Hope Mother gives Dad some fucking today.
Or at least a little head.
Mothers, please no "I'm not gonna put that thing in my mouth" today.

You know that not all motherfuckers are dads, but all dads are probably motherfuckers. I say probably because if you fucked a woman who had not had children yet and she got pregnant, then you would be a dad, but not a motherfucker unless you fucked her again after she gave birth. So, technically, you could be a dad and not be a motherfucker. But it is very unlikely.

You are, of course, technically correct.  But I am a traditionalist and operate on the assumption that all sex takes place within the sanctity of marriage.  I would also point out that if I fucked a woman who was not yet a mother and made her preggo, then I would have made her a mother.  And that, in turn, would make me a motherfucker, ex post facto.  And ex post fuckto.

And a few grandmothers just for good measure.

my real life girlfriend since January has a daughter, so I, too, am a motherfucker, but I have also been with several girls during the same time that are NOT mothers, so in those instances I was just a horny-fucker.  

 
I'm not cheating, though, because we agreed that transactional sex for both of us does not constitute cheating, so I can see all of the other women I want, as long as I'm paying them, and she can see all of the other guys she wants, as long as she's getting paid.  It works very well.  No jealousy, no drama.  

 

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We did share an affinity for practicing our oral arguments on our fellow female students.

That is like the girl who says she never cheats on her husband since she only gives other guys blowjobs.

is the one that changed the definition of sex to EXCLUDE oral sex, and a whole generation of young people bought into it.  Some of the young millennials that work for me say the blow job has replaced the good night kiss at the end of a date from our generation, so I don't attach much significance to a blow job anymore.    

 
You just say "girl", not working girl, and in that case, I agree with your point 100%.  She's disingenuous if she is a civvie girl.  However, its different when dating a provider.  If you DON'T know the difference between acting and reality, then I understand the way you are seeing this.  Many guys that do this view the relationship they have with their ATF as a real one-on-one relationship.  So do her other 25 regulars.  I've been around long enough to understand the difference between being a customer and being a real-life SO/boyfriend.  Once you understand that, it eliminates jealousy and recrimination.  It just has to be a two-way street.  I have known some providers that wanted someone to be monogamous as their boyfriend, but still wanted to see customers during the day.  THAT doesn't work.  Reciprocity is the key.  Transactional sex is not cheating, its business.  You should keep your emotions out  of it.  

when you don't tell your SO about your other dalliances.

That's about as good a definition as I've heard so far.

Watch any mobster film and all the Capo's use the same excuse. lol

 
As for the definition of cheating where it comes to dating a hooker, I think the definition is whatever the two parties agree it is, but your definition is a pretty common one, and it's one that I have used in the past, but it's not the only one that works.

I had one Thai GF in Dallas that was pretty serious relationship, we kept separate homes, but slept together almost every night, I'd say six nights a week, so it was more serious than your typical "dating" situation. Here was what we agreed to, she quit accepting overnight and dinner dates with clients,and I didn't see anyone else but her, EXCEPT when she would tour, which was not often. I was not about to agree that she could go on tour leaving me "home alone" to jerk off in her absence. lol

 
I do have to agree however that a "no unpaid sex" policy for both parties seems to be a rule that many hooker/john couples seem to abide by.

When you're hiding something, there is a presumption that you're cheating.   If you're not, put all the cards on the table.  

In most women's minds, just thinking about another woman is "cheating" whether you are hiding it or not. I guess that's one of the reasons so many of my actual GF's are women I met in the hooker world. They can still have hang ups and petty jealousy is certainly not unheard of with hooker GF's, but compared to "other women" hookers can make the BEST GF's

can you sit with at the end of the day over a glass of wine, with you telling her how the provider you saw that day sucked your balls so hard it was painful while she tells you about the 22yo customer that blew his load in the shower while she was washing his dick, then round two was over ten minutes later, so the guy left early.  Try enjoying a laugh like THAT with your wife or non-hooker GF.  Lol