So, I sometimes browse the BP ads, and its so so, nothing really too tempting--physically. If I do find a physically interesting girl on BP, and check her reviews, its usually no reviews or her performance isn't what I was expecting. So, I move on to Eros, sure, there are some nice ones, again, nothing too good--physically. And these usually cost me premium money--but the performance is guaranteed. Still, I hesitate sometimes knowing that $300 is a lot of money and she's really not my physical type. So, I cruise into agencies. Some are nice, but its usually a big hassle sometimes to book with agencies. Gotta get screened, gotta set appropriate time (hoping something doesn't occur--that's why its an inconvenience), gotta make thorough communication, its a bit much to just see one girl. Still, its not usually my type. Then, I cruise on the regional board, sure, some are okay, but still, its not usually my type.

Now, I am not inferring that I've never seen a provider that fits my personal liking. I have indeed, but its usually every once in a while when a girl I physically like appears with the performance I am looking for. Anyways, I often find my self "just settling" just to get some booty. And its been happening like that for a while, until a good girl I like shows up--lets exclude ATF.

Just curious, because I indeed hobby regularly, and I find myself to "just settle" with whats around regularly. Its so so, nothing too spectacular. So, just curious, you gents ever had to settle for whats around you? I certainly know I do. Oh, I am not traveling to see a single provider, and I don't wait 3 weeks for a single provider if that's your take on it.



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I (and I hope most others) do the former, while I think you are doing the latter.

That is not a good place to be in, and you might want to speak to a therapist about it.

In any case, don't settle.  Only see gals you are truly interested in.

I only see providers that I really want to see.  Fortunately, my area has a plethora of wonderful providers available.  So, I never have to 'settle' for someone just to get f'd and s'd.  From the tone of your post, your area seems to be lacking what you want, that's too bad.  Since I don't hobby every week, waiting between dates isn't such a big deal.

I do look around on the various sites to see who's available, but I always come back and check to see if they have reviews, mainly here.  If they don't have reviews, I am not going to see them regardless of what they look like or what they charge.  Only exception to that would be if someone was recommended by a hobby buddy who had seen her.

Swim

I, unlike you, have reached the point in my life where I don't let my little head control my big head.  I won't "just settle" so I can screw someone.  I will travel and I will wait for the lady I want to see.  

When you get some maturity, you might understand that its not about just dropping a load in a warm receptical.  Sounds like you would be just as happy buying one of those reusable "toys for boys".  

If you can't find what you are REALLY looking for, don't play the game.

Not enough time/cash/spermcount to see all the girls I want to see.  

Check the Boston board, not unusual for 3-5 "must see" girls show up some weeks.

Why would I just settle?  I hobby in a number of cities, and there are lots of terrific ladies to choose from. If I had to "just settle" I'd quit.

I like the variety. I see and enjoy all body types and hair colors. I'll quit if it gets to just settling.
I won't travel just to see a lady but I will wait. Usually I don't have to. (because of the variety.)

You obviously have certain critera in mind. So spit it out and tell us what it is..

Are you seeking a princess or a porn star,  A single desperate mom who has not a clue as to her sense of worth in this world who will kneel at your command?

I am not really trying to be a smart ass. I just find it difficutl to believe that if you have done your homework and have taken the time to do the work, You would not be in this position. Unless you are looking for perfection and are a critical person by nature.... Or I suppose  you could be one of those that likes to feel superior to others????????

P.S. I like those games too. But, if that is your deal then you should own it!

Then again, I do not waste my time perusing CL, BP, or Eros.  Too much trouble to cross-check against reviews here and elsewhere, given that the majority are not reviewed to begin with.  Since we have M&G's regularly in my neck of the woods, I usually have the opportunity to meet new ladies that I may decide to see in the future that are not a crap-shoot.  Further, I have long had a circle of friends that I always enjoy spending time with.  I feel sorry for you if you "have to settle" rather than seeing a lady that genuinely excites you...

If you need it so badly that you'll fuck a pig, go pick one up in a bar.  That leaves you more money to upgrade to top notch providers.

You have looked high and low for her on various boards and you cannot find her anywhere, it seems. So what is your physical type that does it for you? Are you sure she exists because if you can't find it on backpage or eros then I doubt she exists.

My ideal type is a white lady (I just prefer the skin tone), ages between 20-33 (maybe a bit younger and a bit older), she has be voluptuous, she has to have a big plump booty (main reason), she has to be thick, facially attractive, good size tits (nothing too small), and her performance has to be GFE.

I am not the spinner type, I don't like skinny girls, girls with no ass, girls with small tits, girls that reminds me of my co-workers, I like think girls with a big ass.

Now, BP offers that, but they are not GFE. Eros have some, but is limited. Agencies have none, mostly spinners. I hope that answer your question. And please don't jump to conclusions, just ask me the question next time before labeling me. Thanks.

Where I am there are a couple of agencies that have what you are looking for.

It won't turn a wilderbeast into Eva Mendes, but it can turn Mrs. so-so into a suitable fuck buddy.

Drink her pretty. It's the Irish secret to procreation.

I love this post.
sounds like someone who knows what kind of experience he wants appreciates a good find
Sydney

It sounds like you and I might do well together.   I know there's a shortage of BBW's out there - esp white bbws.

I get calls and emails all the time from men telling me how hard I am to find.   You're an alias so I cant PM you, but I am inviting you to check my reviews and my site and if your interested, get in touch with me.

I can tell you that you should see the one who really interest you physically.  Don't settle for a 'so so' standard.  Now, if you are doing TOFTT - you may see a girl you physically like but then you may discover you don't like her performance wise.  TOFTT always has that risk.

This thread is a good read. A lot of good advise in here. I can see the age of the john, the maturity of being in the game and the cash they make could and would make the difference. I would go as far to categorize all of us into different sub groups to how each group moves. Most people on here are a more selective and diligent group which is why the name hobbyist is more fitting. I think the sub group you fall into is more like a hunter out in the wild...with the thought go home with someone or go hungry. non the less I am not casting judgement because I fall somewhere in between both sub groups. I have been where you are and just like you found out most times it wasn't worth it even though my cash I was spending was a lot less.

 I will say I like my variety like the next man so when it comes to skimming through ads there is a lot of different  flavors that spikes my tachometer for all different reasons. however there are special ones that hit a home run in regards to attraction levels without even looking at the prices. The different between the avg attraction and the ones that have you in aww are the prices and risk.I  could justify spending the different for better quality but I wouldn't go out my way if the avg ones weren't talking decent prices and specials. Now if the prices seems like it fits the quality of the avg provider your choosing but when you call her and she changes her prices or someone try to B&S it's a better option to hold out and leave in most cases. I wouldn't book more than 30 mins unless a certain level of attraction was there plain and simple. Either A you need to be in a better area with more selection or keep an ATF or keep a friend with benefits on the side so the time in between doesn't fuck with you so bad.