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I think most forums are this "vicious"
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I have a lot of interests, and so belong to a lot of forums, mainly to learn. I'd say that most are this "vicious", if that's the right term. Say something dumb, and people will be all over you. It's just the nature of the internet, and has been since the days of Prodigy chat rooms in the very early 1990's.

I'm an administrator on a small forum that's an offshoot of a larger gun forum. The members are all gun nuts, and most are current or retired military, law enforcement and intelligence agency folks, with a heaping handful of engineers in the mix. There's no foul language allowed, and attacks such as many of those on TER and other forums aren't tolerated. The idea is that, if you can't make your point without being insulting, your point has no validity. Repeated obnoxious behavior is grounds for suspension. But that forum is the exception.

It's not easy for a newbie to wander into this swamp without getting bitten at least a few times. Some posters are constructively critical even when they seem to be enjoying the skewering, others are just joking, and there's a very few who just seem to get off on being cruel. The only way to avoid it is to not post, or post things so bland that eventually nobody reads your posts.

Go look at the NY board and look at Kendall Lynn's 1/28 posting "Thinking before we speak.."
If you are proud of the the OP, speak up.   If you are proud of the dissent, speak up as well.  

Lord knows I've never been shy about flying my Manginic or whatever you or anyone else wants to call it Freak Flag high.   Considering some of the things I've seen, there is a serious problem.  

The only thing I've ever asked, is own up to your words.  Be a REAL man or woman.  Stand your ground when dealing with a crowd of fcktard cowards.  Say what you mean, and mean what your say.  Don't flame anonymously.    

If you look around the regional boards, serious fcking trolls that inhabit the GB infect the regional boards in order to jizz forth evil, toxic opinions to chase people away.

Isn't the whole fcking idea about this place is to allow a gathering like-minded individuals without facing the discrimination, condescending attitudes, and prejudices of the "outside world"?  If I am wrong, I would appreciate understanding the logic behind "why" I'm wrong.   IF there is anyone here that is not basically paying a woman or man for time to spend together looking for fun, please respond.  

I have recently seen, a serious effort of a fcked up minority to drive away opinions (ESPECIALLY LADIES) they don't like.    Nonsense about "old hookers not being worth shit".  "Guys being pussies or Mangina's, because they stand up and say things are JUST WRONG" because that's the way the mysoginistic boys' club has always been done.    Shall we talk about one human owning another one because "it's always been done"?  Separate but Equal?  Irish Need Not Apply?  Paying women 70% of the wage a guy gets for doing the exact same job?   Where do you draw the line and move forward in life?

Hey.  It's my opinion.   If you don't stand up against things that are wrong, then you just sit back and accept what wrong does and let individuals get destroyed one by one.    Go look up Edwin Burke and then get back to me.  

I know I've thrown out Troll Chow, but WTF.  At this point, it doesn't matter because I'm just one voice saying things are JUST WRONG.  Too many people in the membership refuse to have shit to do with the Forum concept.  Ask yourself why?  According to the header bar, right now there are over 28,000 members on line at this moment.  Why do people not participate in our community?  

Perhaps the TER overlords should establish a new category of "Don't Be A Dick"...Big fat chance of THAT happening...Faux News gets money for people pissing on each other and tearing others down rather than fostering constructive speech to build up a better world.  

It'll be interesting if I'm met with crickets, people stepping up and voicing support, or if it becomes a Flame-a-thon.   Personally, I really don't give a fck.      

Just read Kendall's post on the NY board before opening your mouths.  Engage brain before speaking.   It's a lot to ask

and your opinion of what is constructive is just that your opinion.

This life and these boards are like music and food.  What is Great to some people is Shit to others.

Man that's just life.  No use getting upset about it.  You either have to accept it or ignore it.

Why blow a fuse?

The reason people don't participate is simple.  Most people don't participate in life.  That's why people stay in jobs they hate for 20 or 30 years.  Or bad marriages, etc.  

A quick history lesson.  As quiet as its kept most Black people did not participate in the Civil Rights movement.  They let a small minority (of a minority) do the work and then they reaped the benefits.  And then claimed that "hey I marched in the streets".  And yes, many white people participated as well.  But again only the minority.  This is America.  We are fat, lazy and full of stupid fucking opinions.  That's why everyone wants to live here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Congratulate yourself for first participating in the hobby and having fun.  Most guys ignore their tendencies or go have affairs.  Gettin' worked up about chat room manners is not worth it.

If you ever go read the Yahoo comments you would think America is filled with women hating, racists, good ole boys in pickup trucks.  

Long story short people say stupid shit on the Internet:(

Now if you will excuse me.  I have a seriously sick date with a Provider next week that involves EXTREMELY KINKY SHIT.  I have been instant messaging with a Sub from Fetlife looking for ideas of how to DANGEROUSLY treat a submissive women.  So far we are up to knife play THAT LEAVES WOUNDS!  See what I mean about people saying stupid shit on the Internet.  Maybe that's true - maybe it's not.  But knowing RT and my latent anger towards women it might be true.

P.S. Man I fucking need help bad:)

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AnotherDonJohn1730 reads

Having borne a few attacks which I invited no doubt, I found only one message was worth highlighting separately.  
 
