I don't want others feeling inferior when they can't get her off that many times. I do tell about the various services so that others will know what to expect.
I'm always honest. No reason not to be.
I NEVER write reviews for providers that don't want them, or providers that don't deserve one.
I NEVER write a review unless I can legitimately give a 9 - 9 or better in both categories.
As the OP said, the only thing I fudge just a little is in the looks department because as he said, I am hesitant to say something hurtful (and looks are subjective). Likewise, a girl can have a smoking body but a less than appealing face, or vice versa. There you have to split the difference. If her body is a 9 or 10 but her face is a 4 or 5 then she gets a 7. Likewise, if her face could launch a thousand ships, but her body is average, she gets a 7 for looks. Looks almost don't matter to me. I mean sure, she's gotta be halfway decent for me to even look at her, but as pudgy 40 something white guy, I can't be too criticizing.
Otherwise, I'm all about rating for performance. I write what went down to the best of my memory with how I felt and what the end results were. I like to read the gory details to get a sense of who I am hiring, I'm not here to judge the guy, but to get a sense of who the girl is and if I want to hire her for her services and I hope that other reviewers are doing the same. I usually put my own failings into my reviews as well. (Not posting under an alias because I don't give a shit). If I wanted to read porn, I'd find a porn site. This is a review site, so I look for honest reviews and I try to write them.
If the provider doesn't like my review, well, then maybe she should have tried a little harder, like I said, I'm honest about performance
that claimed CIM with a provider that I know for a fact does not do that. So yes, I think some guys feel the need to claim receiving a service that nobody else was provided in a lame "check me out, she did this for me but not for any of you losers" statement. Anonymous, made up man card validation is pretty f'd up and sad, IMO. Some of my reviews, particularly the early ones, might be a bit douchenozzley but there isn't a false statement in the lot.
Yes I agree !!! I have 2 reviews that state I provided cim and another for greek and thats just not true im always up front with what I will and WILL NOT provide to my clients
The truth is you don't really know...you only know what this (or any other) gal tells you.
If I wrote reviews anymore and discussed some of the shit gals have done in session with me...some dudes (perhaps even you?) would be aghast.
So I don't discuss specific activities anymore publicly. Simply some gals will do whatever with another dude...some write it up and a gal will denounce that as "I don't do that"....other dudes prefer to not write that shit up and keep what her preferences are BCD.
One thing is certain in HookerLand...both sides lie 
Posted By: thehumanist
that claimed CIM with a provider that I know for a fact does not do that. So yes, I think some guys feel the need to claim receiving a service that nobody else was provided in a lame "check me out, she did this for me but not for any of you losers" statement. Anonymous, made up man card validation is pretty f'd up and sad, IMO. Some of my reviews, particularly the early ones, might be a bit douchenozzley but there isn't a false statement in the lot.
You are correct, I don't "know for a fact" she doesn't, I know for a fact that she SAYS she doesn't. So either a) she was so turned on by this one reviewer that she couldn't bear to not taste his seed, b) she was so repulsed by me and every one else that has reviewed her that while she normally does she wouldn't, or c) the reviewer in question is engaging in wishful thinking and/or braggadocio. Though admittedly not a fact, I'm going with C! 
That sometimes a gal is comfortable enough with a well paying dude that she'll allow something that she really has NO interest in otherwise.
Hence the very reason why I won't publish that shit.
As for her real reasoning to allow something to a P4P dude...well, who really can say what her real reasoning is but the gal.
Posted By: thehumanist
You are correct, I don't "know for a fact" she doesn't, I know for a fact that she SAYS she doesn't. So either a) she was so turned on by this one reviewer that she couldn't bear to not taste his seed, b) she was so repulsed by me and every one else that has reviewed her that while she normally does she wouldn't, or c) the reviewer in question is engaging in wishful thinking and/or braggadocio. Though admittedly not a fact, I'm going with C!
