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I prefer it not to be mentioned in the review...regular_smile
rbotha1 See my TER Reviews 162 reads
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it is not something a client should expect. I have a select few regulars that I truly enjoy talking too and sometimes we end up talking for more than our alloted time. There is also a few occasions where the chemistry and sex is so great I don't realize how much time has passed. I would never want that mentioned in a review, then every client expects extra time.

A lot of reviews rave about how the lady gave them extra time.  Is this something you want us to know?  I had a date a while back, where she gave me some extra time and I didn't mention it in my review.

After the review posted, she called me out on it.  So I told her this.  If I post that you gave me extra time, w/o any extra $, do you really want everyone to know that?  What if you don't really like that guy and want him out of there asap?

If I post in the review that you gave me extra time, for your own reason, won't the other guys you see always expect that?  Is that what you want?  I don't think so.

When I explained it to her that way, she said, yeah, you're right.....

So my question is, ladies, how do you feel about guys that post you gave them extra time?  Like it or not?

My thoughts would be most of you would prefer we not mention it.  Correct me if I'm wrong.

Swim

I agree with you. There are some gents that I have been able to hang out with a little longer. Then sometimes my time has been tighter ( ;) ).
When people have written that I was available for extra time without $$ in my reviews I had some people say, "well you gave extra time to other people. Are they better than me?"
It's not a matter of being better, just different for whatever reason.
Personally, I think writing "extra time" in a review puts pressure on a lady.

But to each their own I suppose right?

Have a great weekend!
AR
XO


**After the review posted, she called me out on it.**

And the baby Jesus wept.  

Unless you gave her a bad review and she got all butthurt because of it,  there is no reason why should be pissy about it.

That is one reason why I usually don't tell the women my TER id so I don't get some pissing and moaning about sometime I forgot to mention.

Man - O - Man - O - Man

It doesn't matter whether you give out your Ter ID or not.

I have been told that each time a review of yours is approved a message is generated to the provider alerting them that they have a " New Review ".

It wont take too much effort on her part by reading that review to remember the date and what your handle is.

I wouldn't want a guy to put if I gave him extra time w/o charging because wow most would expect it and most visitors i'm not that "cool" with and sometimes yeah mt schedule is really tight

I would say that, if I gave someone extra time it was because...

#1  I had extra time that day

#2  I wanted to relax after a long, hard, session of unadulterated sex and Needed the Extra time

#3  Felt so comfy and cozy that it didn't matter if the clock was ticking...you could have paid me for the extra time, thank you!!

#4  Wanted the client to come again, and knew that the extra time would pay off in the long run

However, to advertise that I gave this "unclocked" time to someone....I don't think so.  

I would want the added perk to be for that specific client, because every session and each client is unique.  I would not want everyone to think that it's a "given" with me.  But, it's a great question.  Thank you for asking it.

i can only speak for myself but the going "over" time thing is a client by client basis. most of the times i don't care as long as I dont feel like its taken advantage of. As for putting the extra time in the review I agree with the other ladies and would ask the client to please omit that part. hope that helps

van

I wouldn't want it stated overboard.  It is evidently stated somewhere in my reviews and causes me problems. I don't always have the time but sometimes do.  Unfortunately there are always people who think that they should have the exact same session as someone else did and get mad when they don't.  I would rather them say "she wasn't a clock watcher" or something flattering bug vague...unless I was extremely generous and they make it clear it was a one time situation.

literbike196 reads

Ditto. Definitely a client by client basis and no NEVER in a review.

I like to say "unrushed" or "not a clock watcher"
Sometimes that means 15 minutes over sometimes it means a few hours. I'm trying to convey the atmosphere of the session. any items (Greek etc) off the menu are NEVER mentioned in a review.

"not a clock watcher" or "unrushed" would be the best way to write the review. It lets clients know that the provider is not going to rush out the door at exact minute time is up but doesn't lead them to believe they will get extra time.

literbike171 reads

I beg to differ. Those words are used by those in the know and it certainly dies mean "more time"...just doesn't say how much more time. I discourage even that in a review. I don't want anyone expecting anything over and above. If I give over and above...it is at my discretion and only with certain types of clients...otherwise it can can difficult.

it is not something a client should expect. I have a select few regulars that I truly enjoy talking too and sometimes we end up talking for more than our alloted time. There is also a few occasions where the chemistry and sex is so great I don't realize how much time has passed. I would never want that mentioned in a review, then every client expects extra time.

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