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I must admit....
imemine 4746 reads
posted
1 / 27

I cannot believe the number of reviews I read where the client expects the provider to have condoms but doesn't, which prevents them from having sex. Are these the same kinda losers who got their high school girlfriends pregnant because they didn't think ahead of time?
I always bring my own supply and lube too.

paperback_writer 24 Reviews 7142 reads
posted
2 / 27

Sorry, dude -- I'm married and don't use condoms with my S.O.  Because of that reason, I also don't buy and keep a stash of condoms handy for use with providers (might be a bit difficult to explain to my S.O., if you know what I mean).  The good news is that my providers have ALWAYS had plenty on hand, and were happy to share.  Oh.  And I NEVER got my high school girlfriends pregnant, either.

smart n safe 4274 reads
posted
4 / 27

Any reputable girl should always provide new fresh condoms. A travelling condom out of it's container (box) in a pocket or wallet cause the packaging to be torn or smashed allowing air or dirt in and contamination. I would use some common sense and look for providers with long standing good reviews. If you are seeing a new girl and she doesn't provide things like condoms, a place to clean up, clean wash cloths or towels, I wouldn't be surprised she won't be around long. Be safe.

MyLifeAsMe 8 Reviews 3581 reads
posted
5 / 27

Me, myself, I ALWAYS supply my own because standard sized coddoms just don't do it for me. They are functional, yes, but mighty uncomfortable...

I have to agree with the guy who started this thread...you can ASSUME your "date" will have condoms (twice escorts have tried to pull the "I left the condoms in the car" things on me...yeah, right...what the hell do you carry a purse FOR then??) or you can make sure that the brand and type YOU prefer is available.

MfSD 39 Reviews 5128 reads
posted
7 / 27

I have been with providers who purposely only brought one condom along to limit the length of the s$x, regardless of the length of the date. This hasn't happened recently, and those ladies are off my "will see" list.

But for the record, I always bring my own condoms and lube. The brand that I like and feel comfortable with. I don't know about the rest of you guys, but cumming with a condom on, isn't always the easiest thing for me to achieve. I find a thinner brand is more condusive to this end. MfSD.

STUMPY 25 Reviews 3444 reads
posted
8 / 27

It is probably smart to bring your own condoms in case the lady has run out.  However I do expect the lady to have a supply of condoms.  Some ladies will have several varieties.  Also I have seen posts by ladies on these boards that do not feel comfortable using condoms brought by their guests.  As pointed out above if you carry a condom in your wallet, glove compartment, etc. for a long period of time it may not be effective any more or might get contaminated.  Also some ladies may be concerned as to the type of condom you bring for safety reasons or taste if they give CBJ's.

TheLostSchlong 14 Reviews 3281 reads
posted
9 / 27

if you are cursed with a huge schlong you need to carry a supply of your own extra large size.

AnacondaMicrothins.multi.org sells four large sizes in five different flavors, with an anti-gagging vanilla coating for ladies with small mouths.

The Anaconda Microthins are delivered in a low key way on a garden hose rack so the neighbors will think you are just getting a new hose and will not realize that you actually have to carry one of your own around day after day.
The Incas called this the Curse of the Anaconda Schlong.
Special blonde vixens with pouty lips were employed to carry these schlongs around on litters in the Inca villages, BTIMBFOS! LOL.

In my limited experience with fewer than one thousand ultravixens with wet full pouty lips, only one had no Michelins at hand. The other 998 said they were allergic to latex and insisted on attempting bbjteoku followed by an intensive regimen of fluid replacement.

The earlier analysis by others in this thread refutes the major premise well. The opening argument could be used in a course on cross-eyed logic where the initial assumptions, reasoning, and conclusions are all flawed. I just suppose that our thread starter honestly is too inexperienced in this difficult and draining work to be aware of his misunderstanding. We all live and learn, and then we trip over our schlongs and curse as the Incas did.

papercup 14 Reviews 4211 reads
posted
10 / 27

. . . having them available.  Oh, I know.  They don't want LE to find them when they raid her pad.  That's why all the smart providers I have known make the minimal effort to come up with a good hiding place for them and only bring out what they expect to use for the session at hand.

Does anyone think that if her apartment is full of cops already, that they will just leave with a "sorry ma'am," if they don't find her stash of rubbers?

Yeah, it's nice if the client brings them.  Nice if he brings flowers and wine too.  But don't expect it.

Little Miss N 5454 reads
posted
11 / 27

The old fashioned days are over and I think women should take more control of their sex lives.  Women can and should carry condoms with them at all times with all dates because you never know when that chemistry or hormones is going to kick in.  I myself always carry a variety of sizes and lube on my dates just in case.