And worth my fourth/fifth devil emoticon ..  Btw this is a reply to OP.
 
That is:  
 
When you build your whole point on taking the "high road," and then stoop to a purely personal attack, (see link)  
Your whole point, even on a f--ckboard, doesn't ring true.  
 
The other thing is that like GaG, I hide my name but have no reason to lie about my opinions or history here. In the context of discussions (talking about banking and where the OTHER guy starting spouting mental health garbage), it became clear to many that I'm in finance. In another, that i was in the medical profession, even mental health (both true).  
 
Though get your facts straight, Dave, I never said I was a mental health phd. It's understandable why you made that mistake. There is a difference between a PsyD (doctorate in psychology), PhD ( in philosophy), and MD. I have a prescribing license like any doctor has and I'm considered an expert on certain topics. The point at the time was that other guy has only studied mental health in a textbook and has never treated a single patient. You inferred my background, so I'm just telling you now.  
 
If one of those "5%" trustworthy people, such as Tobi or LR, cares to screen/verify that, I'm  happy to show THEM my degrees and business card. If Just to show the board I wouldn't lie to you. I'm an asshole/ jerk but not a liar imposter. Even call me a narcissist. But I'm not a hypocrite like some Phoenix based Mangina lovers.  
 
The point  to those people is to get off your high horse: it's a fuk-in f--kboard.  
 
I'm sorry your feelings got hurt while you were shilling for milfs.  
 
Just don't be a hypocrite, either the way I said or by pm'ing me to be my friend. Lol.  
 
I always say it's just my $.03.  

 
Related Link: http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=225410&boardID=2..

GaGambler1990 reads

I've been outed more than once, I have been using the same handle here for almost ten years, and anyone with a fifth grade education and about 45 seconds to waste can find my "REAL" real name without breaking a sweat, picture and all.

My feelings on the subject, if someone doesn't like me for what I say here, they have a problem not me. It doesn't bother me in the least who knows what I say here, especially one of these little bugs who get all bent out of shape over bullshit said on a fuckboard.

That said, I have several friends on this and other boards that cross over into the real world, and I value those friendships at least as much as any others in my life, but as for my detractors, and I have plenty, I have never lost a minute of sleep worrying about their opinion of me. it and they simply aren't that important to me. Some people like LR, or Inicky, or a hundred other people that I can think of "get it", you seem to be one of those as well, and FWIW the only reason I even mention Nicky is that I will be seeing him in a couple of days and he's buying drinks, which is a good way to get to the top of my "good guy" list, especially if you have ever seen the size of any of our bar tabs. Even in a third world country they look like a damn telephone number. lol

AnotherDonJohn1619 reads

If we ever get the pleasure to meet, I'm going to try to expense that. Lol.

westcoastjohny1623 reads

There are a lot of people who are as "mad as hell" and this is a place to vent. So when a lady can make statements about why can't we all be happy when she can make $500 in 1 hour there will be blowback. Income inequality is at an all time high worldwide. How many ladies working here are doing it for no other reason?  

There are also a lot of people that have lost their long time friends due to social/economic/business/financial contacts being lost so this is their way to vent and maybe have some contacts as well

I don't know exactly what the riff was, but against better judgement, I'm going to comment on the OP

First, all of the opinions you expressed regarding chattel attitudes toward are opinions I and lots of people have shared for a long time. Ridge pointed out that very few people, Black or non-Black, dedicated themselves to the Civil Rights Movement, until some few advancements were won, then they showed up to make a lot of noise at victory parties. Same pattern with the Anti-Draft and Anti-War Movements. Most Americans seemed to be driving around the streets beating up any longhair they could corner.

Try to find a movement with more than 5% of the people affected being involved. This one would tell you they'd be active, but they have their kids to worry about. Another will tell you that as soon as they get their Master's they'll get involved because then they'll be so much more prepared to speak up.

And those who were on the front lines? Most of them had their lives destroyed and today they look like broke down oddballs. They're often rejected by their community as being not up on Rapper of the month polls, and as such, just not with it.

So, no, the way it's always been is hardly a reason for things to stay as they are.

I wonder what millennials will tell their grand children and great-grandchildren when grilled on questions like, "You mean you DROVE gas-burning cars?! YOU polluted the air and left the planet like THIS?! WHY?!"

One guy on another forum was very indignant about having to contend with Gay Rights flags in his neighborhood because HE had never done anything to persecute the LGBT community. I suggested he reexamine is memory of high school and college days.

So yes, we live in a world where apathy and ignorance are pretty much the norm. In "Lady's Not For Burning' C. Fry has Humphrey explain it when, after fighting with his brother, he ends up lying in the flower bed. His mother insists that pick himself up, and he replies, "But, Mother, I didn't knock myself down. Why should I pick myself up?"

That pretty much sums up the attitude of today's peasants. Most of them. Probably 95%.

Keep the fight and keep the faith.

