but while the seven or so civies I knew way back when all would do a BJ, only two would take the load in their mouths and swallow; one, in fact, insisted on it!

Did more to advance for all of us BBBJNSNQCIMAS horn dogs than any other President in the history of this great Republic by making people think that blow jobs were not sex. Thank God for his efforts. For that alone he was and is a great American in my book.

Women in general, it seems are more open to it than they used to be. I am 50 and it used to be reserved for only very serious deeply commited people , now it is a sweet kiss that is freely offered except by the one who I find myself married to.

Just an old, ugly, fat fuck with an opinion.  

Take 'em where you can get 'em and don't complain. You'll get to meet a few who do everything safe and you'll be wishing you were with that young girl. Times are a changing. Sex and BJs aren't the taboo of 25 years ago.

...that I've had, only two of the women were enthusiastic about BJ's, both going to completion and enjoying the results. Two others were OK with BJ's, not really into it, but wouldn't go to completion. The others? Just not into oral at all, with two of those four not even into receiving oral -- go figure!

In my earlier years had several that would allow cim, one swallowed.  In LTR, occasionally terrific BJ, no cim.  Recent slight indiscretion, BJ, cim, swallowed.  Wow, I really liked that.  I think it's more prevalent these days as mentioned but my current status precludes much sampling.  I'd like to see a survey or statistics on this.  I'd guess maybe 50-60% do BJ, maybe 10-20% allow cim.  Just a guess though and sample size is too small and dated!