Does anyone know how to approach a repeat client about reviews? I have found that some of my clients who have seen me four- five times love my service and say how wonderful I treat them but when asked if they can submit a review to share with others, I was told they don't feel comfortable or no time... I even had one gentleman who said I finally was one who deserved a review and that he would consider it... but then decided against it.
I have noticed they are not TER Members and perhaps that is the reason?
Ladies, do you ever experience this as well? is there another way of approaching this? I am very serious about my time with my clients and enjoy them just as much as they enjoy me... but would love everyone to know this too please send me an email if anyone has some positive feedback!thanks! xoxo Sydney

Some girls do, and there is nothing wrong with it, but when a guy says he is not comfortable... don't push.  Many guys like to be discreet and aren't comfortable writing reviews, especially with the graphic details required here.  Sometimes they feel it is ungentlemanly to kiss and tell...sometimes they fear the SO or LE being able to put 2 and 2 together...sometimes they don't want other girls getting jealous...  But ultimately it doesn't really matter what their reasons are...  Putting pressure on them to write a review goes against this being about stress *relief*, ya know??  

I have MANY repeat clients that don't post, and don't review.  I think if you polled the ladies, most would say that the majority of their clients are lurkers.

Be grateful for the repeat business and trust that if you keep doing what you are doing, you will continue to build a loyal following.

My best to you,

xoMegan

however if I see a woman who already has several pages of reviews, with some that are recent I might not bother.

If I can add something I will do so.

... they have written reviews in the past but I don't push them.  I've had clients who had written reviews of other providers but didn't write one for me so I would politely ask.  50% of them don't do it so I just normally let it go...

As a client, I would be honored if a provider asked me for a review.  To me, that is a sign that a provider is truly interested in customer service.  She wants to please and knows that a positive review will help her reputation.  Now if only a provider would offer extra time off the clock for a review

There is a place in NYC called Jewels of New York. I have never been.  However, everyday when one checks out the new reviews, at least 2 or 3 appear on girls who work out of one of their establishments.  I often wonder if they have a computer set up on the way out for guys to submit reviews.  Just seems like they have an unusally large number of reviews on a daily basis.  perhaps I exagerate on the computer at the door, but it is curious. (having looked at  their site, the girls are cute so I am not saying the reviews are phony, just that so many seem to appear.)

A lot of us do not write a review if we have seen you four or five times because we consider you to be one of our atf's . I don't know if that makes any sense to anyone out there , but that is my feelings .

ocassions when the lady specifically asked me to write the review so her name would move up the list when gents choose her city.

I've had a handful of gents ask me if I would be comfortable with them reviewing me, which I greatly appreciate... the request much more so than the review, lol.

People feel one way or the other about reviews, but I'll say here that I'm ambivalent

The vast majority of my visits are with men that I've seen in the past... and most don't review, or even post for that matter. If I were to take that as an insult, I'd be pretty friggen pissed, lol.

Totally agree with Megan here, there's no need to push for reviews. Ask if you feel you must... but if they've already shown their appreciation by returning to you, why mess with what's so obviously a good thing?

Maxine

If you ask, I am sure some will submit reviews.  I often don't post for no real reason.  By the way, if you are in LV, you need reviews so ask.  It would be great to find a reliable provider in that city.  I would NEVER again hobby there without seeking someone without several reviews.  Burned too many times.

it's a real quandary of sorts, this site needs the hobbyist to write accurate reviews for the site to work properly, I personally will not see a provider unless she has some nice reviews. On the other hand run hot and cold on providing reviews. I write reviews when asked by a provider and I also write reviews when I start to feel guilty that I am not keeping up my end of the deal. I rely on other reviews to find someone I would be interested in so once in a while I feel I must contribute as well. Maybe I will start to write more in the future...