I agree with the provider putting it on. The providers probably prefer that too to make sure it is put on right.

That's been my experience, anyway.

There's a movie quote regarding advice to ladies on handling sessions:  

"Stay in control.  

Know how far you're willing to go to get the dough.  

And always put the rubber on yourself!"

 
That's my mantra right there, baby.  LMAO!!!

 
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I personally don't care who puts it on.  All I care about is that sex follows quickly after that, otherwise I will lose my erection, since condoms remove so much of the sensation for me.

I guess that is a mixed blessing though.  Because of the fact that they eliminate so much of the sensation, that means that to just keep an erection with one on, I have to pound a woman so hard and for so long that she will usually cum several times, while meanwhile I can't nut at all inside the stupid cover.  Naturally the ladies don't ever complain about that kind of performance which honestly is not even intended anyway, but for me, it is like what the hell, I hate these stupid condoms.  The person who invented them needs to be shot or something.

Most of the time, I will put the condom on.  Sometimes my hands/fingers are covered with lube which can make the task rather challenging.

I can barely get the thing on right, inside out, backwards, upside down you name it. Like HOC, I've masturbated with a condom on. This is embarrassing, and unsafe behavior one time I was with a gal(a complete idiot of a gal) who kept trying to use the same condom on me. I was under the influence and couldn't maintain an erection, the condom became stretched out, and kept falling off, but she kept trying to put it back on(I know this is unsafe) I was so turned off by her stupidity, I couldn't even tell her that she was participating in a unsafe behavior, and that the condom was ineffective at that point. She ended up asking for a loan, after that me and my flaccid penis went home.

To be chivalrous, I've often attempted to only to be rebuked by escorts who say that this is part of their job.

What say all ye

I like fumbling around a little bit...gets the guy a little impatient and reduces his hard on to a semi.
Allows me to have fun prepping you again 😜

and, applying it by mouth was one of the first things I learned in this industry.  

It's so engrained in me that I actually did it my first time with a civvie boyfriend about 3 years ago. He hadn't realized I'd applied it at all, and after we finished, kept saying, 'How did you DO that?' I wasn't out to him. I became extremely paranoid that he KNEW

Mish, when her legs/feet on my chest, I'll do it...it all depends on mood and position.