.... But we can only know that there is no choice, because
one of two things will happen if we don't lead. Either no one
will lead and there will be chaos, or someone will fill the
vacuum who does not share our values.....
 http://www.foxnews.com/politics/2012/08/29/transcript-condoleezza-rice-speech-at-rnc/

Once I was trying to "fight" for  ethics and morals on our boards... I stood my ground  

I was not supported at all
as matter of the fact I did experienced toward to me till this day a lot of bulling nd negativism

we just not have choice - or let them rule this board with bulling and  bitter stupid posts  

 or fill the vacuum and keep it clear and fresh  
 gentlemen come here in  need of release and  escape from brutal reality of  sorry existence , and yes even birth to this world is already trauma.. woman brings you to this world.. and with help of the woman again you be released of your stress

I want say just one now -

Positive feelings come from being honest about yourself and accepting your personality, and physical characteristics

So I think we do have an answer why  some

  TERRIANS  here are so negative and biter angry .. complex of of own inferiority..

.. should we normal happy people hate them be biter ..

 No- life already did punish them harsh enough  

 I am really glad to see mind mates here
 I just can not write on so high pilotage as Kenda did- adore her and your post :)

 But I hope I expressed myself well enough

 and Serafima  is not a monster just standing my ground strong sexy stunning woman  
As I say always - Russia is not a F word  
and Americans can not lead from behind :) even  they claim Obama lead from behind in Libya ( refference that I not making it up  
 http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/08/29/the-new-yorker-obama-leading-from-behind_n_940482.html
.. but it is other story :)

 as a woman  I do take life seriously ..  
Woman brought up you to this world and birth itself already is a stress for newborn.. so as you grow up and become  a man .. you still need a woman to realize your stress  take it and use  it for your benefits  
save fe woman as a treasure.. she is your your treasure island ...
 don't you think??

 
 



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I agree with some of the other posters that some of us may be taking this thing way too seriously and far too personally.

someone directly posting under my posts downgrading messages    I would take it personally  

So I think I have right to stand my ground and show what kind I am a "senior citizen"
 then I just i guess thinking in big pictures .. it is as someone think small numbers and someone will say you astronomic number ..  why it is bad if I have  a bit politician outlook on life?
Politics hates a vacuum. If it isn't filled with hope, someone will fill it with fear.
 may be too much politician clients ha ha  
 but I will paraphrase this as  
Serafima spiritual  hates a vacuum. If it isn't filled with meaningful conversations , someone will fill it with crap
Why I have to be happy and accepting to the  crap?
Just self respect  
 then one who  doesn't have own dignity  do not give a courtesy of recognizing such in other people.
Do I want  be around such ? No .
 they do try book  
denied
then bulling postings  
 then I do respond personally  
 I know it is not all about me  
 but sometime it takes one person to wake up masses .. ah ha ha  I think I am a catalyst  to any chemical reactions :) ANY  
So as long as I am alive I take personally what other say about me  
and it is all point and reviews by the way if you do believe in those  and not downgrade the syetm of reviews.
Let s just do not be hypocrites  
Love  as always  
 all we need is love :)  
Kissess
 

 


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I only know that Kendall Lynn is my friend, and has long had ATF status with me,  That's all that's needed... :

to really add much, except to say, I'm surprised by how much anger there seems to be compared to my home board (non TER),

sapper17721746 reads

I took the time to read your well thought out and reasoned post in which you argue for more tolerance and understanding......and then you threw your ad hominem grenade against Faux News. Did that make your argument stronger and more valid? Most likely not. Instead it, well......it speaks for itself.

despite my sometimes nasty tone here she'll tell you I'm actually a rather decent sort.  That said, the nasty tone on this board is nothing new.  It's been that way for long before I showed up a few years ago.  And while your thoughts are nice you are just not going to change human behavior.
By it's very nature, this board attracts wack-os and BSC types of all stripes.  It's not going to change.  
Even Ghandi couldn't do it.  That said, there's still some useful info to be found here, just not as much as when the mods were around and active. That train left the station about two years ago.  Under the "new regime" things aren't any nicer.  But a lot of smart people got pissed and left.

0603450onThe2243 reads

I tried this 'same' sort of thing last year coming on and it wasn't taken on too kindly. To 'change' the tone of the boards that have been here for what seemed like centuries...god forbid that happen. It was a 'bit' overwhelming and I say that hesitantly. Being jumped on, hounded and then hounded again with mostly everything becoming misconstrued, twisted, taken with the wrong tone and taken out of context was all so mindboggling it became, yes......ugly.  

As much as some of us would 'love' to believe we can 'change' the world (including the thought processes that go on here on a daily basis) there are some things you 'just' can't. I 'can' live with that now. I have my eyes on much more important things that actually 'matter' in 'truly' changing the world. This is NOT one of them. That's a lot to 'swallow' with someone who NEVER gives up at anything. But I've learned, the hard way there are some things just not worth the battle. I've also learned it's a forum to express opinion in the world of 'time and companionship', and notta god damn thing more.  

However, I will say, in it's rawest form and in looking back, the strangest thing happened. It formed some of the most endearing virtual (and real) relationships that allowed true colors (emotions) to shine that there are 'real' people out there. And if there's one thing about this world, there is no hiding from that, no matter how people 'pretend' to not 'get it'. So when you think you have it all 'figured' it out....I guess sometimes we just don't. I can live with that too.

