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RespectfulRobert 77 reads
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It's part of what makes them so good at their job. The other part, on my side, is I let myself run with the fantasy while I am with her and yes, for maybe a few hours after. lol.  
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I think the issue, with some guys at least, is that the illusion lasts too long, and they start to feel that the girl might be really into him. Not that that hasn't happened before in the history of this lifestyle, as there have been RW dating from meeting in this realm and even a few marriages. (Mr Fisher, I am looking at you lol).  
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So yes, since I tend to have longer type dates with amazing women who have honed their GFE skill set, those types of occurrences you refer to happen with a good amount of frequency. The key, that comes with experience, is not letting a great session like that go to your head and thinking something more is at play. It's easy to do now...not as much when I first started. lol.

Babylongirls646 reads

Every now and then, you meet someone where the chemistry is so natural, the connection so easy, that you honestly forget this is a paid arrangement. I had a session like that once, within minutes, it felt like I was hanging out with this beautiful woman I’d known for a while. We laughed, joked around, and the flow was so effortless that the “business” side of it disappeared. By the time I left, it felt more like saying goodbye after a date than finishing an appointment.

Has anyone else had that kind of experience where, at least for a little while, you forgot she was even hired?

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OldRanger86 reads

Has happened more then once but almost always starts with the entry through the the door( the first 30 seconds). Think clients first reaction upon entry has a lot to do with the vibe and flow of the session.  Every time I have been above entry and say to self -“this is going to be good”  — OK can thing of onetime grossly wrong.
These are the sessions where the five in chemistry adds to the other numbers .

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RespectfulRobert78 reads

It's part of what makes them so good at their job. The other part, on my side, is I let myself run with the fantasy while I am with her and yes, for maybe a few hours after. lol.  
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I think the issue, with some guys at least, is that the illusion lasts too long, and they start to feel that the girl might be really into him. Not that that hasn't happened before in the history of this lifestyle, as there have been RW dating from meeting in this realm and even a few marriages. (Mr Fisher, I am looking at you lol).  
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So yes, since I tend to have longer type dates with amazing women who have honed their GFE skill set, those types of occurrences you refer to happen with a good amount of frequency. The key, that comes with experience, is not letting a great session like that go to your head and thinking something more is at play. It's easy to do now...not as much when I first started. lol.

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carabiner95 reads

Especially consistent with longer dates.

And yep, though I text a small handful of gals I’m close to in between dates, it’s important to not get attached cuz it’ll ultimately create friction.

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hehitshewins82 reads

It's never the case with a one or two hour session. In order for me to forget, it needs to be an extended date with outside time. But if I come through the door and this woman who I have never seen before starts DFK'ing with me and less than 15 minutes later she's giving me a BBBJ, there is nothing she can do or say to make me forget I paid to be with her.

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coeur-de-lion82 reads

get lost in the moment, but if you start to leave like you would with a girlfriend, she will always remind you that she was hired and show you her palm.  

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Discc102 reads

It’s easy to forget with some ladies. In particular I remember when I was regularly seeing a gal that would come to my place once a week. She’d stay overnight with me and it wasn’t the typical escort experience by any means.

On the first evening of our arrangement we slept in the same bed largely keeping to ourselves. By the 3rd or 4th time we were closer and more inviting of each other, it felt like a genuine connection; especially because it did not develop right away.

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