Oral Pleasures and i'm not talking food here

My mother always said " treat others the way you wish to be treated". Little did she know she was giving me table manners for the bedroom.

I like my clit sucked and licked with plenty of tongue but please no teeth. My claim to fame isn't being a multi tasker so i'm not a big fan of 69. I prefer you do me, I do you and then you do me some more.

Giving turns me on to no end and find myself doing self pleasure at the same time. I love to please my man and find the more I please him the more I will get in return.

So tell me do you prefer giving or getting

I'm talking about the foreplay here not the main event.

Kisses Haley

And there are times, when clients just don't go there. They don't DATY or DFK, I go with it but it seems in the end that something was lacking.
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I like doing 69 but your right I can focus on giving (my favorite) or receiving when we take turns.
P.S. I really like when a girl truly enjoys receiving.

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I like to make things last as long as possible. I much prefer more giving than receiving. Not that I don't mind getting.
I also, love the cool down too.

what's not to enjoy..Just sit back and let someone else drive you to distaction..I'm never in a rush so please take your time

Kisses Haley

I'm glad so many men do like to please. It gets my motor running

Kisses Haley

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I like to do one on one - concentrate on my partner and then have him (or her) concentrate on me.

Although I do great at multi taking I prefer to leave that for my threesomes :-P

Tongue is always good. Fast rapid action and firmness to it. Avoiding jamming fingers hard into me or biting of any kind.

I am definitely a giver but never say no to those that feel the same way. As long as everyone is happy at the end thats all that matters

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I love oral sex. Giving and recieving....

Giving....is the best when the person is just about to go there and I know I am causing them to feel G-R-E-A-T!!! and I love the faces they make.. yup I like to look at my partner while I am head bobbing!!!!...my only pet peeve is PLEASE DONT PUT YOUR HAND ON MY HEAD.....I can't stand to gag. I promise I will get the job done....just don't try to help me out...gagging will make me puke and that is not going to be any fun for anyone. Gagging makes me puke.... Maybe this is why I could never be a nurse?

Recieving....I have piercings on my va jay jay....I can't have any sort of rough sex....any signs you are about to bite me....or you are getting too rough...will result in a very fast moving Allure' scooting away from you. Gentle....easy....slow...and trust me you won't be sorry. Its gets me going!!!

69ing.......I cannot multi task. If you just must have my ass in your face it is cool....but I will still insist we take turns.


Allure`

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There is a basher here that is sure to lock on my post but what the heck.  One of the reasons I plan on seeing my 1st provider on a upcoming trip is because of the desire to explore oral pleasures.  I've have none, zero, zip, as a giver or receiver.  Wife says it "sounds" gross.  So, I would appreciate any pointers to a total oral newbie.

to ask the lady what pleases her. She will already know what it takes to please you. Just ask her what she likes, and follow her instructions. You'll love it.

And I'm with you, Haley. I do you, then you do me, then I do you some more, maybe take a little break, and have at it again. I love foreplay, and I could spend the entire time just playing. I can't think of anything I like more than licking a pussy.

start licking around the edges and spent several minutes before you get to it.

Use lots of tongue and never any teeth unless she asks for it.  (Some like it, most don't.)

Also, if she starts saying "yes, yes" or something similar, just stay with what you are doing and don't change less you'll have one disappointed kitty; and you don't want that.

8o)

yet not one has stepped up to the plate yet..

Through the years I have met many men who wouldn't kiss an escort never mind put their tongue in the Y zone. In those days it was potluck for both the provider and her gentlemen friends.

Now we both get to choose...What a wonderful time for both to receive pleasure.

Kisses Haley

I can walk and chew gum at the same time, so it's not the multi-tasking that is at issue but rather the fact that it's hard for two people to situated themselves physically for both comfort and proper mouth to genital position in the 69 position.

I do like having a gal sit on my face while the other goes down on me however with a threesome, even better if they want to swap places every few minutes.

French kissing is the appetizer, oral is the main course, and intercourse the dessert.  Dessert alone, while nice, is greatly lacking in nourishment.

If stroked and pleasured so please have fun and once you have started mention to the lady this is your first time at the Y. Ask her to guide you

Kisses Haley

lol...i have receiving oral, it makes me extremely uncomfortable because of the submissive way i am wired. it is not an activity i have ever found to be even the slightest, tiniest bit pleasurable in any manner. however i will not list it as a limit because as a submissive provider i am willing to bear some things that i do not enjoy in order to please a client. of course, when it comes to DATY, my tolerance is very low...after a couple of minutes i have to politely stop a gent, because any longer than that and i will get in a very bad, uptight/closed off mood, and that wouldn't be good for anyone.

to respond to Haley's original question, i love to give give give, and could do so happily for hours on end with the right gent.

I love to give oral pleasure.  I love daty, long slow.  I love to discover the best place and rhythm and pace and accompaniments and do that for as long and as often as it is a turn on.  I often have a climax doing that.  69 can be fun, but it distracts me from what I am doing and love to do.  I also love dato.  I have been with a number of women who love to climax with me doing dato and them also using a vibrator.  

I know this confession means I have had my foreign car mechanic lose all respect for me.  It is worth it.

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IMO it is important for the provider to communicate what she does/does not do to make the appointment as pleasurable for both parties. I am up for about anything and if the provider loves to get all worked up with 69 lets make it happen. If she wants to swap that is great too.

My whole reason for being a hobbiest is to find the passion that is missing with the SO. The more fun the provider is having more than likely the better service I will receive and the more satisfying the business meeting.

It all starts with communication.

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I like 69  I like to watch the lady suck me and I like to watch the face of the one I am eating.  I love it all and I guess its kind of like the apetitizer, the soup and salad. And oh by the way I have been known to toss a few of those, YMMMMMM

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It's about a 50/50 split for me as long as the lady is into giving and receiving as much as myself.

I was raised to do unto others....

Besides, it's such a nice scene watching a lady enjoy the things you do to HER as much as she does to you...!

slow DATY to a woman who enjoys it.  My prefered position is with the woman on top, so as she get amply lubricated, I can enjoy her juices flowing across my face and then when she comes, the tremors of her orgasm atop my face are a tremendous turn-on; then moving into MISH sex with DFK - brings me to a quick orgasm.

Haley, I wouldn't choose a provider that doesn't DFK or allow me to go down on her.  I'm like you, I like to please, give as good as you get.    :-P

-plct