Whore, prostitute, slut, strumpet, slattern, bawd, hooker, streetwalker, camp follower, courtesan, harlot, tart, lady of the night, call girl, working girl, pro, hustler, trollop......
Within the hobby, which of these terms evokes the most visceral responses from both provider and hobbyist? I find some of them quite arousing when used during the session but would never use them in conversation with the provider or civvie company. Which do you find arousing, degrading, maddening, offensive, etc. ?
Just throwing it out there.
I try to think about how I communicate before actually doing it.
I don't find any of them actually offensive, I just find most of them tacky. Do I think I'm a slut or a whore, of course, but I don't want to be called that by some stranger, "hey whore, what's up?" But call me "my little slut" behind closed doors and it does give me a lady boner.
In your list, I'm ok with BCD using: whore, slut, courtesan, harlot, lady of the night, and call girl.
I would not use these terms in a derogatory manner, but I am a fan of
Dirty talk. If you ladies want to get the first pop out quickly just say sexy stuff
And that will be that. Please don't take offense if I ever say these things.
Posted By: Cosette
I try to think about how I communicate before actually doing it.
I don't find any of them actually offensive, I just find most of them tacky. Do I think I'm a slut or a whore, of course, but I don't want to be called that by some stranger, "hey whore, what's up?" But call me "my little slut" behind closed doors and it does give me a lady boner.
In your list, I'm ok with BCD using: whore, slut, courtesan, harlot, lady of the night, and call girl.
Posted By: Ciscodog
Whore, prostitute, slut, strumpet, slattern, bawd, hooker, streetwalker, camp follower, courtesan, harlot, tart, lady of the night, call girl, working girl, pro, hustler, trollop......
Within the hobby, which of these terms evokes the most visceral responses from both provider and hobbyist? I find some of them quite arousing when used during the session but would never use them in conversation with the provider or civvie company. Which do you find arousing, degrading, maddening, offensive, etc. ?
Just throwing it out there.
Let's all get an alias like that to reply to London.......
Destin''s favorite dirty debutant AKA. The Magnificent,munificent Ho for dough.
This works
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Numero Uno 
I see that same sign at many sporting events. It's popular.
And I really appreciate when other drivers share that signal with me...makes me feel proud to be an American.
Among friends under jovial circumstances any term could be meant as an endearment or joke.
But under other circumstances the words can cut like a rapier.
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Not that it happens often, but still funny.
I also have used the term mangina, which I only heard about on TER, and have identified who of my friends are that, and it's funny to tease them about it.
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I know the users mean it to mean "wussy", but a man who recognizes a feminine side relates better to women and therefore he will have much more fun with them.
I sometimes feel like a lesbian trapped in a man's body.
I just like being called a Lady.
Respectfully,
Victoria
Stamp collecting or model airplanes....yeah, those are hobbies.
Fucking strange is simply that...fucking strange.
Meeting at 9:00 tonight...BiB's house. Rrasha is bringing the goodies. Inicky is expected to bring some chica's or tica's or whatever the fuck he is calling the hookers in CR now LOL
Posted By: Ciscodog
Whore, prostitute, slut, strumpet, slattern, bawd, hooker, streetwalker, camp follower, courtesan, harlot, tart, lady of the night, call girl, working girl, pro, hustler, trollop......
Within the hobby, which of these terms evokes the most visceral responses from both provider and hobbyist? I find some of them quite arousing when used during the session but would never use them in conversation with the provider or civvie company. Which do you find arousing, degrading, maddening, offensive, etc. ?
Just throwing it out there.
Duke of Earl?
FWIW I would prefer john or trick over hobbyist any and every day of the week.
My pal Huggy Bear said it's hip...and he knows!
Did you get a tattoo as well?
It says "please take a number and wait" ouch!
I bet you he would absolutely hate the term "hobbyist"
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a serial stalker?
Kind of creepy to collect women. I tend to want to play for a few hours...pay them to leave till the next time we play.
Works for my pal Charlie Sheen...good enough for me 
a type that seems to do that.
Collecting women experiences - different flavors, types, sizes, races, you name it.
That might be kind of kinky. Somehow I doubt that would be a good long term plan.
How can the gal post her retirement tour if she's on some dudes wall?
I get it...just chalking up those experiences. Some guys have to let the world know that they successfully paid a hooker to fuck them...it's a huge accomplishment LOL
Posted By: Cosette
a type that seems to do that.
Collecting women experiences - different flavors, types, sizes, races, you name it.
Im making friends , they just end up liking me and we have lots of sex ........who would have known ...the terms are stupid ...
Posted By: Cosette
Who's Vincent antonelli ? And what's a hundred ???? Lol...
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I guess that would make me a hobbyist? ??? lol
You shake my third arm , its in my pants and he's glad your cum ming !!!
Posted By: ChgoCPA
Stamp collecting or model airplanes....yeah, those are hobbies.
Fucking strange is simply that...fucking strange.
