Hopefully with maturing age they realize as you do that a nest egg for retirement is in line.  Are you sure she isn't better off than you know?   I have a financial portfolio building and from some of the previous posts I'm not a lone.  I find from the ads I've seen and from the high level of intelligence posted in discussions the ladies are not only sensually wonderful, numerous are highly educated and still going for more. The level of living may be an indicator of the stability of your lady of concern.  Does she rent, own, type of car, etc.

... with live cam!    xox Faye Desiree

I guess it's like anything else.  You gotta plan for your future.  Personally, I think it's a tough job, when you really look at it.  Staying in too long has got to be bad for them, psychologically.  Putting up with us guys, dealing with the stigma, the cops, etc.  I would say give it two or three years, tops.  Make your money and save it, then find something else.  I think the problem might be the lifestyle the job creates, a lifestyle that many might find hard to give up.One thing I've noticed.  Most providers I've seen didn't plan to go into the work.  But through different circumstances (usually unpleasant ones), found themselves in it.  That makes all our talk of planning irrelevant, since it's often just an accident that they're doing it at all, and they don't see themselves doing it ten years down the road anyway, even though they might end up there.  Some ladies seem to be together and have plans or goals associated with their profession, but I think they're in the minority.  Most of the others should really think about finding something else to do.