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GaGambler2115 reads

and so did a thousand other hookers and manginas before you, and well before Dave, and let me ask you how well that worked out for you?

Someone is always going to come on here and claim how mean the other kids are to them, It doesn't change a thing.

and yes Taylor, I will agree with you on one thing, it DOESN'T matter what is said here, this is not real like, it's an anonymous fuckboard. WTF does anyone expect from the likes of us? Get the fuck over it already.

0603450onThe2129 reads

very well over it, was simply pointing it out now that I've been here my thoughts. Get over it, if you can't handle it...And no, I didn't get it at first, so fault me for NOT getting it, oh well. Excuse me for living like a human and then in the same breath, ask me if I give a shit what the 'yous' in this world really think. I don't. You would NEVER book with me nor would gentlemen LIKE you, so it's no concern of mine, now is it.  

I do wonder, when YOU were 'first' here, if you're that mindless and heartless and took it as just a 'fuckboard' when someone is bashing you over and over....and of course, as smoothly as you claim to be........can you even 'think' that far back, hmmm I wonder. But you're one of the 'followers' so I guess this really doesn't pertain to you. For those of US who are/were the 'newbies' here, whatever you want to call us/it, yes it's something that is quite.....ummmm, I'll put it as 'entertaining' and leave it at that for now. Sorry not all of us can be as COOL as you GAG and GET IT the first time. Get the fuck over it already and yourself. ;)

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0603450onThe1338 reads

are in the same boat...of course that's YOUR knee jerk reaction. Clueless.

GaGambler1694 reads

She is right about one thing, it's not like she lost business with me, I would NEVER have booked with her in the first place, but there are many ladies here that I would never book with who I consider very good friends. Just because I am not interested in someone sexually, doesn't mean we can't be friends. My list of "fat broad" friends is actually a pretty long one, but they don't take themselves a tenth as seriously as Taylor, or Dave for that matter seem to take themselves.

IMO losers get mad, winners tell jokes, hey, have I told you the one about...............

0603450onThe1676 reads

Aren't you missing 'Reading' class right now. Or is it 'after' lunch. Those who 'think' together, 'stick' together. I'm fine with that. ;)

Am I the only one with an overwhelming urge to trainwreck this thread?
Does that make me a bad person???
It would be pretty funny.. Just sayin

0603450onThe1623 reads

answer to your 'Daddy'.......follower. Weak.

The line between horseplay and bullying can get a little blurred at times...

But we help others out too. Did you just forget that piece? Conveniently?

See. That wasn't so hard. Was it?

He's goofy and wouldn't harm a fly.  Besides, jumping on the 'Daddy' thing is, well, like you said, Weak.

AnotherDonJohn1332 reads

That ship sailed, loaded up on rum in the Caribbean, came back, and sailed again. Lol.

SlavetoLust1579 reads

man, you are taking this stuff WAY too seriously. The stuff written on these boards is insignificant beyond words. Sometimes it's good for a chuckle, sometimes good for a head scratch and a WTF! , but never enough to get so worked up over. Relax.
If everyone stopped and waited 10 minutes before replying on any of the boards, most of the crap you speak of would never happen.  
You see,  that is my opinion and it is totally meaningless to anyone else.

Used to get all bent out of shape about this virtual world, then realized pre-teens do that on Facebook all the time. By the time you've reached your 30's, a little sword fight on an online forum should be the least of your worries… unless you're having fun poking the other person in the butt with your sword.

It's all relief, fun, talk about a subject you really can't go telling everyone, (anyone for that matter,) and so on.

BTW, I waited ten seconds. :D

0603450onThe1636 reads

when you 'First' came on or anyone else for that matter. I believe everyone has the same 'knee jerk' reaction 'attempting' to post here, how could you not. I think everyone at some point does get 'bent' out of place at some point, until yes, they realize what this is all about. It's different for everyone. But yes, you are correct about many things once you 'cross' that line into Neverneverland ;) The only question is 'when'..............

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0603450onThe1721 reads

If this is a 'fuck' forum for discussing topics pertaining to and around 'fucking', since when and why is it a forum that is predominantly about 5 yo in grade school doing the bashing and ridiculing of 'those' mature individuals asking the questions about 'fucking'. If anyone should keep the topics that should pertain to this 'fucking' forum, its the 'yous' of this world, ahem, excuse me, the 5 yo's, who ironically in turn are supposed to act as grown men. But I guess a 'fucking' forum gives you the 'excuse' from class to act like children. Haha go figure. It is funny tho.  

Have you heard the one about...................................

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GaGambler1646 reads

while other people got their bearing first, BEFORE trying to tell everyone else what to do, and how to think.

and Taylor if you are really that concerned about how I acted when I first came on these boards, my posts are still all there for all to see, unlike you I felt no need to erase my early posts. Just do a message search and go back about ten years, FWIW I never  used an alias once until Admin made me do so when they made me a moderator. So every post I made in those "early" days was under my "real" fake name.

