I enjoy the community as a whole, but never relied on TER to book dates. I have been entertaining my regulars during the down time. I hope to make new friends here. The reviews are fantasy & I love reading them!
There seems to be even more of the "us against them" mentality than ever before and I know more than a few ladies wish that TER would have just stayed dead, or at least in the coma it was in for almost two years, but I also know more that a few women who were praying for the day that TER would finally come back.
So ladies, how many of you
Are REALLY happy that TER is back, can't believe how you ever made it without TER, and you have plans to make it even better than it ever was in the past?
Have mixed emotions and feel that while you really don't like the "review culture" you are going to try to make the best of TER now that it's back?
HATE the fact that TER is back, hate reviews, hate reviewers even more, and don't really know why you are even here in the first place?
NOTICE, I asked the LADIES only, which of course means the first five responses most likely will be coming from the guys. lol
... when they found out "T.E.R." was back up. 
Then..., they discovered "GaGambler" was still ALIVE, and back on "T.E.R."
The mood QUICKLY turned SOUR afterwards. 
LMAO!
Good one Lolo 
I always seek to be of "SERVICE" to my "community!"
I just LOVE that, due to "technical" issues, "GaGa" wasn't able to RESPOND in kind!
Awh!
LOL!
WOW!
FOUR "likes" so far!
Looks like you have a lot of "FANS" on here, "GaGa!"
LOL!
... that is!
Reactions on Twitter are 50/50. The ladies are loving it or hating it, and there is no middle ground.
Incidentally, one of my current 4 ladies went all conspiracy theory and was convinced that TER had been taken over by LE and that's why it suddenly returned. Of course, she didn't have a VPN like I did through the down time. Luckily, I was able to talk some sense into her, and now she's happily back on board.
I'm happy they r back.. Mainly Because there aren't very many sites that deal with this Hobby.
I am happy.
Right now I am using TER more just as a way to connect with old friends and chat. When I first started full time as a sex worker there is no way I would have been as successful as I am without TER or P411.
I know some gals have issues with being reviewed, but I have said before we are selling a service. Who is going to plunk down hundreds or thousands of dollars for any service without reading reviews first?
I have a few meh reviews, but I think they are all honest. You are not going to 100% connect with every person. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and go out and provide a better service.
I dont mind that ter is back, I have met wonderful gentleman from here for many years and many of them are my long time regulars. Future/potential suitors are able to see my info, website, twitter stats. I dont mind the general info about me, the "juicy" stuff is too much IMO. I get it, you want to know if you booking with someone that match to your likes, but also understand our point of view where explicit details must be disclosed in order to get a certain score.
I think the big thing is how some men behave and interact with woman in here, very rude, hostile. That's a turn off.... just like when I see guys being mean to girls in here I think.. mm yeah I wont want to meet with him. If they talk to a lady like this in a public board (behind a computer), how they would interact with me in private?
I want to have a good time, meet nice people, not having in the back of my mind what trash would be talked about me on a board. If there's an issue, I prefer the person tell me privately. We are not always would enjoy out time spend together with EVERYONE, different personalities, likes, etc. I had not had issues my self fortunately.
Some girls bashed me bc I post an ad on ter (I think I was the first one that did when ter back). Very hyprocritycal because they had on their twitter "top 100 TER reviewed for **in a row" while ter was gone, but when it came back they remove it and instead bash me and post subtweets. I dont care, they dont pay my bills. I care for the men that I advertise to.
No-one should care how, where I advertise, my advertising isn't for the girls...
I just wish guys were nicer here to be honest. The ones I meet certainly are!
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That makes me feel bad...
I dont think I've ever been " mean" to anyone on here, but it's certainly not my intention to possibly hurt anyone's feelings, or show anyone disrespect. Of course, that's dependent on how the other person approaches me. I can understand not wanting every detail of an encounter being put in print ( accurate or otherwise ). I agree with what many have said here, and will probably limit any further reviews to just a cursory outline. Tbh...I've never felt comfortable giving the details as I'm not that outgoing of a person. Whether or not TER will accept those reviews without all the tidbits...idk.
In my own assholey kind of way. lol
As for the reviews themselves, I have to agree about the "juicy details" That is my main reason for never having written a review here. If I could just write a review that said something along the lines of "Great girl, looked just like the pics, Great time, no excessively restrictive rules and I can't wait to see her again" If THAT kind of review were permitted, I'd probably have written a thousand of them by now.
Back to being mean, NO I don't take crap from anyone and that includes women too, but I think you'd be hard pressed to find me being "mean" to any of the women here where I was the one who "threw the first punch" and that especially goes for looks. Yes I make comments about the OTHFB's all the time as a group, but how often do you see me calling out a woman for her looks unless she opened the door to it first?