Little Miss N 4327 reads
posted
12 / 27

Only disadvantage about some of the thinner condoms is that they aren't as reliable for excessive/rough play.  (Check the boxes of some of the sheer polyurethane and they are still being tested on just how effective they are in protecting you from HIV and STD's, better than nothing true, but not the highest percentage.  In fact alot of them say polyurethane condoms should only be used by those allergic to latex otherwise latex is the way to go)  They break and that really can suck when waiting for those test results to come back and pray that they are negative.  Some of my dates have fussed over having to use the condoms and I have to say, look if you have a problem with using reliable sturdy condoms, then you will have to look elsewhere, but I value my body and want to enjoy having sex for a long time to come and I'm not going to compromise my health until I know it's someone I am commited to and plan on being around for a long time and vice versa.  If you have some problems playing with condoms, perhaps a bit of viagra will help you out~Keeps it hard no matter what :)

Little Miss N 3241 reads
posted
13 / 27

explaing condoms to the LE?  Bah, just tell them you are a woman of the new generation and you always carry condoms with you.  Just cause you bring condoms on a date doesn't always mean that you are going to get some does it?  How many dates have you been out on hoping perhaps to get lucky, but actually expected to get sex?  Be smart.  It's not enough evidence against the provider.  If she is advertising as a protitute or says that she'll do sex for xxx amount of money, then she should be worried about LE.  But as for escorts, we are available to hire as a date or for modeling and you are paying for our time and companionship :)

yours truly,
slut perhaps, but not a whore.

a1btd39892 5321 reads
posted
14 / 27

if this were a real issue, escorts would show up without condoms, and guys would show up without condoms, and it would be a mess.

the lady provides the condoms, because (1) she knows more about condoms than i do, (2) she will make sure they are fresh, good quality, and undamaged (because she suffers more if they're not), and (3) it's part of her job.

if a provider "oops, doesn't have" a condom, you are being scammed (she wants to downgrade this full service to a massage and hand job, and fast!) or you are dealing with a klutz. can't remember a condom, can't remember to put on a condom, can't remember not to do bareback greek, yada yada ...

my first date with one of my favorite ladies, she asked me on the phone to "take care of protection." she didn't want to have to dress and leave the room. i said fine. and it was fine -- because (4) it was her job, but she delegated it in advance, so it was part of the agreement going in. and i had a wonderful time!

Wytchcat See my TER Reviews 5265 reads
posted
15 / 27

I supply condoms of differing sizes... larger AND smaller... But I am particular about my types... not brands per se but I prefer unlubed... I have VATS (ok maybe not vats) of lube but it is GROSS if I need to do CBJ.  Latex tastes nasty enough as it is...

If a gent brings along a condom I WILL look at the expiration date!  I prefer it if the condoms he brings are still in the box... If for some reason I have a prob with what he brought... I will tell him what it is and offer him the option using mine or another service to finish if that is an issue.

It IS my body.. and the better shape it is in for me the better experience YOU will have.

Be safe, be happy and be INFORMED!
Rebecca

papercup 14 Reviews 4962 reads
posted
17 / 27

Actually, here in California the cops make a big deal about finding condoms on a provider or in her incall place.  While I agree that condoms are in pretty common use generally, our local fuzz consider a stash of latex to be evidence of "intent."  Intent to do what?  Well, since they KNOW she's a *****, it means intent to have sex and get paid for it.  Of course, they need more than just that, but it's another nail in her coffin as far as they're concerned.

Because of that, I've heard a lot of concern, both from the women themselves and on some discussion boards, about being caught with condoms.  The unfortunate thing is that some women then choose to work bareback, just to "thwart" LE.  How's that for irony?

Little Miss N 5274 reads
posted
18 / 27

Sorry if it came down to dealing with LE and paying a fine versus getting some STD I may have for the rest of my life, I would choose pay a fine.  :)

SexyCurvesDC 3734 reads
posted
19 / 27

Some of us girls carry condoms in every shape, size, color, texture, you can imagine... and would be happy to accomodate your size, ya poor thing!

On the other hand I'll say for myself personally, I'm far, FAR more comfy using my own. After all, really, I am much more likely to catch something from you than vice versa. (Pitcher vs. catcher kinda thing, yanno?) So IMO, it's up to ME to protect myself. I have no idea how long a condom may have been hanging out in your wallet... I'd much prefer to use my own stash!