0603450onThe1834 reads

you, along with the 'regulars' fully ENJOYED 'twisting' most of what I said that way....it was more fun that way for you. I believe Ms. LR used to put a few of my thoughts in 'clearer' terms so the thugs here could actually understand it better as I hadn't perfected posting with the likes of the thugs just yet....let's call it a lack of communication....I was new afterall ;) Your ways were very cunning indeed. I was no different than I am now, that's what's funny to me. You all SEE what you want to see and not what's really there. That's the fun in this for you, especially with newbies. However, I guess if I did come on KISSING your asses, things would have gone down differently. Oh well, that ain't NEVER gonna happen. hahahahahahhahahahahaha

0603450onThe1766 reads

simple. At least 'own' it, geezk.

0603450onThe1398 reads

schtick had you 'climb' on board until you were 'declined' big time, who are you kidding. Here's a teeny, tiny, miniscule idea......you could always 'own' ONE handle. Ummm not 40. Oh, Idk, just a teeny, tiny thought. How many are you up to now anyway? You could set the record straight for all of us, we are dying to know, not that it would be a surprise. But either way, you hold that record by a landslide. Kudos to you my friend ;)

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AnotherDonJohn2069 reads

Or life, considering how much the whole discussion aged me last time. Lol

Or least we did until you deleted all your threads in which you ranted and flamed while asserting the same thing: that you rejected me. (Which all became smiley faces.)

Again I'll say that: you and everyone know that if you never got my screening info (including my handle), I didn't trust you enough to request a date. ( Others have gotten my main handle.) Your other threads and PMs before that flirted with me. That's all I say on my side. Hopefully it's self explanatory after your posts no doubt disappear again.  

Again with the alias/no review bashing. Yawn. I'm happy letting only the TER gods know my handle and review history. I've been here since almost the beginning of ter though wasnt as noisy as you until lately. Frankly, I don't even understand what you think you're taunting me about exactly.  

What's up with you OTHBs? Just be happy with your MZ, Dave's, Liamdohertys. That's a client base. Not let me get back to my fantasy of the day. Lol

0603450onThe1641 reads

bother to keep responding? ;)

On another note...hahahahahahahahaahahha...did 'you' say 'trust'? Again, hahahahahahahaha, that's a ridiculously funny word coming out of 'your' mouth. OMG. You must be joking, although I know you're not.

Good luck with that one. Have a great fantasy!!!!!
 

Posted By: AnotherDonJohn
 
 Again I'll say that: you and everyone know that if you never got my screening info (including my handle), I didn't trust you enough to request a date. ( Others have gotten my main handle.) Your other threads and PMs before that flirted with me. That's all I say on my side. Hopefully it's self explanatory after your posts no doubt disappear again.  
   
 Again with the alias/no review bashing. Yawn. I'm happy letting only the TER gods know my handle and review history. I've been here since almost the beginning of ter though wasnt as noisy as you until lately. Frankly, I don't even understand what you think you're taunting me about exactly.  
   
 What's up with you OTHBs? Just be happy with your MZ, Dave's, Liamdohertys. That's a client base. Not let me get back to my fantasy of the day. Lol.  
 
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AnotherDonJohn2345 reads

really, this is more relevant to Curly's thread and OT...

Why answer? because you keep mentioning it. which is the bizarro thing about  you.
You think I would just let a fake story sit out there without answering.

I'll let others decide which story makes more sense: that you rejected me after I presented you with my best offer OR that I walked away after a flirtatious exchange and wouldn't give you my screening handle or references...

It's my judgment and I wasn't cool with the risk-benefit.

Sorry if that hurts your feelings. But this behavior only confirms my initial impression.

Just move on. lol.

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0603450onThe2095 reads

Posted By: AnotherDonJohn
that you rejected me after I presented you with my best offer......
Yes indeed that's what happened.^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^  
Posted By: TaylorSteele
I NEVER responded to your last PM after that bullshit...fuck yea it was a rejection. I 'jokingly' said you have to 'identify' yourself in order to really meet me....which I knew you weren't going to do since you were throwing the 'highly discounted' dinner offer (+/- time I might add) in exchange FOR the IDENTITY of 'you' and my 'apparent' fairy godmother.....and then when I said NO (thank you of course),....hence THE REJECTION........who did you say you were going to take....(xx but I wont do that to her)..... Exactly ;) And I said what....have a great time at dinner ;). So you see, I am right and you are wrong....again. It's ok, we can keep going if you'd like, that works for me. I'm right and you know it.

0603450onThe1609 reads

this summer too in email...so yes, Im pretty sure I know who 'you' are. I didn't 'bite' then just like I didn't 'bite' now. You're totally not the gentleman I 'thought' you were anyway, board persona, reality or not. If you were just 'cool' about it, knowing who you are, 'I' would've been cool about it, but the lil games just don't fly with me. Childish. Again, be a man and act like one, you'd be 'amazed' where that'd get ya.

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AnotherDonJohn1628 reads

But I feel for you a little.

Someone else rejected you last summer a similar way? Sorry, hunn, I promise on the TER bible that wasnt me. I was still mostly oblivious to the GD crowd at that point.