Then it was pretty dickish or ignorant to include that detail in the review.
Especially when a gal they've been seeing a long time rejects them for a myriad of reasons.
I've had the displeasure to read reviews of some gal pals of mine written by a lovelorn john who was told he was becoming the "client who expected too much" or the "I've fallen" and she needs to eject him. Too often those "new" reviews (perhaps you know some of these gals as well?) often discuss things that they may have done at some point...and now this is the way for the john to "get even".
So yeah...dickish is a good way to put it. However they aren't fake reviews. Simply putting info out there for a self-serving purpose.
Posted By: thehumanist
Then it was pretty dickish or ignorant to include that detail in the review.
In a world built on fiction an abundance of lies should not be all that shocking. And yes in fact I have heard a couple of lovesick puppy tales, and while they confound me I try not to judge too harshly, not knowing the first thing about the circumstances that made those gentlemen susceptible to such fantasies. There but for the grace of God, as they say.
And for those guys who think a lady has to allow reviews, I can tel you I don't and it is possible not to have a review even though the guy tries to post one. A few well placed emails will do the trick, ha ha pun intended.
And honestly, if those dudes want to write (real or fake) a review on YOU they will. Now if you don't have the site or ad for him to use when trying to write a review that will generally result in a rejection from TER.
But if you think that a threatening email or two to the john would dissuade him....plenty of dudes wouldn't give a shit about that.
Unless you're suggesting that you let TER know that you aren't a gal that wants to be listed and have effectively delisted yourself for that exact reason...and now use this handle only for posting purposes. Yeah...that'll work
Posted By: hbyist+truth=;(
And for those guys who think a lady has to allow reviews, I can tel you I don't and it is possible not to have a review even though the guy tries to post one. A few well placed emails will do the trick, ha ha pun intended.
There are no threatening emails sent to any john. I dealt with the actual sites themselves, well not me personally. And if any ever sneak through, I am very diligent at checking and they get removed after another email is sent to the site in question.
All a dude needs to review you is a site and an ad. If those exist somewhere he can review you...just that simple.
If all you're doing is sending emails to a site to take down your ad (or site) to avoid the review...fine. However that would seem to be too late if the reviewer has already submitted his review with that information.
If you're discussing other review sites and they remove a review based on your request...that is a different issue. That isn't the case on TER.
Posted By: hbyist+truth=;(
There are no threatening emails sent to any john. I dealt with the actual sites themselves, well not me personally. And if any ever sneak through, I am very diligent at checking and they get removed after another email is sent to the site in question.
And it is not about contacting the site after the review has been posted.
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As well I will get that website up and run those threADs very shortly.
I'm also not cheap...and very discriminating.
I am highly educated, a world traveler and love to converse (that's an understatement LOL).
My favorite restaurant is Portillo's....but I also am quite comfortable at Harry Caray's. :
I'm expensive too.
Regarding Harry Caray's, great restaurant, I just can't finish all of the food ha. I think next time I'll remember to give my date the rest of my meat balls when they're still hot.
Portillo's is too expensive for me. 
I think it's because I'm really so highly educated...or perhaps due to my extensive narcissism. I'm not sure to be honest. Maybe because I'm cheap?
I know I like my food hot...so if you waited till the food was cold I can understand why he didn't want your scraps.
I hear they make a terrific French Martini as well.
Still I love me some Portillo's Italian beef. Hot peppers as well.
Will you help me pick out a wardrobe for this upcoming photo shoot?
Posted By: OpenMindedGFE
I'm expensive too.
Regarding Harry Caray's, great restaurant, I just can't finish all of the food ha. I think next time I'll remember to give my date the rest of my meat balls when they're still hot.
Portillo's is too expensive for me.
In a schoolgirl cheerleader outfit snapping your suspenders.
Now, what if your assistant 'assists' you in more than just - desktop duties?
This sounds like it might get a bit on the kinky side...which is no problem for me at all.
