Before COVID, the ad copy was much more useful in figuring out the personality and demeanor of the provider. Not everyone had a blurb and I enjoyed reading the ones that did. I think most women used to write that stuff themselves. It helped identify providers that were educated and intelligent. It was a big part of the decision making process for me.
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After COVID, a lot of services sprung up to help escorts with their marketing so now it is useless. Everyone figured out that having good ad copy could set you apart. Now that everyone has a blurb it doesn't help out as much. Everyone just started copying each other and everything sounds the same. I still read some of them, however. I use it to weed out escorts. It helps me identify lazy escorts, delusional escorts and demanding escorts.
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If the blurb is out of sync with the rest of their ad/branding I'll assume the provider is being lazy. For example, I saw an ad where a provider was wearing luxury clothing brands with photos in a high end hotel. She called herself a "girl next door" in her ad and it gave me bad vibes. Sometimes the blurb is downright delusional. You get this with cheap escorts who are not very good looking. They'll have awful pictures but call themselves a luxury experience while hyping up their own sex appeal. The final category is the demanding escort. These are the ones that have a list of requirements/demands and a ton of "No this and no that." Those ads just scream "NO FUN." Every once in a while they put a code-word in their ad. I understand that people have boundaries and expectations for safety. However, if your job is constantly forcing you to defend and maintain boundaries then maybe you should find another job. Anyway that's how I still use ads.
i mentioned the details in her tryst ad to one of my favorite providers and she clarified that she paid someone to write her ad. i’m trying to find my next session based off chemistry instead of solely physical attraction. what percentage of ads are written by the actual providers versus outsourced to erotic authors.
One lady I seen said she had someone write it for her. Also, her x,bluesky and p411 were ran by someone else. Basically said she didn’t have time to run that stuff with her life.
You can just get Chat GPT to spit out ad for you these days...
Back in the days there was a girl that worked in DC area... A little voluptuous - broken English at best. But her ads were so well written. Only when you tried to have email communication with her to set up appointment, did you realize that this one can barely speak English.. She was like 2/10 when it came to her communication skills.
I was on my way to book with her but cancelled when I read that nonsense. I felt cheated.
Not just outsourced... I've had two different people copy-paste my ad and maybe change a word here and there. One dared to message me to say she was going to copy my website too because "she agrees with everything I said" what the fuck.
AI is also becoming popular in this field, unfortunately.
I think if you're looking for chemistry, don't just look at the ads. Look at their social media too to get an actual idea of who you're interested in.
everything is fake. I know a girl who writes or edits her reviews so she is no 1 in her city and in the top 10 in the country.
Janet:
Ads are marketing. It would be similar to saying you are trying to find the best burger out there by comparing the ads of McDonalds, Wendy's, and Burger King. It does not matter if she wrote them, her friend wrote them, or AI wrote them. They are ALL marketing. I feel like I keep writing you guys books and all you do is look at the gawd damn pictures.
And this is precisely why reviews matter so much for clients.
Clients can't really trust the ads that are constructed according to dishonest marketing and PR techniques.
Public reviews are really the only place (aside from backchannel networking not everyone has access to) to get accurate information on how it really is, and not how the seller wants to be perceived as.
And hence why people like myself get very upset when sellers try to get into clients lane and manipulate reviews to their benefit.
Trying to take away the only semblance of voice and truth that might remain. Like damn, how greedy are they. It's not enough for them to control the narrative in their end (ads, pr, etc) but also on the client's end as well.
But I guess, beautiful lies are easier to sell and put more bennies in the sellers pocket. Ugly truth is a tough sell.
I compose 100% of my Ads and curate my own Websites.
I'm highly-adept at creating copy for any platform as I'm a bit of a
linguist.
However, I've come to realize a great many "guys" do not thoroughly
peruse 0ne's Website, nor even the sparse detail of a simple Ad;
Evidentiary email inquiries I typically receive:
A) "Angelina, can U swing by my hotel rn ("right now")? 🗯️😵💫 (It's Midnight)
B) "U available today?" 😑
C) "Hi I wanna meet U rn rates?" 🤔
D) "Hey, where U located & what will $200 get me? 🤦♀️📍
E) "Angelina I'm in Beverly Hills rn come party with me?"📍
My "Non-Response" to all of the above; is, I do not "respond".... I delete.
The "proper gentleman" whom email queries with complete informational
requirements to schedule, receives a prompt, gracious and giddy response!
My Availability/Hours, Donations, Location and Scheduling Protocol is
clearly stated on my Personal Websites, however not always in my Ads.
This is "Marketing".... the purpose of the "Ad" is to entice/inspire one to
further peruse my Website, whereupon detailed information opens
"The Pandoras' Box".
xo Angelina Jones
in common. You say you are a linguist. Because I'm also a bit of a wordsmith, I consider myself a cunning linguist, which seems we could both do at the same time in the same place. Lol
one of mine was TheCunningLinguist. He was a buddy of Conan's.
Then I have beachfront property to sell you in Arizona. Theres full time jobs out there for social media and website builders. And nowadays you can use AI if you want generic not quite there feel to your ads...which most mongers won't care about because they just go to ad sites to look at pics and look at rates.
Before COVID, the ad copy was much more useful in figuring out the personality and demeanor of the provider. Not everyone had a blurb and I enjoyed reading the ones that did. I think most women used to write that stuff themselves. It helped identify providers that were educated and intelligent. It was a big part of the decision making process for me.
.
After COVID, a lot of services sprung up to help escorts with their marketing so now it is useless. Everyone figured out that having good ad copy could set you apart. Now that everyone has a blurb it doesn't help out as much. Everyone just started copying each other and everything sounds the same. I still read some of them, however. I use it to weed out escorts. It helps me identify lazy escorts, delusional escorts and demanding escorts.
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If the blurb is out of sync with the rest of their ad/branding I'll assume the provider is being lazy. For example, I saw an ad where a provider was wearing luxury clothing brands with photos in a high end hotel. She called herself a "girl next door" in her ad and it gave me bad vibes. Sometimes the blurb is downright delusional. You get this with cheap escorts who are not very good looking. They'll have awful pictures but call themselves a luxury experience while hyping up their own sex appeal. The final category is the demanding escort. These are the ones that have a list of requirements/demands and a ton of "No this and no that." Those ads just scream "NO FUN." Every once in a while they put a code-word in their ad. I understand that people have boundaries and expectations for safety. However, if your job is constantly forcing you to defend and maintain boundaries then maybe you should find another job. Anyway that's how I still use ads.
I take great pride in the fact that 100% of my ads and website copy have been personally handwritten throughout the years. I’m sure they can stand to be a bit more concise but they are authentic and portray the exact experience I provide.
That’s such a great question and honestly, with the rise of marketing, filters, AI, and ghostwriters, it’s getting harder to tell who’s really behind the words on an ad. Some ladies write their own, others hire someone to finesse the fantasy... but either way, I totally agree: real chemistry is something you can only feel in person.
My advice? Find a few providers who spark your interest, maybe you’re drawn to their vibe, their energy, or that certain glimmer in their eye. Check out their socials, read the reviews, send a thoughtful note, and just take the plunge and book. You can do all the research in the world, dot every “i” and cross every “t” and still not know if the magic is really there until you're face to face.
Chemistry can’t be forced, but connection can definitely be explored and sometimes, when you let go of expectations and just allow yourself to enjoy, the experience turns out even better than what you imagined. 😌
So relax, flirt a little, stay curious and don’t be afraid to chase that spark. Life’s too short to play it safe when you could be having an unforgettable time. 🔥