I've had three instances recently where a provider who I had an absolutely stellar time with (and said so in a subsequent review) gave lame excuses or simply orchestrated the session so as to be no more than a quick 'Blow-n-go" on the second visit.  

go visit your eye doctor.  

it makes no sense at all......  

The common denominator was, him.

I've seen this as well but usually not at the higher end of the market -

I'm very easy to work with, my hygiene/manscaping is arguably above average, teeth are well brushed immediately prior, "rough" is the antithesis of how I play, give and take is the name of the game, ALWAYS shave extra close with a new blade just prior, and I'm so "creepy" I have both UTRs and a TER award winner and longtime perennial as ATFs.  

I repeat with many women and I've rarely had one of them deliver a lackluster performance on subsequent visits.  Just had a three-peat yesterday and it was great.

Perhaps you shouldn't write stellar reviews of providers you plan on seeing again. Wait until her performance becomes exiguous. Then write the appropriate corresponding review.

And in addition to that if a girl figures you for a mark/easy they'll treat you as such.  

some of these providers would lose their attitudes and do their jobs. I would never leave a good review stand under those circumstances.  

You burned a lot of bridges with indy girls by vastly overstaying your time due to these "difficulties." Guys who passive-agressively guilt providers into letting them stay 40, 60, 90 minutes over the compensated time because they can't orgasm, often find said providers mysteriously "busy" or "away on a trip" when they call or email for future sessions.  

I wanted to just change a single sentence, but the edited review was rejected, and I was told that reviews cannot be edited after they are approved. Another time I wanted to make a more substantial change, but was rejected for the same reason. I was told that I could only do a different review if I saw the provider again

You also have a point that service drops off w/regulars...sometimes, we do take them for granted. It's one of those things I've learned to guard against doing. IMO, though, the OP's case (especially as it's after just one appointment) seems a bit extreme. There is a difference between taking a regular for granted, and trying to muster through an appointment that is overwhelmingly dreadful for some reason. What he described sounds like the latter, to me.  

of someone you have previously seen....  admin will then contact you and let you know that to get the new one approved it has to replace the old one - you won't get more VIP days -  you say "yep" and it's done.....

You can't replace a review because you want to edit it. Once the review is posted it is the property of TER and if an edit is required there has to be a strong reason for it.  

The guy might be just way too much. First visit she took it and made the best of it but she clearly had trouble hence the backing off from stuff second time around.  

so certainly it would be better as you advise to simply reject future dates with those whom you feel are such a bad fit that you dread seeing them - a provider is not doing herself or the client any favor to take that date....    

I don't believe I "painted all providers with the same brush" I merely offered some advice on how to keep a client coming back.  If general constructive criticism is to be met with universal vitriolic defensiveness perhaps simply re-writing/re-scoring some reviews is the better tact for a hobbyist to take.    

While your announcement is appreciated, the specific provider(s) in question will not take the post seriously unless you feed it to her/them. Instead, the ho peanut gallery will merely turn the tables on you and shift the blame.

a client whom she wouldn't be compatible with through her screening process?

Would not know it was the same guy. He went from someone who could lose an erection with a position change to super fucker who likes to pound the girls into the mattress.

...but needed the money anyway. Maybe you should adopt a two-visit rule before writing a review?

Because she usually only finds out how difficult the guy is when seeing him the first time. The only way she might be able to weed out him BEFORE the meeting is if he puts something in his communication that makes her go "holy shit no way Jose".

And you "treat her right". A hooker doing a good job will make even the most difficult trick feel like she is so into him...and then mysteriously is never available after the first visit. You do not fall into that category, she re-booked and the service was up to par.

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I can most certainly use my writing abilities too ruin as well as regale.  

But those hookers didn't seem too interested in having you back hence the lackluster performance.  

And by judging their commonly loquacious and eager texts/e-mails professing their desire for my return your further attempts to sarcastically impugn fall effete.  

Not trying to impugn you at all. You might have added that little bit of info in the beginning that they were so incredibly into you. Then if that were the case, not sure why they dropped off services etc.  

But redundant sarcastic misandry such as yours does much to taint other providers perception as well as outlook.  

I am actually being decent to you and you still have to be a jerk. Well, not much I can do about your sour mood.  

An interesting read here—this whole game of the expectation vs. the overwhelmed.  

If your passive aggressive sarcastic quips are your idea of "being decent" it's no wonder you have so much time to blather on these boards rather than attend to your supposed business.  

You have a decidedly anti female edge to a great %age of your posts and your delivery suggests you really don't like women. I am a self admitted man hating bitch. So when are you going to admit your obvious loathing of women?  

Screening doesn't tell you much about the client you are going to meet.

That's how you're imagining it, are you not, oh GhostWriteroftheDamned? Lol.

and it's not just you, I do notice that a LOT of guys seem to have a lot of problems with the women they pay for sex.

I have to admit, if I had half the problems that some guys here seem to have, I'd change my hobby to golf, and just give up on pussy for good.

Yeah right, sure I would. lol

"Man hating bitch, meet Bitch hating man."

You want your sister... I knew it.

It sounds like repeat business is not top on the list of the providers who refused you.  

too a mouthpiece for harridans.  

After reading the tone of the post, I'm not sure I'm wrong.  
 

...who you were, so she accepted the appointment.

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WOW. Dates that included going dinner, sailing, such a romantic back then, so jaded and a blow hard now.

TER says if a guy has a different session-either better or worse with a gal he's seen before, he can submit a new review. Of course this means he had to have another session with her.

My hunch about the girl I wanna repeat usually turns out to be correct,  she is just as good if not better on subsequent visits.  

As I've "evolved" in this game I've ended up seeing about a dozen girls on a regular basis.  It's not that I don't see new ones, either.  I just like variety, but I will see each regular every couple of months.

So are you now gonna call him "Gregory?"

But hey, a lot can happen in six years - I've seen it happen to hookers in 6 months.

When I came back to the states in 2006  I was dealing with the aftermath of a major injury.  And I was not accustomed to the scene here.....

If the client grosses her out that much she should not bother wasting his time or having to deal.

And when they reject you ( clearly one time with you is more than enough) well, you have your own little apocalypse. Try a Fleshlight, no rejection there.

Find another sandbox you giant crybaby.

Being the Great Asian American hobbyist who can speak 3 languages,  I'd be happy to translate for them.  

It's another post on that thread. It just about made me fall out of my fucking chair.

And Gregory, that would be the nicest thing I could muster up for the ego maniac he is today. No wonder he changed his handle!

Ridgetucky, ROGM, Lungman, OSP... ChgoCPA/Dr Who Revived, escalade1964, balljointnut... and many, many others.

"Tall, hairy, old white guy with soft penis, like broken baby arm holding Korean pear, come today. He talk and talk and talk about Pentagon and very rich sail boat. He run very fast he say, but most often he just run mouth. I stick my tasty mandu in there to make quiet and dream that I Psy video girl."

Psy rules.

you are entertaining I'll have to admit.    

and gave him shitty service. She deserves that new review and perhaps she will take her hooking seriously.

doesn't have a triple, herniated bowel obstruction from you being an Asian hating "racist".  

It was funny though lol

Or simply shut up.  

your alias isn't racist and derogatory?

He even had the audacity to be the owner of a DRY CLEANING business! What on earth was he thinking? What a bigot. Lol.