Not sure what to make of the assistant "assists" with more than just desktop duties....but if you're suggesting that somehow something illegal were to take place (such as sexual servitude)...Yeah, I'm down with that as well.
Posted By: OpenMindedGFE
In a schoolgirl cheerleader outfit snapping your suspenders.
Now, what if your assistant 'assists' you in more than just - desktop duties?
because I think that may be how I even get the job?
I want to see the goods as gravity meant them to be viewed, hanging down. No shaving off a few inches around the waist line. Since you will be new, I am prepared to TOFTT if I like your website and images.
So any wiggle room on your fee? How about a "generous" hour because you know I am on TER and I culd quite easily make or break your business.
That was fun
That's fine...but you know that there is absolutely NO NEGOTIATING my fees. You don't want to offend me by offering to pay me fees that are already astronomical. I'll be so offended that you'd want me to even think you devalue me as a person. I'm going to start crying now. Psst....I do negotiate...just don't tell anyone else...it's OUR secret
And it also sounds like you're expecting me to go out for OTC time to eat on your dime. What kind of guy do you think I am. Just because I'm ready to eat and have nothing else going on that day...sure, I'd love to
Aldo wants to do the upside down photos. I guess that'll work!
Posted By: hbyist+truth=;(
I want to see the goods as gravity meant them to be viewed, hanging down. No shaving off a few inches around the waist line. Since you will be new, I am prepared to TOFTT if I like your website and images.
So any wiggle room on your fee? How about a "generous" hour because you know I am on TER and I culd quite easily make or break your business.
That was fun.
Hey too much yapping , not enough lapping, get to it sweet cheeks.
I think more of them are totally fake, meaning they did not see that provider, than they are embellished.
Cheapskates who don't wan to pay for VIP post fake reviews to get access.
Since TER gives out free VIP, they're basically encouraging fake reviews. Post one so you can check out the girl you actually want to see, easy peasy. I have seen some where I know they can't be real... The guy is just listing off such general stuff there's no way he actually met a human being. Especially if you go back and look through his history and see that they're all copied and pasted nearly word for word...
But, if TER wants a certain type of customer I guess they are allowed that choice. They are the WalMart of hooked land, for now.
Pro - We get more reviews, therefore more publicity and verification that we're consistent.
Con - Guys are more encouraged to write fake reviews.
Damned if you do, damned if you don't, I guess!
I'd rather read less reviews knowing that they are real and from serious (paying) members.
Now, it seems that any asshat that wants a free VIP can cut and paste a fake review, which is why I stopped reading them. Ever wonder why they all start to sound the same after awhile?
I decided to see Courtney after reading her posts on the boards...
Pretty much sums it up
Tried PMing the guy to say thanks... but... I didn't see any new clients that month?
Obviously the timing is off for some, no biggie.
I have had 9's and 10's taken off if they were lies. i.e. had anal in them.
One dude tried to use this line on me. "I can go find a girl for fifty bucks. Therefore you should charge me fifty." I said, "Ok, have fun with that other girl." ha. SIX months later I got a review saying he boinked me up the arse. Aww hell no.
I know there are a few of mine that make me go "wow, well I'm glad that's how you felt about it!" Lol! Mostly accurate, but I just maybe didn't feel the connection as strongly as he did, or maybe I didn't feel like I did as good of a job as he seemed to think, but if that's how he perceived it, then hey. It is someone else's description of their side of an experience. For what they are and from what I've seen doing doubles, they might be a little fluffy to protect a girls feelings every once in a while, but they're fairly accurate, for the most part.
I think the rest of the complaining comes from people who aren't going to get a 10 from a girl no matter how much they pay her. We try, but we can only work with what we are given. If you've seen a bunch of great girls and not one of them even came close to her reviews and they aren't all from brand new people handing out 10/10s like candy, well... There might be a reason everyone else was impressed and you weren't. They can't ALL be hoodwinked, and this never believing a 10/10 stuff has always seemed a bit dramatic to me.