I still don't understand your concept of rejection. When I stop at the gas pump and check the prices, but decide to get my gas elsewhere, does that constitute a rejection by the gas pump? I didn't give them my Id and credit card so does it count? I will grant it was temporary insanity. I can't see it happening with your client facing tactics toward me. maybe i shoukd send you a 89springer type rejection letter? Lol.

Still don't know how we met in person in nyc, do ya? In answer to your other question, I don't know when I'll decide to be "me." Maybe if Cosette sets up a M&G dinner  in our town.

0603450onThe1600 reads

nothing more to say to you until you're man enough to reveal yourself.  And since you like fucking with girls here, mind and body, when you do 'out' yourself, I don't think it will look too good on you if you ask me. Mind games and fucking with people on the reality tip is a whole other ballgame and you know it. It wasn't funny then and it's not funny now.

I won't be attending any M&G in NY anytime soon nor in the future...that I can guarantee.

And to the ladies here, this is THE perfect example of why you NEVER share your personal info with anyone unless you truly get to know them. And I mean truly. Even then tread on very thin ice until that ice is solid ground...because you never know when they will get all 'nuts' like this. I thank you ADJ for proving my point in this matter. Be careful out there.

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0603450onThe1357 reads

friends here...it's ok to be just 'you' ya know. Go on, it's ok, no one will judge you, I solemnly promise and back that up with a guarantee (ok maybe not). But you have nothing to be afraid of, truly you don't. So go on, let it go.........LOL ;)

0603450onThe1403 reads

I have this silly mental image of 'you' as that kid in the back corner of the classroom, slightly rotund but cute and cuddly, finger in the belly button all throughout class, staring at the ceiling. And yes, GAG is sitting in front of you, but I don't have a clear vision of him just yet. I'll let you know when I do. That's my silly for the day....yes?

HooktardGold1946 reads

As for Kendall's post... cmon. I love that girl, see nothing wrong with what she posted, but the "Please be nice on the boards" theme is redundant, and will never change a thing. If you don't like the tone, don't post on the boards. Good lord... we are not being paid by the word, last time I checked or I would have retired only a year in. You cannot, will not, EVER change a community of people from all different backgrounds, simply by preaching respect. Everyone does what they want within the guidelines of TER rules. Asking people to be nice so you can post, is a bit absurd. I've been called every name in the book, had my personal life put on front street, and it never hurt me one bit in the end. It's a fk board, not Church service. You know that coming in here.

AnotherDonJohn2003 reads

Sorry, I didn't catch that handle.

I was busy writing my response.  

Where's CPA?

Oh and you missed JLS' Pulitzer Prize worthy response:

 

Posted By: JuliasLilSecret
The GDB has ZERO negative effect on me and my business.  I wish to spend my time with people who can appreciate my thoughts and feelings, and I do not want to see anyone who doesn't.  So, mission accomplished!  LOL  
   
 The "old hooker" blah, blah, blah doesn't insult me in the least.  I'm a hot, late-thirties lady who knows how to have a good time, and I'm laughing all the way to the bank while these guys are glued to a sausage fest.    
   
 :D  
   
 Some ladies worry about scaring off business, but I actually prefer to keep the assholes away.  Those ladies can have them if they don't mind it, more power (and $$) to them.  ;)
 
You didn't miss anything. JLS has nothing to do with this. She's simply the mangina's muse for the day and rhetorical sounding board.  

As always,

Methinks the lady doth protest too much- prob giddy from beating off all the men with a stick and laughing so much on the way to the bank. Lol.  


-- Modified on 1/30/2014 11:28:08 AM

Anyway.  This is going just as expected.  Initially good response, a ton of private PM support from people who absolutely refuse to post here, and then the dog pile.  It ranges from ideas that have some thought out points to BSC crazy stuff coming from unemployed narcissistic sociopaths sitting in basements.  

The whole point of Kendall's message and mine was that at some point in time, a culture has to progress or it festers and declines.   Piss off enough ladies, and you end up with nothing but a sausage fest.   Me personally, I want to hear their opinions and viewpoints.  

So this is just a fckboard where you get to run wild and flame anyone you want and get to jizz all over the keyboard when you make points against some one.   Get it.  Knock yourself out all day long.  
   
Too bad there's not another board listing where reasonably moderate people can have rational discussions.  But that would probably be overrun by the fcktards as soon as it opened

AnotherDonJohn1974 reads

If I had to choose, I'd prob take the narcissistic sociopath basement (nice use of the nyc thread btw) then being a thorough hypocrite Mangina.  

Or did you not mean the PMs about yours being a fake schtick to bag aged pussy?

My schtick is helping me find the right grounded people in this business to chat with. I could care less if my persona offends you.  

At least, this saves me the trouble of turning down that insipid beer that you keep offering me on PM.  

And the offer to help me find my milf of my dreams. Lol

-- Modified on 1/30/2014 1:48:22 PM

AnotherDonJohn1836 reads

??!!

I mean: seriously, folks.

I try to say one balancing thing. Not a nasty post at first at all- judge for yourself rather than read it secondhand ( direct link so you don't meet to search). With all due respect to Kendall, whom I complimented right off the bat, and Nicky, NY is a fukked up board, in terms of the number of shills, scams, and wack adoos ( myself included) and shouldn't be all be smiles and roses. And in general, not just on NY, when some idiot turns the discussion to my SO's breath smelling like his cock (which was later pruned), should I sit there numbly like a Mangina?  

