason for the cancelation.)

mrfisher 115 Reviews 80 reads
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31 / 44

it was always to cancel a session at the very last minute.

 
When I told them that it was not an issue for me (There are many lovely things we can do that don't involve vaginal contact), they doubled-down and said that they just didn't "feel right" about seeing me during their period.

 
What this really meant is that I just lost out on a toss-up to someone else that they are more interested in seeing.

 
There are work arounds such as "the cup", and other activities that can be engaged in.   I am sure that by the simple law of averages I must have seen many, many gals while Aunt Flo  was visiting.

holystonethedeck 104 Reviews 96 reads
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32 / 44

I've known civie women who had no issues with period sex, and others who wouldn't go near anyone during their period.  

 
Personally, I never had a problem with it.

helixir 54 Reviews 81 reads
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33 / 44

In advance. Life happens, so I understand if a lady has to cancel or postpone a date. The human body isn’t an auto engine—it ain’t that easily predicted. So if Aunt Flo comes earlier than anticipated, even if I’m walking into the lobby of your building, just tell me and we’ll reschedule.  For me, a session without DATY is virtually a wasted session, so I can wait.

As for unpleasant experiences, a couple of times I’ve pulled out of a lady post-coitus to find the cover smeared with menstrual blood. WTF?! I had my tongue in there a few minutes ago!

And once it happened at my place. Fortunately, none got on the sheets. Would have been tough to explain to the SO at the time. “Well you see dear, I was shaving in bed when I hit an artery. I’m just lucky to be alive!”

luvmtiter 111 Reviews 72 reads
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35 / 44

an AAMP that I used to visit regularly, that ran "Aunt flo specials".  Until then, I hadn't realized how much fun a visit could be, when the kitty is completely off the table. Plus you'd save a few bucks while you're at it.

MysteryAdmin 98 Reviews 92 reads
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36 / 44

The funny part about it is I didn't find out about the cancellation until I was parked and walking to her incall location.  I was contacted by her booker who told me the appt needed to be canceled, which was fine.  Eventually, I'll book another appt with her.  I wasn't upset about it or anything, which speaks volumes about how I've matured over the years.   :)

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 77 reads
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37 / 44

her period starting DURING a DATY session.  You might wish you were still in your car.  Lol

brownjack 95 reads
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Some of the best sex I've ever had has been on the eve of a partner's menstrual cycle.  She was always horniest just ahead of her period.

 

If that is a common pre-menstrual symptom (prior to cramps, etc.), then I can see great benefit to knowing my favorite provider's cycle.

MysteryAdmin 98 Reviews 76 reads
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39 / 44

Sort of been there, done that but not with a provider.  Much to my surprise, I wasn't 'grossed out' or anything, butt* she was mostly spotting vs "flow".  So, I guess I got lucky there.  :)

(* I sometimes like to add the extra 't' to but :))

RoxyRae 78 reads
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40 / 44

Ovulation, not menstruation?  I can’t speak for every woman, but the last thing I want the day before my period is sex.  The day before I’m ovulating however… I want nothing more than a 50 cock gangbang and bukkake finish.  Maybe it’s just me though?  

MysteryAdmin 98 Reviews 64 reads
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41 / 44

I experienced something similar with a Tantrika who used to be in my area.   During one of many sessions, she told me she was ovulating and very much wanted to be touched.  That was quite the session, to say the least. :)

brownjack 77 reads
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42 / 44

But, my use of 'eve' was intended to be more relative than literal.

 

My point being, that leading up to my partner's period, she was an unhinged fuck beast.  And predictably, I did not mind it in the least.

Finn3311 55 Reviews 64 reads
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43 / 44

Full disclosure seems like the best policy in my opinion.  

That being said, I did have one session with a provider who did not disclose this ahead of time, and during the session she insisted on anal instead of vaginal sex.  I thought that a little odd at the time but was happy to oblige.  

She hadn’t thought far enough ahead though because after we finished anally with her in flat doggy position, I saw she had left a pretty big red stain behind on the bedsheets below.  Not sure why she hadn’t thought to put a towel down ahead of time, lol.

RoxyRae 71 reads
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44 / 44

Love that for you.  I always try to bring my A game with my clients but I know for sure during ovulation week they are going home 150% drained with a giant smile (and maybe my juices) on their face 😏

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