Meeting at 9:00 tonight...BiB's house. Rrasha is bringing the goodies. Inicky is expected to bring some chica's or tica's or whatever the fuck he is calling the hookers in CR now LOL
Posted By: Ciscodog
Whore, prostitute, slut, strumpet, slattern, bawd, hooker, streetwalker, camp follower, courtesan, harlot, tart, lady of the night, call girl, working girl, pro, hustler, trollop......
Within the hobby, which of these terms evokes the most visceral responses from both provider and hobbyist? I find some of them quite arousing when used during the session but would never use them in conversation with the provider or civvie company. Which do you find arousing, degrading, maddening, offensive, etc. ?
Just throwing it out there.
I do not hobby. I patronize prostitutes.
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Rather pay before than after , kind of eating my dessert before my dinner ! Less of a headache ..plus I don't have to meet her family and I kinda like the other guys she fucked , lol....
Posted By: cspatz
I do not hobby. I patronize prostitutes.
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and enjoys every minute of it.
Oops, time to go, I have another hooker to fuck in about 15 minutes, and yes I plan on enjoying every minute of it. If anyone asks me why I have such a shit eating grin on my face afterwards, I won't lie about it either, unless of course it's a cop asking me. lmao
...and I'm not a hobbyist, but a damn full time horn dog.
And I don't care if you call me a whore-mongering, drunken pig. Trick's OK, too, and she can call me that. As long as I can fuck her like I hate her and call her my little fuck toy.
She's a "bawd" and u said I will fuck my "tart" and your my "trollop" tonight ??? You my friend really need a hobby !!!
Posted By: Ciscodog
Whore, prostitute, slut, strumpet, slattern, bawd, hooker, streetwalker, camp follower, courtesan, harlot, tart, lady of the night, call girl, working girl, pro, hustler, trollop......
Within the hobby, which of these terms evokes the most visceral responses from both provider and hobbyist? I find some of them quite arousing when used during the session but would never use them in conversation with the provider or civvie company. Which do you find arousing, degrading, maddening, offensive, etc. ?
Just throwing it out there.
But I must admit, you've expanded my vocabulary on a few of them. I had never before heard strumper, slattern, bawd, camp follower and trollop. Interestingly enough, neither has my phone. I don't consider any of them to be offensive or degrading if I get her consent prior to the action because then it's just fantasy, I always make sure it's clear that I don' mean it when I'm saying it and that it is just fantasy. Apparently not every hobbyist asks, because most providers I do that with compliment me and show appreciation that I ask first.
Streetwalker, here's something I've always wanted to do, have a regular provider dress up like a streerwalker and pick her up for some car head. I wouldn't pick up a real streetwalker because I don't want to contribute to a girl being trafficked or a drug addict. I guess I'm more bent than I ever imagined.
Boner Garage , you heard it takes all models !!! Just wear a helmet ....lol...try this , " your pussy is sweet as nectar " , omg your so tight , or you sure your 35 , you got the body of a 20 yr old .....or I never want to pull out of you , I just found heaven and it feels so good ...........more bees with honey guy.....more bees with honey !!!!
Posted By: Ciscodog
Whore, prostitute, slut, strumpet, slattern, bawd, hooker, streetwalker, camp follower, courtesan, harlot, tart, lady of the night, call girl, working girl, pro, hustler, trollop......
Within the hobby, which of these terms evokes the most visceral responses from both provider and hobbyist? I find some of them quite arousing when used during the session but would never use them in conversation with the provider or civvie company. Which do you find arousing, degrading, maddening, offensive, etc. ?
Just throwing it out there.
It just sounds so...pious. 
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That was my cat's name who lived to be 17 and died in my arms. It was 25 lbs. and male no less, but that was HER name! Don't ask.
Interesting choice of names.
Sorry.
They're all offensive terms from the wrong person in the wrong time, but, I refer to myself as almost all of them either seriously or deprecatingly, and I welcome it from the man who's with me, as long as he's currently *with* me.
Oh absolutely! It's all about context. I asked my ATF once during the down time if it ever bothered her and she said she thinks most women have fantasies about just being taken and used like a sex object now and then so she said no it didn't bother her. And she said especially so with me because I would do the softer intimate approach with round 2 . It's good to have short little getaways from who you are in "the normal life" and visit fantasy. As a caveat always with her consent first otherwise it could be taken other than fantasy. None of the ladies I've ever seen would I want to insult or degrade for real.
And I cop to it with no embarrassment whatsoever.
In point of fact, I am quite proud of myself.
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I like the more whimsical or archaic terminologies IE: Strumpet, Trollop, Tart, Harlot and Slattern for my personal lexicon.
Courtesan is great in mixed polite company, (or if you’re trying to make points with the lady in PM/e-mail/phone).
And Pro, Call girl and Working girl for polite all-male company.
I ALWAYS get a grin when I hear a Jewish person describe a Christian female as a "shiksa" It doesn't necessarily mean they're a P4P "Hurdy-Girdy"; but you know...........