I don't trust 10/10 reviews myself. I look for continuity. When I see a string of 8/9s I tend to throw out the random 6 as a pissed off client. I also get a laugh at the guy who gave the provider "several O's". Really?! Got some mad oral skills do ya?LOL Uh dude, she does this for a living...
Posted By: OhCharlie
I know there are a few of mine that make me go "wow, well I'm glad that's how you felt about it!" Lol! Mostly accurate, but I just maybe didn't feel the connection as strongly as he did, or maybe I didn't feel like I did as good of a job as he seemed to think, but if that's how he perceived it, then hey. It is someone else's description of their side of an experience. For what they are and from what I've seen doing doubles, they might be a little fluffy to protect a girls feelings every once in a while, but they're fairly accurate, for the most part.
I think the rest of the complaining comes from people who aren't going to get a 10 from a girl no matter how much they pay her. We try, but we can only work with what we are given. If you've seen a bunch of great girls and not one of them even came close to her reviews and they aren't all from brand new people handing out 10/10s like candy, well... There might be a reason everyone else was impressed and you weren't. They can't ALL be hoodwinked, and this never believing a 10/10 stuff has always seemed a bit dramatic to me.
Plenty of guys write that "excellent" review so the gal doesn't go ballistic on his ass.
But behind the scenes they tell those who are curious a very different rendition.
Posted By: OhCharlie
Just saying ;-p
I just don't like the idea that a girl just CANT do that good of a job on here. Some do get a little crazy, but that can be avoided by doing your homework. I know the majority of the guys won't go through a lot of effort other than "yup she's hot and yup she's got reviews", but those of us who actually do work and try to earn and live up to our scores shouldn't be counted out just because a guy got a chip on his shoulder from a story he heard.
Again, just saying. I know there are shady people on both sides. But I don't hold every asshole against every guy I meet, and I would hope the guys would be capable of the same.
Nope...she didn't actually have any O's. But she did put on a terrific show.
As well as that her pics are a bit photoshopped... But she's still an OK looking gal. But IRL a 6 or 7.
And she does tend to babble, so he has to initiate the action or the entire time may be spent listening to one of her riveting true life adventures around the world.
See...backchannel isn't necessarily a bad thing. Just tends to put the reality into perspective.
Posted By: OhCharlie
I just don't like the idea that a girl just CANT do that good of a job on here. Some do get a little crazy, but that can be avoided by doing your homework. I know the majority of the guys won't go through a lot of effort other than "yup she's hot and yup she's got reviews", but those of us who actually do work and try to earn and live up to our scores shouldn't be counted out just because a guy got a chip on his shoulder from a story he heard.
Again, just saying. I know there are shady people on both sides. But I don't hold every asshole against every guy I meet, and I would hope the guys would be capable of the same.
Those are all quite true.
Maybe even a few dudes who saw you made those comments. I get why you'd rather think those are negative in nature, but they are truthful.
I suspect that gals have similar comments in PM/email about the dudes they appear to love online, and let the gals know that he really is just a horribly needy dude with a light wallet.
Or we could all just shit rainbows and live happily ever after.
You are just trying to argue at this point, and I really don't care if you want to try and throw little jabs like that at me. I know how I run my business, and the fact that I can be completely booked for an entire month off one mailing list note, meeting just one new person, and retiring in a month after barely even being here, shows me what the back channel says about me. So, go on with your childish self. It's not workin here.
Back channeling is not your opinion and the two are completely separate issues no matter how you want to try and twist them into being the same. Just because I think you have a negative POV about the hobby doesn't mean I don't also acknowledge that BS goes on and what kind of things are said in private. In fact, I've talked about the BS part in every post on this thread, so you're really just repeating everything I have with a stank attitude as if you've never once had a good time doing this, and it's all just a crap shoot. That is the only difference in what we are saying. I think people might have a chance, you clearly don't. If you need to get some of that anger out, go see a therapist or pick a fight that could actually be one. Don't just repeat what I've said and try to start something from there.