There are review sites like that where you don't have to provide juicy details and such. You review then the lady can respond.
and I respond always.
the information on that site is one step above worthless.
In my own assholey kind of way. lol
As for the reviews themselves, I have to agree about the "juicy details" That is my main reason for never having written a review here. If I could just write a review that said something along the lines of "Great girl, looked just like the pics, Great time, no excessively restrictive rules and I can't wait to see her again" If THAT kind of review were permitted, I'd probably have written a thousand of them by now.
There is already a large well financed group (and lots of smaller ones) that have FREE non explicit reviews that the girls can comment on. Naturally the girls almost never get less than a stellar review.
Those groups make their money on the girl's ads. Do you want TER to become another goddamn ad board that exists to please the fat past prime pigs that incessantly talk about "chemistry" and " clicking" because they don't deliver the goods?
I want to know what is on the menu!!!!!!!
I don't give a shit about your fucking dinner conversation or how many times you think you got her off.
If a provider is already documented as to her "menu" what good does a three page "blow by blow" of every single detail of her 578th encounter with a john really do? You might like to slobber and drool over some old fat guy's fairy tale about how he made some hooker with 5,000 sessions under her belt cum five times before he even took his pants off, but that kind of shit that is all about the John, not the hooker, quite frankly bores me to tears and I don't even bother reading them.
The profiles are not updated every review. They could be years old. Look at how many have a much younger age than the girl really is. They are not accurate .If all that was needed was a profile , there would be no need for reviews.
I don't care for the guys bragging about their sexual prowess but l skip through that to get to the details.
Nobody is going to pay for reviews that lack details.
I think reviewers should get in the habit of sending "problem reports" along with reviews if there is anything on the provider main page that is incorrect.
Gag does not realize that TER competitors with free reviews have profiles along with "yes" and " no" Lists of what the girls are supposedly willing to do.
Since the reviews are non explicit you have no way of knowing for sure what the girl does. Who would trust a profile not backed up by detailed reviews?
Jaayzus fuck Gambler! Who do you think your kidding? You arent nice! But, hey! You're honest and that is why I dig ya! Keep on keeping on!
Oh, and nope, I'm not kissing you're dumbass. I'm just stating how I feel.
I, too, wish it were possible to have reviews where the "juicy details" were not as tele novella as they seem to be. I mean, really, does anyone care what color the girl's underwear is or how high her heels are or how far she can squirt exactly? It all gets si mundane sometimes but it is a necessity for some folks to know what they are spending their hard earned cash on. I guess...
the answer is yes, I do care about that, especially the squirting part.
I like reviews that hone details of the visit because it allows me to form a mental picture of the reviewee, and that picture plays a big part in determining whether or not I want to see the person.
Otherwise, we could just check the boxes and leave it at that. Now that would be mundane.
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I mean, if the details simply said, "suck, fuck, suck, CIM, swallow" I wouldn't necessarily remember who, specifically, it was about. But something unique helps me to remember the meeting and then bring back more memories. "I went to shower and the hot water faucet came off in my hand. Things got even hotter from there ..." If I'm looking to revisit, even after a year or more, I can bring up that unique incident to refresh each other's memories and, I hope, make it easier to schedule another meeting. "Oh yeah, you were the guy who broke the shower handle! You were GREAT! And so handsome, too."
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And I can also use it to validate a meeting to TER, if necessary. "Maybe she claims something didn't happen. I say, "It was a Kohler Model 17B shower faucet!" TER replies, "She says that hotel only uses Delta bathroom fixtures." I reply, "NOW, they use Delta, but our meeting was in 2018, before the 2019 renovations, and all the fixtures were Kohler in 2018!"
Bwahahaha! Those shower fixtures are totally unreliable! But, seriously, you do have a point. I never thought of it that way before.
XXX-Giselle
I was SUPER EXCITED! This has always been my preferred board, I really hope it’s here to stay.
Naturally we must take the good with the bad.
It being up again in full has brought a lot of people back....a lot of the fun chatty folks but a LOT of the trolls (and esp the "women should be seen not heard" kind of guys). I've noticed thought that you can tell how some of the worst people have been simmering and are now back with a vengeance.
Lol I guess how happy depends on the day but it's kind of been that way for me well....since i've been bouncing around here roughly the last 9.5 of my 10 yrs. So....70/30 (70 being fairly happy).
Depending on the day (and the discussions) I feel like "oh this is lit". What a difference a day can make. On other days I just i'll lurk, browse a little then just go ehhhh maybe tomorrow (I wish I could insert the pic here lol).
