I will be visiting an independent provider soon who has very positive reviews, averaging at least an 8, probably 8.5.  From our converstions on the phone I also was left with the impression that this is an honest caring provider.  

If the session goes well, I would like to suggest to her that she needs to improve her ads to attract quality clients.  Her most recent internet ads have been in ALL CAPS with poor punctuation and grammar among other issues. In the past they had not been so bad.  If I had not seen previous ads, I would not have responded to the current ones.

Why would I want to do this?  Because her reviews indicate that she is a good provider and I don't think she should be stuck attracting low-lifes because of her ads.  Nothing else there at all.  I'm also someone who calls companies to complain or complement when I think they have done something right or wrong.

So ... am I out of line sand better off minding my  own business?

let me understand this correctly, and by all means, correct me if I am wrong. You believe she is stuck attracting low-lifes because her ads are composed of gramatical errors and typed in all caps? Believe me honey, some of my best clients could not spell for shit but their money was just as green as the next guy. Good grammar does not a quality client make.

She attracts who she attracts when it comes to this industry. She will always be too heavy, too thin, not enough 9's-10's in her reviews or too many. Most men, and I do mean most men, could care less how well she spells or how well typed out her ads are...it's all about the service. Because when you turn it all around, she could have an incredible command of the English Language and speak Latin and quote Aristotle and fuck like a dead fish.

So to answer your question, myob and do not pressume because of her lack of literary skill she is attracting a bad lot of guys.....because in the end, it is about fucking, not spelling.

Be Safe,
GLFB

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during the first session.  See her a few times and get a sense whether she has any interest in "improving" her website.  It may be that she's doing just fine with her website the way it is.  Maybe she likes "lowlifes" -- if that's what she's attracting -- a lot more than Eddie Haskells.

You state that you don't think she should be stuck attracting low-lifes because of her ads...yet she ATTRACTED YOU ! ! ! !
who is the lady .....we need to warn her about you ......

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Tank ewe

. . . does negatively affect my attraction to a provider. It indicates that she is careless.

I don't know if it would be out-out-line; depending on our chemistry, I may say something about her web site.

you would correct the spelling and grammar errors in your post first.

I count at least four.

It's funny that we have our ample share of moralists and do-gooders in this community to choke a horse. It's a great thought, but leave it at that. She is not here to serve for the pleasure of who you see as higher is class; low-lifes have money too. She is a whore and her business is to serve all and whom she chooses. If you need to have a rescue fetish, go build a Habitat home or feed and clothe mothers with small children whose only refuge is the street. If she's really good at this, she makes a lot more than you do, poor grammar, punctuation have nothing to do with her true oral talents I am sure.

Your claim that she only attracts lowlifes and you contacted her for an appointment is funny. I know what you are trying to say it just came out wrong. LOL I don't think a providers ad in all capitals is going to attract lowlifes to see her. Does the ad matter at all when you read a providers reviews and they are good? Most provider ads are the same. They state where the provider is going to be and what dates. The all capitals thing could be considered annoying, but that is about it. As for her grammer as long as she is not spelling cat D-O-G, then she is fine. If this is the first time you are seeing her I would not saying anything to her about this. If you see her again and build a friendship with her then at that time you should consider bringing this up to her.

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. . . it would not help her business. I for one can't stand all caps.

I don't think there's any harm in pointing out the  writing problems.

Hope all is well

xo
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You haven't even met her yet and already you are trying to change her.  Today, it's her spelling and grammar.  Next, you'll be suggesting she change her hair, clothes, make-up, donation rate so that she'll "attract higher quality clients."  Leave her alone, she's doing just fine without your help.

That place is a testimonial to the failure of the public school system and "Caps Lock" syndrome. However; beginning your association by correcting and criticizing her ad copy may not be accepted as graciously as you are willing to dole it out.

folks who constantly whine about service, even before you get it, and wonder why your bags, destined for JFK, somehow wound up in Beirut.
sgandolfs

1. on an ego trip?
2. a nit-picker?
3. paranoid about being possibly considered an other "low-life" (your term!!!) by association?
4. just an asshole?
Or any combination of the above?

PS "normal" hobbyists see providers because of certain body parts they (the providers) are endowed with and which they know to use very well to the client's enjoyment - maybe their own too, at times - not to ignore the financial benefits.

It's her business.  Unless she asks for advice (in which case, she has to get to know you much better first) don't inject yourself into her business this way.  You would never think of doing this with your doctor or lawyer; why should you do it here?

If my doctor's or lawyer's web site is in all caps, I probably would say something like, "Hey, your web site is in all caps, which makes it hard to read."

As for my business, I don't mind anyone -- including strangers -- offering their opinions. Actually I would appreciate it.

Write her an ad that you think will be more tasteful and alluring to the more upscale men. This way it's somewhat annonomous and she may or may not upload it onto her site.  Where's the risk?? JMHO

Outstanding web site.  Your videos are awesome.  Now, when are you coming to the southeast?

The hell with the southeast how about Boson lol

Hey boyz

I was in ATL for 4 months and hated it. I may try Boston, never been there. But unfortunately my school restricts me from travelling. (dreaming) One day soon... I hope...lol

Christina xox

If it were a suggestion on how the session could have been better, I would say he should go ahead.  If she mentions the website and her spelling trouble, he should offer help.  If he got to know her and was friends with her, then he could bring it up in good ettiquete.  If it were just a slight mistake, he could mention it.        

However, if he's just meeting her for the first time, it's too much like "with my brains and your body...." It's just gauche; a little too dominating. Furthermore, as far as you'd know, the website is that bad because she's too touchy about her spelling. Just enjoy the session.  

There are only so many ways providers are unlike other professions.  You'd probably suggest corrections on a doctor's or lawyer's website if they were slight, but you likely wouldn't go to a doctor or lawyer with major mistakes on their website.  The same doesn't really apply to a provider.  

I'd presume that she can visit other ladies' sites and compare, and she already knows she's not competant at writing.  There's enough of a providers' network that can lead her to people who can build websites and write copy.  WebTerrorist perhaps?      

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