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A "little"? I remember getting bitched out (OK maybe a little) because I gave a provider an good review IMO 8ish /9 ish. She told me she was a 10 and sure enough her next review was a 10/10. Please! Talk about arm twisting. To me an 8 or 9 was a "good" review. To her. It was an insult.
Posted By: OhCharlie
I just don't like the idea that a girl just CANT do that good of a job on here. Some do get a little crazy, but that can be avoided by doing your homework. I know the majority of the guys won't go through a lot of effort other than "yup she's hot and yup she's got reviews", but those of us who actually do work and try to earn and live up to our scores shouldn't be counted out just because a guy got a chip on his shoulder from a story he heard.
Again, just saying. I know there are shady people on both sides. But I don't hold every asshole against every guy I meet, and I would hope the guys would be capable of the same.
Yeah, I would say that's a little... Some guys have been outed and blackmailed because of stuff, so whining about a review just doesn't seem like that big of a deal, grand scheme if you know what I mean.
Plus, I see how much girls do complain and how much actually gets done about it by TER, so by all means, write that honest review. I think the ones who get pushy should be the first to have a note saying so. Those girls, and the guys who just let it happen to them, are why the review system isn't trusted, and why some end up getting ripped off. It's really not that serious. I know girls with 7s for their performance average who do great. No, they won't be in the Top 100, but their business is doing well because they have found a niche and are able to hold on to regulars. There are even girls who do well without having any reviews at all. They are not the be all and end all of our business like some seem to think, so be honest but kind if you must write a review, and if you're worried maybe have a separate review handle, lol
Posted By: DURHAMDREW63
I also get a laugh at the guy who gave the provider "several O's". Really?! Got some mad oral skills do ya?LOL Uh dude, she does this for a living...
Ha! I love those! I feel like asking if she still took the money, or maybe offered to pay him instead. Acting like you're Casanova when you're paying for it is a little ridiculous IMO.
Like I always say ... Ask your SO (wife,GF, whatever) how many O's she had. She'll tell ya the "real" number ...
Posted By: NeilDiamond
Posted By: DURHAMDREW63
I also get a laugh at the guy who gave the provider "several O's". Really?! Got some mad oral skills do ya?LOL Uh dude, she does this for a living...
Ha! I love those! I feel like asking if she still took the money, or maybe offered to pay him instead. Acting like you're Casanova when you're paying for it is a little ridiculous IMO.
A few thoughts about 10/10 reviews.
Some people, I'm sure, have this down to the T and it's extremely well thought out.
Hair and makeup, as well as dress, lingerie, etc. are HUGE in making a pretty girl a knock-out.
I watched an America's Next Top Model marathon when I was extremely bored all day. There was an episode where the girls had to choose outfits in a small amount of time that would accentuate their bodies well.
Longer legs and shorter torsos, shorter legs and longer torsos, long necks vs. shorter necks, long hair/short hair, colors, etc. etc.
It does make a difference.
I got a ten in looks only once, but the guy explained why. It was about what HE was attracted to. I felt awkward with the 10/10; however, I appreciated his thorough explanation of why he thought this way. It helped me understand what 'beauty in the eye of the beholder' really means.
I think one dude still thinks I look like a 60's Playboy model body type, which was a compliment to me. We are dealing with a lot of guys who have grown up with models in the mags of different bodies and styles throughout the years, which is why I think "model material" is appropriate for some guys to write. It doesn't say, "2014 model material". It simply states "model".
One in a lifetime can also ring true for the ladies who - err - no one could probably get without money, even IRL. If they can, it's a one in a lifetime thing. Once the envelope is dropped, it becomes a fantasy that the guy actually landed the Once in a lifetime, couldn't be better chick that, IRL, really is something they think they would have one window of opportunity to experience.
