I've been told more than a few times that I'm good looking or handsome but I believe that it's more flattering remarks or the ones who've complimented me are more complimenting my demeanor.

I was always taught by my parents to be respectful and treat people the way you want to be treated. So, I try to be kind and considerate and courteous to everyone. Until they are rude to me and then I'm rude back to them.

I've also been told I'm sexy but I believe that's more being confident in myself. I always try to be clean and have excellent hygiene. I do have a fear of having bad breath so I carry mints all the time.

When I look in the mirror every day, I see an average looking guy. But each day, I try to help someone out, that is one of my goals each day.
Sometimes I reach my goal and sometimes I don't. I try to help people down on their luck and less fortunate than myself. People that live on the street or are on freeway offramps, asking for change.    

Sorry, I guess I'm just babbling..It's late and was a stressful day.

RH

because guys like to get laid often

and you are a sure thing honey!  There's not a whole lot of gambling or guesswork when I see a reputable provider.  Let's face it, providers provide a necessary service that is often convenient and has little risk of rejection or emotional distress.

And not every good-looking guy is good at the dating game or is married to a nympho who gives him his "medicine" enough times.  I'm sure part of the "attractiveness" is confidence, and I'm exponentially more confident with a provider because I know where our date is going.  And that excites me!  

Either way, I try to be a respectful gentleman at all times so I hope that adds to my attractiveness.

I'm not the least bit attractive, so prior to any meeting I try to set the lady's expectations, very, very low... mentioning through email my "hunchback", "clubfoot", "mis-shaped head", "unibrow", etc.

So when the big day arrives and Average Joe shows up rather than Quasimodo, many women are so relieved that they actually mistake "not hideous" for "attractive".

If she's happy and I'm happy, does it really matter if I'm faking it [being sexy]?

-- Modified on 8/9/2006 6:04:51 AM

Re:Handsome clients...;o)

I guess I can pass for handsome ....it's just that some nights when the moon is full...

hair...teeth...get hairier... and fangs and stuff.

Howl!

I wonder - I have been toled by a number of providers that there are two categories of clients who have said they truly care for them; those who can’t accept that the provider continue in the business and those who can accept that the provider continues in the business.  In the first case the provider must chose whether or not to chuck her business for the partner and she feels pleasured and un-loved; in the second case she continues to provide but wonders why if her partner really loves her how they could accept her doing such intermit things with other people and therefore she doesn’t feel cherishes; and we all want to feel cherished and loved by another person in our base relationship.  So, IMHO, we may have a great physical session but if there is not the feeling of being cherished and truly emotionally loved by our partner it just part of the physical game.  My .02 - W

PS (Please forgive my spelling)

We're not gettin' it at home.
Sure I could go out and get a girl on the side, but that kind of relationship is fraught with complications.  I'd rather have a girl leave me alone afterwards. I have a wife. No, I don't have to pay for sex, I DO have to pay for a girl I've had sex with to shut up and go away.  OK, maybe that's a callous way to say it, but many of us are paying for discretion, not just sex. If I was having a non-sexual relationship and regularly seeing a woman outside of my marriage, my wife would still be pissed as hell. Understandably.