This is all about fantasy, I know, and maybe I'm the only one bothered by this but whenever I see an ad to the effect that a provider has one or two "openings left", I move on. In my mind, there is no more effective way to convey that we are one of many simply faceless appointments "slotted" (pun intended) in her busy schedule. I know that no offense is intended and that economics theory suggests that scarce availability intensifies demand, but there must be a more hobbyist friendly message. Does anyone else feel the same?

unless you get a 10 am appt.  No, that phraseology doesn't bother me. Like it or not, hobbyists are just Johns/Tricks. Don't delude yourself otherwise. I'm realistic enough not to be offended by the term "openings left". (I usually hope the "opening left" is her ass)!!!!  





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Both you (or I) and the provider have to suspend disbelief in almost all of the visits we have.   She has to believe that I am handsome, young, great company, etc, or act as if all of this is true.  I have to live the fantasy that I am the one who is enjoying time with this sexy young girl because she likes being with me.

  If you can't suspend disbelief and can only think of the business part of it, it is bound to be unsatisfying.   I don't even have a problem discussing other men with the providers I see, especially with my ATF.  That does not detract from my experience because I am very good at living the fantasy as if it were real.

If she is on tour for, say three days, and only takes one appointment a day- she can still say she has an "opening left"... Or she could take one in the morning and one at night and still have an "opening left". You really can't infer anything from that phrase. It's plenty "hobbyist friendly"- it's just your interpretation of it that's bothersome (to you).

Semantics aside, c'mon now. Some of the best providers out there see multiple clients a day. What matters is not how many she sees but how she treats YOU during YOUR time together.

Kornlover,

I no longer have VIP so I'm unable to PM. I hope everything is going good in your real life as well as living the fantasy

bodes ill on multiple levels.

remember, this is supposed to be fun.

I agree that it sounds a little mechanical.  I'm low volume so I'd never phrase it that way anyway.  I'm conscious about these wording too, and I always say I'm either available or unavailable.  After all, I have other things to do in my life and unavailable doesn't mean I'm booked with clients all day.

I alwasy assume up to three available, but sometimes only 2

To me it is about class.

Some things are better left unsaid.

Also, a good provider figures out a way to make money without being a pin ball machine.

cinderella

There will be no end of buyers for the "last" of anything, and, no one ever wants to be the first to buy anything.

While leaving a Penn & Teller program one day, Penn was in the lobby hawking the "last" videotape left of their performance to any taker.

As soon as it was sold promptly sold, a flunky shouted out:  "Look Penn, I found one more copy of the video!"

Lesson learned.

"What time [slot] is available?"

Maturity and experience in the business tell us that it can be that way sometimes...
but both should also tell us that a true GFE provider is interested in not only maintaining an illusion for your sake, but hers as well so that she can concentrate on her craft/enjoying courtship with you.

As for everyone else, non-GFE...it is what it is.

There are a ton of hobbyists who are excited at the prospect of the fact that the woman he's about to spend time with is so desirable that 5 other men just paid to fuck her.

...misassumption that "slots" equate to quantity of appointments. You're right she could be tending to any number of things outside of the hobby. Point taken.

or does all this talk about slots and openings make anyone else horny?

I'm thinking gang bang!

Two people see each other as faceless appointments.  That's a match made in Heaven.  Presumably, you are not paying just for her face and she does not accept your face as currency.

If there is an opening left, we should be gentlemen and fill it.  Whether that is a time slot or an orifice.  

asks me what time slot do you have left, I laugh.

Katie

Yes hun I would have to agree. I like to keep my schedule my little secret. There are some guys though that like to know they arn't the only one. Those providers would probably suit them well. You seem to be the kind of guy who prefers a more intimate personal experience. mmmm my kind of guy hehe

Although I can see why that approach would be tempting on the 15th. Mortgage

I can't imagine spreading myself so thin.  
Bad Pun. Bad Pun. Oh spanking to me.

For example if someone asks 'Do you have availability during the afternoon of MM/DD/YY?' then he is likely hoping for a reply that either says 'no' or an affirmative reply of sorts that lists specific time slots so that he can match them to his own availability.

Likewise if his first query is more specific, e.g. 'Are you avaliable between 3 and 4 pm on MM/DD/YY?' then a stand alone 'no' reply without alternative options may result in a missed opportunity on each end.

Either way we do not know the daily calendar of the provider that is of interest to us.  So while I suppose there are better ways to ask the question than others, at some point the lady has to share her specific availabilty.    



     

First of all, it sounds like you are making an assumption when you see those words that the lady is seeing ten guys a day back to back to back.  This is most often not the case. Many touring ladies only see two or three appointments a day with a fairly large block of recovery time in between. An opening is just that, an available time slot. By itself it says nothing, to me at least, about how many came before or after.

Ultimately the ladies are selling and we are buying. I don't think to much about that aspect of the hobby but it is reality.

While each provider chooses how many men she meets, I've been reading various posts about how some limit clients. Which a personal preference- so be it, if that's what makes you happy...but why look down at providers that prefer more action? I like having lots of trysts, each is different & its not always about getting f-ed. Variety is a good thing in my opinion! While I do like having my regulars for a sweet lingering GFE, I also love those men who simply enjoy a good blow or massage or even PSE!

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While it can be true that you are getting sloppy 3rd, 4ths or ???? Some of us are truly low volume providers who state that not as a marketing gimmick, but out of preference.  So when one person cancels, that may be the only client of the day or half of my business.  This hobby is moonlighting for me, it supplements my other income which in turn allows me to be more selective about who I see, keep things discreet (not as suspicious having many men knocking on my hotel door) and etc.  I like to get out and tour the city I'm visiting, or hit some bike paths, and usually bring my laptop with me so I can do my other job or homework for school.  It's like a mini-retreat.  I guess it's all just a matter of doing some homework on a gal and make the choice accordingly.  If you are not comfortable with her seeing someone before you request a first of the day appointment~

Semantics aside, if someone wants to see me and asks what day is best for me or afternoon/evening/whatever I will tell them when I won't be busy.

Katie