Here, that once in a lifetime experience becomes available on a more frequent basis because - well - money is involved. They just get to do it over and over and over again, and write a fantasy review about it.
In performance the max is 7, with one point added for, kiss with tongue, BBBJ, Greek, Bi, or second provider. So that 10 takes some commitment, or guys just take her word for it or what??
Am I wrong on this? Have I been wrong all along?
I have never offered greek and have gotten more than a few 10s in service.
I was really talking about looks, but service as well. There are ladies who are not only superb arm candy, but also carry themselves and present themselves in a very impressive manner, making the man look great in public. (Talking about dates out.)
Now - skipping all that show shit, he pops right into a bedroom with a chick he could never dream of just picking up at a bar and going straight home, let alone randomly calling her and getting in and laid guaranteed? If that happened, it would be one in a lifetime for certain girls. Score!
Back to scores in service. If it's offered and you mention it would have been available, you can give a 10. I'm not 100% sure if you even have to mention that it would have been available if you wanted it. Never wrote a review.
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...offer it (it needs to be marked on her profile) she doesn't have to actually do it with you. If it's on her profile (read offered) she can recieve a 10. One point of clarification bring another provider is not one of the things that qualifies her for another point. "More than one guy at a time" does.
The rest are fairly honest.
Posted By: NeilDiamond
I see a lot of people saying or implying that reviews here, particularly the "juicy details" sections, are largely made up. I'm wondering how true that is. Personally, everything I write is entirely true. I'll even write about the times when I have equipment failure, which is hardly something you'd read in Penthouse Letters. The only thing I sometimes fudge a bit on is the looks rating -- I know the provider will likely read the review, and I'm hesitant to say something hurtful (besides, looks are very subjective). But as far as what went down, I tell it like it is.
What I'm wondering is, do people really make shit up in their reviews? If so, why? The whole value of a review site depends on the honesty of contributors. If we're lying then what's the point? And we're all more or less anonymous here. Do guys really feel the need to make up shit to impress internet strangers? I'm just curious what others' take on this might be. (Posting under an alias because I don't want my own reviews picked apart!)
I agree with you about looks; all you need to know is if the pictures are accurate - but we have had this discussion before ad nauseum. I won't book a woman that I don't think is at least attractive - so 7 or higher. Your Opinion Will Vary - Get Used to It. *YOWVGUTI*
I have not put anything into the juicy details that did not happen. However, the few experiences I have reviewed have not been the only experiences I have had - I have to admit that I have cherry picked a particular session to write about because it was (in my opinion) unusual or spectacular.
The reason for this is that I book well reviewed providers that have a ton of reviews already. From my point of view, unless it was really note worthy - what am I adding? and why is it worth my time to write it out?
Now - if I were one of those maniacs to TOFTT, I could see reviewing stuff that was more mundane....
I would skip right over the ones that totally degrade and say passive aggressive, mean things about the woman. Those are obviously fake reviews.
It's one thing to give an honest opinion, but another to rag on her and be a total dick about it. I would be contacting the guy saying exactly this.
"Hey. Change that review. Keep the scores, whatever, but you don't talk to me like that. Honesty and how you really felt is good, being downright nasty and abusive in your wording is another. I don't provide services to jerks, so I would not have seen you."
Anyway, I just read a review mentioned on here, and just think --- come on. No. Totally fake IMO.
If ALL other reviews speak well of a woman, obviously the guy's got a beef... and it's something a third grader would do. Grow up people.
Why shouldn't any dude report that in his review? He is paying (in many cases) a months worth of disposable income to be made to feel like the only guy in the world.
When a gal isn't at her best and gives, in the reviewers opinion, a lackluster effort...which often times is her babbling endlessly about her issues, that is what I tend to see in certain reviews.