If a guy has the guts to shoot back, so will I. I can take what i dish out It's no skin off my back and it's the American way. But res ipsa loquitur as someone said, though he meant it differently: the thing (usually the fault in law) speaks for itself.  

If Manginas want to cry that they've been unfairly abused- and look of the particular cavalcade of those who came out including aliases having sympathy with the devil:), Chinatown shills, and "missing in action" kids using their parents' computer- then do it without being a hypocrite. I applaud someone else for the insightfulness to note that.

And I'm going to point out from Dave (who i think can still be a friend) that he knows very well how we discussed the fake public persona and had laughs behind the PM wall. And, sorry to out this, but you clearly said you were playing it all up to get sympathy and better fukks from the older women, when i said i was playing as well. P-lease. Does any of this strike anyone as hypocritical? One doesn't even need to see the PMs to know this rings true. And has anyone else noticed that I'm different behind the PM wall? Except for complete assholes who write me- you know who you are super Ho's and little shit stinkers;) like curly, I rarely respond in pm but when I do, I respond in kind to invectives.  

So, cut the BS, and remember this is a public f-ckboard...Where all kinds of complete idiots who get our coffees IRL, shilling indignant Manginas who sell us insurance IRL, and pretentious sanctimonious assholes like me all get our $.02

When I visit the board, I skim through the topics and only open posts that interest me. Online spats and posts from certain handles just don't interest me, so I don't open those posts. After you've read enough "old hooker" comments, it doesn't have the same shock and is uninteresting. *yawn*

I respect that you took the time to speak your mind, but it's futile telling a board of grown adults who think certain behavior is normal is to stop acting like that. It works with kids, but once an adult is past a certain age, you can't change them. Just don't open their posts. It's the same ol' same, when you do anyway, so why open redundant tiresome comments? You'll feel much better, plus it cuts down the time you actually spend on this board and you can use that time for something good. I spend no more than ten minutes a day on here. Quick skim, read and reply to interesting people and threads only, pass over the rest of it. Done. Close web browser and on to the next. Easy peasy!

I hope you have a positive and wonderful Thursday! :)

GaGambler1758 reads

but she makes a lot of sense at times. and she wears her title of "man hater" as well as I wear my title/s of asshole and shallow pig. lmao

AnotherDonJohn1711 reads

It seemed to make sense at the time...

GaGambler1656 reads

either way, even asshole that I am, I find myself liking both of them. we don't agree on everything, but that would be boring anyhow.

89Springer1489 reads

I have a lot of interests, and so belong to a lot of forums, mainly to learn. I'd say that most are this "vicious", if that's the right term. Say something dumb, and people will be all over you. It's just the nature of the internet, and has been since the days of Prodigy chat rooms in the very early 1990's.

I'm an administrator on a small forum that's an offshoot of a larger gun forum. The members are all gun nuts, and most are current or retired military, law enforcement and intelligence agency folks, with a heaping handful of engineers in the mix. There's no foul language allowed, and attacks such as many of those on TER and other forums aren't tolerated. The idea is that, if you can't make your point without being insulting, your point has no validity. Repeated obnoxious behavior is grounds for suspension. But that forum is the exception.

It's not easy for a newbie to wander into this swamp without getting bitten at least a few times. Some posters are constructively critical even when they seem to be enjoying the skewering, others are just joking, and there's a very few who just seem to get off on being cruel. The only way to avoid it is to not post, or post things so bland that eventually nobody reads your posts.

HooktardGold2127 reads

Here's the funny part... I was treated the exact same way by the usual suspects when I was a newbie... yes indeed. Instead of whining about it, and telling guys how hot I am, how great I am, and how they had little d(cks, I siimply rolled with the punches and did not slit my wrists over what people on a fk board had to say about me. I love debating, but I prefer doing it with people who have the common sense to respond to the issues at hand, and not try to avoid them.  

So many times people are called on things they have said or done that were flat out lies... that's nuts to think you're going to get away with it. The less bullshit you put forth about your life, the less crap you are going to have to deal with. Don't say how low volume you are, when you get 10 reviews a month. Don't put in every damn ad that you're a grad student, yet you post every damn day on TER and tour around the globe... must be an online school.  

People don't pick on others just to do so... it's done from being inconsistent. People who do nothing but constantly yap about how hot they are, how much money they make/made, beg for business, etc. are going to be picked on because the GD is NOT about that. You can't say on one hand we should all be nice, and then not follow the rules. At the end of the day, if you don't like the tone, log the fk off. Christ. No one is forcing anyone to post here.