Hugs*
Nicole

twinkylikker 1 Reviews 4286 reads
posted
20 / 27

This is precisely what I was thinking when I started reading this thread, that the lady would be more comfortable knowing the age, state, and condition of the materials in use.  If she doesn't have any on hand, IMHO, we're looking at someone who may engage in dangerous activities, anyhoo, and you should probably run, not walk, from the situation.

MyLifeAsMe 8 Reviews 3146 reads
posted
21 / 27

For you dear, I will be GLAD to use your supply....

I understand the concerns for both you and Little Miss N, and if you were packing something to accomodate me, I'd more than happy to use something from your stock versus my own. Your peace of mind only makes things better for me...I TOTALLY understand that...

I guess it has never been an issue for because A) I don't carry condoms around in my wallet. THAT would require a lot of explaining to certain people in my life  B) I've actually only done an incall once, so the whole "how long have you had that" issue doesn't really come up, and C) Since the lady and question is able to see the fresh condom come out of a fresh box (and as often or not out of a fresh plastic bag from the drug store up the street) then she doesn't really have to be terribly concerned. Frankly, mine are probably fresher than hers.

But, just to be clear, nope, I wouldn't have a problem using yours versus mine if you had what I wanted / needed. But I still keep mine, because like I said, more than once I've had the "I left the condoms in the car" stunt pulled on me.

(Why do I suspect those were potential ROBs in motion? Do I LOOK like an idiot? I guess some ladies see so many lonely / horny / just plain dumb guys who don't get laid outside of the hobby so they don't keep condoms that this stunt periodically works).

MyLifeAsMe 8 Reviews 5103 reads
posted
22 / 27

For some of us, keeping it hard isn't the problem sweetie....its that after awhile you ladies say "OKAY DAMN IT, ENOUGH ALREADY!!!"...LOL.

I have the same problem as the previous poster...I only cum about half the time with a condom, and virtually never if it is one of the regular sized ones that choke my poor puppy to death (BTW...this isn't brag, just sharing relevant details to the story).

About half of my reviews show that I ended with a self-provided hand job. I don't mind at all...it is just a realty of my life. I understand that you ladies can't allow every guy to pound you raw...you have to make a living (twice I've seen agency girls that after our session the "madame"...who I developed something of a little friendship with, IM'd me online to tell me they went home for the night after seeing me....opps....lol). But the truth is, for just sex (versus "making love", which more sensous and tends to get my head and emotions into the game as well) I just don't cum quickly. So...the larger condoms is a must...and Viagra (which does nothing but give me a headache) a no-no.

Go ahead and giggle...it drove my ex GF nuts too...when we'd "make love", I could tell that she was a little disappointed, because I'd be quicker on the draw than normal (at least for me) sometimes. Most of the time things would be fine. On the flip side, MOST of the time when we were just getting our "freak on", she'd would have to tell me "ok, big boy, let's get the show over with"...lol. Those session would usually be followed by 3 or 4 days of me being on probabtion...LOL!!

Sweet Nicole 3536 reads
posted
23 / 27

...hehe..I don't carry a stock variety but, ....I always comment to..... "bring whatever makes you feel comfortable to the session." so "special" people know to bring their own "brand".
For their very own custom fit! and my own backup preference "just in case." :)when it comes down to it.
it's so important!

Little Miss N 4393 reads
posted
24 / 27

Understandable.  I do bring a variety of sizes on my dates, from ultrafitted, regular, magnum large and magnum extra large, as well as a variety of tasty treats for the oral fun if needed.  Problem is I have had guys who have problems using a condom in general and keep fussing and whining about that damn condom and how he wishes he could just do it bareback..."just for a few strokes?"  I really ruins the mood sometimes because I have to be firm with them that it's to be covered during intercourse or else no play.  I have even had a few of those dates break my trust by trying to sneak it in uncovered while in the doggie position.  (I recall a while back that someone posted about ruining the moment when the woman reaches down to make sure the condom is on properly)  I try to do it in a subtle way and not be freaked out about everything, but I do believe in being responsible if I'm going to be out there playing.  So those of you who have a problem with me double checking that the condom is on properly,  please try to understand that I'm only trying to be cautious and keep both parties protected (even though I get tested regularly)  
Ok, enough of this STI talk...let's get back to having some fun sex!  Almost makes me want to become a nun thinking about all this stuff...heh...not!  No way I could give up the sex~

SexyCurvesDC 5705 reads
posted
27 / 27

I did go to an outcall once and forgot to bring them. Yes, I'm human, I am not perfect =:O  I hardly ever do outcall these days and just... POOF... blonde moment!!!!  Luckily he had some and it all worked out just fine, but a big SHEESH there at myself! LOL!

Hugs*
Nicole

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