So when that happens (and it happens to every gal here at one time of another) I would expect that a reviewer get's the "That's a fake review" from a gal and her WK contingent.
Honestly I tend to dismiss the majority and look for an outlier to more accurately describe what may indeed happen BCD.
So I do agree that a reviewer may "have a beef"...but often times for good cause.
Posted By: OpenMindedGFE
I would skip right over the ones that totally degrade and say passive aggressive, mean things about the woman. Those are obviously fake reviews.
It's one thing to give an honest opinion, but another to rag on her and be a total dick about it. I would be contacting the guy saying exactly this.
"Hey. Change that review. Keep the scores, whatever, but you don't talk to me like that. Honesty and how you really felt is good, being downright nasty and abusive in your wording is another. I don't provide services to jerks, so I would not have seen you."
Anyway, I just read a review mentioned on here, and just think --- come on. No. Totally fake IMO.
If ALL other reviews speak well of a woman, obviously the guy's got a beef... and it's something a third grader would do. Grow up people.
I'm really more speaking about degrading language and almost making fun of, and / or exposing something that a mature person would word respectfully.
Looking at outlier reviews is good, but I'm sure you know how to discern if the guy is simply being mean vs. telling the real deal.
If I write a review that is honest but out of the norm, well you know what happens either way. And the process is flawed too. If I say she is a 9 in looks, a statement of taste, then the haters and WK both attack me. Even if she reads me like a her favorite book and I totally enjoy the session, an honest review in this system can fall too far below the norm. So, lie or be honest? I have learned that it is better for me in my small community to just not tell everyone how good a time I did or did not have, if it will not be her average review. Thank you to the ones that have helped me establish a presence here. By the way, if someone back channels me for dirt on a provider, you will not get it. Other information probably yes, but I will not say in pm something bad that I will not say to her face. Yes someone did ask.
May you have your world rocked for reading this silly drivel, may you orgasm into a comma
(coma,, decided to leave it for silly effect )
Ok I get some guys will write false reviews to get free VIP (how cheap is that?) but I do not get making false statements in reviews either good or bad. I am very well aware that my reviews are way long and as one girl claimed here rather "Verbose" in nature but I do say what did take place as accurately as I can so that others who are trying to decide if they may want to see the same girl and so that the girls services are clearly depicted to help her get more biz. Ok I do get off on them also I admit lol.
But to say a girl does something she does not to such as Greek in a review just does not make sense to me even if it is for self "Bravado" and even if you are pissed at a beautiful girl just state why about her service along with a low score but do not give a girl who has 9 or possibly 10 looks a 6 or something it's just not being honest!
Sometimes you can't tell the girl to her face. I'll admit, I've gotten upset with a regular or two who said my service wasn't up to par or improving, but it seemed it was more that I scheduled with them during time off when I was in pain or something of the like.
I also think some guys start expecting us to act like we're falling in love, which is extremely tough for me. I can be passionate and erotic, however, falling in love or having that extreme attraction is rare.
I have, however, had clients where I can see that being easier than others due to intense chemistry. I've only had a few of those, however.
There are also 'off days', where a guy will book a fourth or fifth appointment and he may feel I'm losing interest or something of the like. But really, it's simply just not one of my best days or performances. Though still good, every appointment won't be better than the last. If they were, they should be switching reviews from 8/9's to 10/10's and stating I should be a 15/15. (i.e. impossible to reach some expectations.)
Knowing how to communicate problems in this arena is a skillset that is extremely difficult to gain IMO. Some people have a knack for that, but most don't know how to tactfully communicate to a professional sex worker that her skills aren't up to par. It'll hurt an ego if not done properly. Even if it is done perfectly, the perception of the provider can be skewed due to insecurities, or even a bad day.
Now if she's blasting your name all over the internet for trying to gain a better experience or giving constructive criticism, then she's in the wrong.
The discovery of the century. Really, what you think?