89Springer1542 reads

Just to be clear, did I say we should all be nice, etc? I hope it didn't come across that way. I hate all the love and peace shit. I can't wait until the next nuclear warhead goes off. I have money riding on Israel taking out Iran. :)

seems not ..
all developed intellectually people share same values

I may be optimistic too much  and believe in  people too much  but as Dave's and Kendall s posting shows us

 we should not gave up and act as jons and hookers would do  
 here are  a lot nice ladies and nice men .
 and now I do hear - it is just fucking board..
 it is kind of .. giving up ..
 fuck has to be a love making  
porno lovemaking  
  relaxation from all stress not  have feeling as you stepped in to something dirty and illegal ..

 so I would not give up just saying it is just fucking board we are all  humans and we love fuck  we are not  retards here who never saw pussy  

Ok  
 Till the

There are people who think of it as nothing more than fucking and use the power of it for many different things.  Some are healthy, some are not.  Women are objects and are meant to be kept under control at many levels.  
 
There are people who think of it as love making.  Especially with an established partner.  First time is fun, Second time is a bit deeper, and beyond that, there is a connection built.  Granted it's based on exchanging cash for time but people shouldn't be able to spend considerable time with someone else in intimate situations without making connections.    

There are some that fit in the category of retards or worse

sapper17721563 reads

Alright, I believe I'm tracking; there are some on this board looking for the owner of the glass slipper and there are some on this board looking for the owner of the glass anal beads. There are some on this board who like to discuss gentle lovemaking regarding someone they pay to spend time with them. There are some people on this board who simply like to fuck somebody different everyday. There are those that tilt at windmills to protect the honor and prestige of a woman of I'll repute and there are those who don't give a shit about a hooker's feelings. We've spent the better part of a day determining this. Now that we're on the same page what's next?! Oh yeah, can't we all just get along? No!!

I was going to post a link to the uTube of the actual incident, but it pissed me off so much.  Kid asks if John Kerry was a member of Skull and Bones, same as GWBush, and the cops take him down for it.   Fckers...
Another damn good reason for Second Amendment.

when I read Sapper's post I still convinced  that it is cultural  or even more deeper - social ..

Class separation   .. is not it is why girls love call themselves so called "upscale"?
 and when you come there .. you will see some Turkish setting environment with pillows from atlas and language as "piss me off"
or urban..
 not all of course .. here are many nice women .. but .. as I was told such I am myself here just four or five ..

so .. lets back on the topic - it is .. and cultural and social ..

as to sappers post.. and why it is love making has to be soft?
gentle..? who said so ?
you know we do provide a  fantasy to man .. and if he wants fuck everybody different same day that doesn't mean that he should not feel  chemistry of the love at those few precious hours  or even an hour if connection is established before a date..

Why call those women hookers? that way you do degrade yourself .. many women here are accepted this  vocabulary and  playing by rules of jons jst to make some dollar.. may be they already do not feel all wrongless  of this word may be just smiling - who cares how he will call me unless he pays ..

Dollar rules the world .. and it is where economical structure determines the cultural  values ..  
 how you would not say .. but there are BIG HUGE differences between  russians and americans .. simply we still adjusting to capitalism ...  
may be it will become a russian culture as well soon ..  for new upcoming generations .. but so far  we are way different .. you may  benefit with me from those soon be gone  treasures of true culture not ruled by dollar.

I am soo disagree that love making have to be gentle.. it is  how your wives doing t home ?? Russian wives way better then any hooker here ..

and fuck every week someone different does not mean  to fuck an object for upscale gentleman..
 first of course  it is respect .. then you can objectify her in bedroom and good woman , ral woman would enjoy it no less then if you will make a platonic idol from her image making gentle love making and  have messed up conception that you  can fuck hard just hooker ..
  what a nonsense !!!  
 read my reviews  if you do not believe just love making can be and rough wild and .. and .. just no one hooker can do ..
 woman who has mentality of the hooker  never will give you what woman with whom you have chemistry running  will provide for relaxation ..

being professional escort means to  understand when to let flow free  your chemistry of the love when to shut it down knowing he is just a client .. but why to refuse yourself , gentlemen, chemistry .. you  fooling your own instincts ..
 man want to be loved even more then woman .. it is well known ..
 
It is cultural and economical I think .. fact  is that here on TER not many well doing in life nor women nor men ..
 I am glad that after Kendall's post I do hear voices  of people I may respect.
 and all starts from letting your fantasies your needs to be communicated .. or you want fuck in 3 some and still be loved ..and love .. I have soo much stories to tell about my threesomes ..or just about m dates .. but once I posted a pic of the room where wild love making took the place - before  love making occurs of course ... an some here said that they just do not need such environment with flowers chocolate and Champagne .. so some want fuck everyday different women in  4 stars hotels and some ok with barn like environment ....

I  do not think it is .. just .. personal preferences .. it is cultural  as , let say in Russia before we never went to fast food  places ..
and here you  have movie theaters how it is ... seat in car and  watch movie, seat in the car/or barn /motel/ having services of woman whom you will call hooker ..
Iam not saying that Russians now not the same .. but it was not  ..  
when I was moving out of the russia back then .. any way .. thank you for listening .. just keep in mind love making can be not gentle  but wild nd you can fuck many women with love ..
 actually all artists have had many women they loved and fucked wildly WILDLY with LOVE  so now we can benefit from all those master peaces they created fucking many different muses with incredible love .. I would not go now in to listing of those poets, composer and painter .. and their master peaces any way ..  
 just wanted to share what I think , you may share may no

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