TER General Board
Failing to do adequate due diligence.
What advice would you give for anyone in this hobby?
I think about myself when I entered this era of my lifestyle on TER back in 2005 - what advice would I give myself, or other new young talent… - Do you. - All money is not good money. - Always go with your gut feeling your intuition it’s usually right. - Don’t see anyone who disrespects your boundaries. - If someone promises you a review here don’t bank on it. Just because a long time member has lots of reviews does not make them an honest, or respectful person. 😁 Reviews can be written at the time of with the providers help, so nothing is posted without permission. My first review ever was done this way. He went through all the questions on the TER profile and he filled in the blanks. I felt, like it was an interview, but at that time I had hard no’s. I was not a GFE. Many people don’t know it helps to ask the provider directly if you do plan to write her an honest review. Great idea! Fun fact my 1st review no longer exists because the member was banned. I do appreciate him referring me to this site. I definitely don’t want to get banned. I am here to help. I love TER! This is my personal perspective.Your title would make more sense if it was the same as your actual question. "Failing to do adequate due diligence" is not what this seems to be about. It seems its more about the question "What advice would you give for anyone in this hobby?"
Anyway, I would advise that a reviewer doesn't allow a provider to help write the review. It's not authentic if a provider is involved in writing it. I find it pretty wild that as the OP your advice is to help write the review. Is that what you do now? You tell your clients you want to help write their reviews and they need your blessing?
The last several of my reviews have lacked juicy details & were denied it’s time consuming and discouraging for the reviewer who’s submitted an honest review. Think 🤔 free vip days for fake reviews, but I whitelist a member I see who’s safe that writes me a review and it’s rejected.
Maybe my title is off, but instead of criticizing how are you helping?
I actually reached out to another long time VET to get advice prior to posting because of the negativity from all the alias trolls 🧌 here, and he mentioned having the provider present to go over the process & it reminded me of my 1st time ever getting reviewed by an old school veteran who sat my pretty little tight ass down to go over the profile.
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When I see something that seems off, I point it out not just to criticize it, but to see if you can share something I am missing. I'm not perfect either, so my intent wasn't just to wag the finger at you.
That said, my second paragraph was advice for clients. When I was a noob, a few escorts did exactly what you're suggesting. They asked to see the review and wanted to be able to edite it to their liking. Mind you, my reviews tend to be well written and provide good details. Each time, they replied and said what I wrote was better than anything they would have written and didn't edit them. And, if I am being honest, knowing they were going to see the review before I submitted them influenced how they were written. It jeopardized the honesty of the reviews. If I could, I would hit the redo button and not have given them the chance, but that was many years ago when I didn't know better.
I understand that every review might not be to your liking and some reviewers are terrible with details. But that's part of what makes them authentic. Imagine if the best Yelp, Google, and Amazon reviews were near the top because the business insisted reviewers send reviews to them before submitting? It's just not right.
If doing a first review of a provider think it is a good idea to fill in the blanks .
If seeing an unreviewed provider and then doing a review think it is quite a task to get all the TER blanks filled in accurately. No idea what color her eyes are as do not get past her tits.
Do feel is advantageous to have provider help with this and anything you are unsure of as being available. Say you wanted covered BJ and and she offers BBJ should be correct in the services offered as what is available.
See no reason why the services availability being confirmed by the provider on a first review is wrong.
That being said when it comes to the narrative should be done separately with zero input from provider .
The whole point of a review site is to evaluate products and services. If you are scared or tentative in writing a negative assessment, it skews the assessment and makes seller's look better than they really are. And it screws other fellow consumers because many of them would otherwise not see the provider based on the review.
Don't be afraid to call average product/service what it is exactly. Don't sugarcoat it. Tell the truth and mongers will be grateful that you told the truth.
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Since I found TER I have not had a bad experience . I have had some where I could not justify a providers averages and will admit did not write that review as some of the blame was probably on me a much as her.
Down that line if ever have the encounter from Hell or close to it the review will be written and feel it will have a lot more clout then if we’re like some who are finding fault with every third encounter .
Yes I have often back channels here to keep sessions satisfaction as high as possible.
Well, then you don't really have an experience that you can relate with in terms of writing negative reviews?
And people on here take anything non-glowing as "negative". A five is considered negative for some unwritten and unspoken reason.
One more thing I forgot - never trust people who in private tell you to not see provider or tell of their faults they never mentioned publicly in their glowing review.
One time one guy (on another forum) told me to not see a provider in private right after he posted a glowing public review.
I called him out of course. I may have a lost a source of information, but no way can I watch someone mislead and lie mongers publicly while telling the truth in private. Nope. Don't trust people with two faces.
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