A few years ago I contacted a well reviewed provider in Reston with my references by email.Her looks and performance were among the best with a couple mentions of her sometimes uppity demeanor, though the reviewers who mentioned she is sometimes uppity gave her all high marks. No problem with me as I desire women with confidence in themselves. After two or three email attempts in a six month period she replied with her number, asked that I call her the next morning . When I called the first thing she says, she isn't seeing any new hobbysists. I replied OK, thanks for letting me know. I soon forgot about her.
About six months after not contacting her again, I receive a email and she asks if I am still interested. I replied yes, she replied to call her. When I called on Monday she said she wasn't sure of her schedule for the week, call back on Wednesday. I called on Wednesday. We set up 1:30 on Saturday after her gym work out. She asked me to call Thursday and remind her because she was shopping and didn't have a pen with her.I called on Thursday got a full mail box , emailed a confirm for Saturday and received no reply..
I called again Friday morning ,mailbox was full and the same Friday afternoon.
I sent another email and no response.
I called late Friday night, she answered and said she was going to gym early,lets change time to 1:00 Saturday. She gave me her address since I live over two hours away. I asked for some intersection directions since I was not a Reston regular.She said she didn't know directions to her place,look it up.
I left at 9 am to be sure I would be on time. I arrived at the location via Map Quest. It was not there.
I started asking people at a variety of stores with no luck.. Around noon I went to a Real Estate Office figuring they would surely know. All the Realtors had left for lunch. The extremely pretty and sweet receptionist, tried her best to help, pulling out maps, but the providers street was nowhere to be found . The receptionist said there is a street in her town by that name but its 30 miles away.Visons of me at lunch with the Real Estate receptionist entered my mind but I was on a mission.
By now I am panicking and I figure it must be a new street. I start driving around wherever I saw new construction.
Finally, I ask the right person, he tells me a mile down the road in the new development. I still couldn't find the place..Around 12:30 I called the provider, voice mail answered and left a message,"I realize I am early but I am having hard time finding your place". She didn't call back.. I finally found her location at 12:55 .The guy had pointed me in the right direction but I was not expecting her place to be in a brand new luxury high rise that looked like a office building.
As soon as I stepped out of my car my phone rings, with her rudely blasting me like I was her punk and yelling at me for being early. She says our appt was at 1:30... Fine, I didn't argue after all my difficulty and let her vent to her hearts content. She said to call her from the intercom at the front steps of her building at 1:30..
I called from the intercom at 1:30. She doesn't answer...It was about twenty degrees with the wind howling.Her location had a lot of traffic coming in and out.
Occasionally someone asks "Do you want to come in"? I must decline since I do not know what room,and I am awaiting my intercom invitation . Even though it was cold , my blood was starting to boil . After about ten or fifteen minutes of standing at the building entrance, looking like a fool, she comes on the intercom and says call back in five minutes.. I call back in five and she doesn't answer.. Another five ,no answer. I try again,she answers, tells me to call back in five . I try again in five,she doesn't answer. Finally she answers,tells me her room number and rings me in.
As soon as I walk in the lobby the security guard picks me out of the crowd and motions me to his desk. I walk over and he asks who I am going to see. With a thoroughly irritated look I eyeball him with scorn, while telling him "I am visiting my GF, soon to be my EX. Are you intererested in her"? He backs off,asks me to sign in. I sign in, and enter the elevator.
The guard questioning me was the last straw in my adventure looking like a vagrant, waiting for Miss Congeniality.
When she opened the door she was hiding behind it until I wondered, is she coming out or is this another part of her game. Finally she came out naked and looked plenty good however I had gone way past my limit for something I was paying for.
I entered the room , gave her a 50 and told her "this is for answering the door" "I am not spending anytime with you since you have treated me more than rude , I am no longer in the mood".
She stepped in front of me .I had to actually walk around her as I was leaving and she was barking repeatedly "Well I sure don't want anyone to be somewhere they don't want to be" I didn't say a word and walked out the door.I was about five or ten steps down the hall,she walks out in the hallway buff naked and starts loudly, and I mean really loudly,screaming my name, and asking if I am alright.
I turned around , gave her my biggest smile and said " I am fine, Thank you". Then a male voice from across the hall or in her kitchen cabinets yells loudly "Go to Hell" and in the elevator, I went..
The sight of a naked woman in a high dollar complex yelling in the hallway, asking "ME" if I am OK was worth the trip.
I have been pussy whipped before but never when I am paying.
If anyone wonders who she is, it doesn't matter. She retired,not long after our adventure.
I am sure some of you will wonder why I didn't walk when I was jerked around at the entrance or at least when security asked me to sign in.
I don't believe a no show is the right thing to do.