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We can all get by with a little Help from Our Friend's
XoXo Sheila
Nobody likes you Gambler. However, no matter what kind of stuff you deem it necessary to say about me; I like you anyways. Always have, always will (sort of). Tee-hee.
Anyhooz, I love TER and am happy it is back. Facebook with all the stupid benign lives of normal people is so effing boring. Now I get to bother you people again
Mwahz,
Xxx-Giselle Parker (Gizzy)
If you judge a person by his enemies, it's mainly the stupid and the uber sensitive that don't like me.
You know I like you Gizzy, You have provided me with hours of entertainment on the Chicago board along with your midget ex boyfriend (Why are midgets like Cosmic Suck Up and Midget CEO always the REAL troublemakers?) You have always, (almost always) had a great sense of humor about your little sawed off runt ex boyfriend and I think it was great of you to share. Now that you are posting again though, can Rangar be far behind??? lol
Feel free to "bother" away, Laissez les bons temps rouler! I'll have to check in on the Chicago board to see what kind of trouble you have been causing since you have been back, and hopefully help you stir the pot a little. lol
I enjoy the community as a whole, but never relied on TER to book dates. I have been entertaining my regulars during the down time. I hope to make new friends here. The reviews are fantasy & I love reading them!
This is an interesting question for me. I've been gone so long and I hate to admit GG and I, and other malcontents, have always been in contact ever since, lol!
That being said, coming back, gave me the opportunity to meet old friends again. Guy and girl. Male and female. Hobbiest and provider. BTW, do we still use those terms?
Anyway, this is good reading. Normally if I drank coffee I'd pour a cup and make a day of it. But since I can't stand that fucking swill I'll go take a shit, shower and shave, crack open the first of too many beers before I switch to vodka and read what you good people have to say.
And let me get this out of the way and possibly get vilified for it. Gambler. Love you brother! lmao!
When TER first went down I was devastated, I thought I would have a hard time establishing myself w/o reviews. Then after almost 2 years w/o it, things were actually better. I was enjoying my dates more w/o the "dick review" possibility lingering in the background. In return my dates had a better time.
I am not a fan of reviews, but I am willing to give it a go here one last time. I already know that I don't NEED to be here but I like being here. I like to post on the boards and mingle with the rest of you fuckers.
Also, Admin seems to be wayyyyy more responsive and reasonable which is a plus. We'll see.
Actually I think TER reviews reach just a small portion of the provider pool and a smaller portion of the client pool.
If it made that much difference in a provider's income they would all be back here in a flash.
One benefit of social media for clients is that it is free. A second benefit is that other than browser history and cookies, there is no electronic trail, whereas a pay site has at least some records of your activity.
Twitter doesn't really search well by region (at least I don't know how to do that.) Which is the major benefit of a TER or other provider ad site, compared to their personal twitter feed.
So yeah, as long as a provider can get some ads in regular hobby sites that sort by region she'd probably wouldn't need TER. But TER clients benefit from TER.
Wrong! The real reason some hookers hated TER reviews is because of what the provider who told me about TER in 2008 said: "It spoils their game. "
Tons of hookers advertise gfe, pse and" being with me is like being with a real girlfriend. " I won't get into all the meaningless buzzwords used.
All they offer is cbj and other crappy services. They HATED TER because they could get no higher than a 7 service wise. Some lied about anal to get higher scores so TER fixed it so they had to go down the dirt track with the reviewer to get a higher score.
There are some well off mongers who will pay for service first, looks second and price is the last thing they look at.
Only about 15-20% of the girls met my criteria. I only care about quality not quantity. Despite what some miserable old biddy said, TER did attract top shelf girls.
Bad TER reviews did impact the girl's earnings. If TER goes back to detailed reviews it will help the best performing girls as much as the mongers.
I am extremely happy TER is back! Since FOSTA/SESTA finding reliable ways of marketing myself as a provider dropped drastically for me. Now, I am able to get more even footing now that I am out of hiatus.
I still have my worries about the review system in general, however thus far the benefits outweigh the difficulties.
I am very thankful this site is still thriving . I trust friends from here more than any other place .
Yes I’m happy to be here. I haven’t had any new reviews since it has returned so that’s one thing I’m actually looking forward to, to reassure that I still provide great service. One thing I love about TER is many previous experiences were pre booked sessions which I prefer more so now a days, compared to when short notice availability was more common for me. I’d say this is due to TER being an avenue which gents do their research and pre planning for Vegas trips throughout the year. I like that I can accommodate and fulfill those expectations, and I too, have dates I look forward to