just my $.02.  You never know how the spouse will react.  Plenty of single civies and providers out there.  Why risk it.

-- Modified on 1/17/2013 12:10:05 PM

Seriously dude, listen to my little tale of woe.   Longtimers on TER know that I have a preference for strippers who moonlight for me.  I've been the first for some, but more important, I've cracked the code to get strippers to want to be with me (sometimes its green, but also, I do this thing...).  

I met this hot young stripper years ago, and even in the champagne court I would DATY, and she would BBBJTCNQNS!  We dated, movies dinner etc. when she could get away (she had a kid).  After a while I even considered going totally off the wall with her and perhaps marriage.  Well, she was thinking marriage as well.  So after the divorce from hubby # 1 (a convict who failed to be granted parole) she married another dude!!!  

But then she asked if we could hook up!  We did.  and continued to for a while.  One day, I noted that she was not the same and asked what was up with her.  "nothing" was the response.... Then I noted on her facebook page (oh, she "friended" me, then "unfriended" me when hubby #2 noticed our "friendship" out of the 300 or so other "friends") that she was PREGNANT!  She had claimed that she was having NO sex with her hubby and that was why she wished to hook up with me.  Soooooo.  Next we met, I also notice that she could not move as well as before... hummm.  

So, I confronted her about the pregnancy... she denied she was pregnant.  got indignant and said I was imagining stuff.  I whipped out my smart phone (love the little bugger) and said, here, on your facebook page you claim to be "with child!" Her respone?  "Thats not me!"

To make a long story a tad shorter, we split up, and did not meet again.  why?! while I know this kid to  not be mine, whose to say the next one won't be.  I do not wish to be responsible for the mess that would make.  Think this through VERY carefully, very I say unto you!

Oh, and mine was not dry either!  some of the best sex I ever had.  well till the next time... but that is another story altogether.  Kids, please remember - there is NO sex in the champagne room.

Are you nuts?
That's revenge sex. There is a high chance she is going to tell her husband she is fucking you.
She caught him looking for escorts more than once.
She is going to tell him that you are a better lover, your dick is bigger, and he can go fuck all the escorts he wants now.
Cause she got hers.
Do you really want to be in the middle of that?

There was this married woman who was practically stalking me.
At first I was flattered. Led her along (thinking with the little head again)
And caused a shitload of trouble.
The ladies on the board actually helped me realize what I doing.
It is said perfectly above.
Karma is a bitch. It will come back to you.

-- Modified on 1/17/2013 1:31:13 PM

married women have as much or more to lose than I do... discretion is the key.. moreso than here..

You met a "civie" yet you reviewed her here, thus making her a hooker? I don't get it. So, was she providing behind her husband's back and is now shocked he has been seeing hookers?

I was single, it became emotional...   affairs are not NSA.  No Strings Attached!  This is very dangerous.  Maybe as a hobbiest, you can keep your head on straight, just getting a free bee...  but can she?  
Just be careful.

The "review" was figurative.
Overall I agree, i don't plan on being this woman's regular back-door man.
Even that kinda turns into a "relationship". The reason I hobby is to avoid that baggage.
Thanks men.