Posted By: Ciscodog
Whore, prostitute, slut, strumpet, slattern, bawd, hooker, streetwalker, camp follower, courtesan, harlot, tart, lady of the night, call girl, working girl, pro, hustler, trollop......
Within the hobby, which of these terms evokes the most visceral responses from both provider and hobbyist? I find some of them quite arousing when used during the session but would never use them in conversation with the provider or civvie company. Which do you find arousing, degrading, maddening, offensive, etc. ?
Just throwing it out there.
Who are you? Donovan?
A bit arcane; sure! But you must be living under a rock to only recall it from a “Donovan” song.
The term was used quite eloquently in the movie "Intolerable Cruelty".
Posted By: 89Springer
Who are you? Donovan?
But when you start with the adjective-noun euphemisms you can soon degenerate to
‘Public Fuck-hole’ and other variations. I do however enjoy the term “Harridan” It is not specific to the craft; but you can sneak it in almost anywhere.
:
Outside of the discussion boards, the vocabulary of prostitution is not really an element of my daily conversations. My school of thought has always been that vulgarity is most potent when used sparingly, However in the context of a session, some clients genuinely enjoy dirty talk. In that case, I am happy to unleash a fusillade of sexual expletives that would cause a stevedore to blush.
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He is a good friend, and will take me anywhere I want to go.
It is the same way with the girls to me.
They have names. Who cares if they aren't real?
It's a respect thing...
A service industry thing...
I fucking hated it when people called me waiter when they knew my name was Hound
a prostitute.
Women who have sex for $40 in a car seat are prostitutes. I charge $50 and see clients in recently-exterminated motels. A lot of my clients are really rich. I'm a COURTESAN.
...cum dumpster that I am!!!" while I was pounding her. It didn't work for me. At all.
Not sure how I'd feel with a provider if the same happened. I'm not a fan of the 'cum dumpster' phrase...I don't think there is any context where that would be hot to me. It's just a negative term no matter how you spin it.
I've not gone down the 'dirty talk' path with anyone. Tried with a provider recently but she wasn't into it as her last SO didn't treat her very well...hit a little too close to home for her so we agreed that was out of bounds before it really got started. Didn't really bother me too much. Not a requirement for me but I wouldn't mind trying for reals sometime.
I've not gone down the 'dirty talk' path with anyone. Tried with a provider recently but she wasn't into it as her last SO didn't treat her very well...hit a little too close to home for her so we agreed that was out of bounds before it really got started. Didn't really bother me too much. Not a requirement for me but I wouldn't mind trying for reals sometime.
I don't enjoy calling names any more than I enjoy facials. I just think both are degrading to the woman. Even if the woman likes it, I can't get comfortable with it.
Posted By: 89Springer
I've not gone down the 'dirty talk' path with anyone. Tried with a provider recently but she wasn't into it as her last SO didn't treat her very well...hit a little too close to home for her so we agreed that was out of bounds before it really got started. Didn't really bother me too much. Not a requirement for me but I wouldn't mind trying for reals sometime.
I don't enjoy calling names any more than I enjoy facials. I just think both are degrading to the woman. Even if the woman likes it, I can't get comfortable with it.
Yeah...with you there...but name calling is probably the out of bounds piece for me. Otherwise....I don't think I'd mind trying some otherwise dirty talk..."fuck me...do that to me" etc etc
But...Im with ya...
Dirty talk is soooo hot (and essential for me)!!! The hobby is EXACTLY the venue to explore crazy kinks (within reason). I wouldn't walk in the door screaming "dirty slut whore bitch," but once you've established a respectful rapport, then have at it!
How do you talk to the ladies in bed, anyway? "Uh, excuse me Ms., would you be so kind as to place your mouth on my appendage?"
I'm not missing out on anything. I'll say "fuck" or "suck my cock" and so on. I just won't call the woman a name, or do certain things to her, even if she's okay with the names or the deeds. That's just me.
I'm enjoying myself just fine. If you get off on calling a woman a slut or whore, that's fine, too.
Even if I wanted to call the woman "slut" or "whore" or whatever, and even if she said she liked it, I've learned that I can't believe everything a provider says. She may be saying she's fine with being called names because she wants to do what the customer wants. But maybe she doesn't really like being called those names.
If I really wanted to say that to a woman, I'm sure there's some telephone service I can use, and pay a lot less than $400 an hour to do it.
Posted By: inicky46
I love her.
I'm a do as I please when it pleaseth me type of gal.
Yes you may call me your dirty slut, naughty whore, slutty cum bucket, nasty bitch etc while I'm attempting to give you a heart attack. But I sub for nobody. If I like you I'll sarcastically call you sir which is equivalent to asshole in my book
The only people that call me sir are annoying little telemarketers trying to sell me shit. I'd much rather be called asshole, and if one of them ever had the balls to do so, I bet you I'd reward them by buying whatever the fuck it was they were selling.
I only consort with Courtesans
I consort with hookers, whores, sluts, prostitutes, and yes even courtesans.
