Howdy TER community! Im Penny and Im hoping to get feedback from both the hobbyists and the ladies. I've been an sp for almost 3 years. I'm from the Detroit area, where I got started, I spent an extended summer in the Florabama area last year and last month I relocated to Phoenix. My comfort zone is back in Michigan, its where I learned the hobby and where I know whats expected of me. I know there are given standards as in any business but Im a unique person and Im dealing with unique people, there is no blanket generalization I can use and expect it to work on everyone. Also different regions seem to have different likes and dislikes. I give this background information because Im looking for the commonground. When connecting with a companion, besides what you see in an advertisment, what extra are you looking for? In an incall situation of course your looking for a safe, clean, comfortable environment but what else? Do you want a drink offered? What kind? What kind of lighting do you prefer? Music? What kind? Which do you prefer more a gfe or pse? What do you consider pse? Are you more bj or fs? When you make a massage appointment what all are you expecting? I try my best to make the people around me comfortable and read them as well as I can but I think we all can agree that first meetings are a little nerve racking on both parts. I'd like to be able to just come right out and ask people what exactly there preferences are right away but the self preserving part gets to me even after the screening process. So I'm hoping with a little help from the posters here I can get a little bit of a general preference that will help with opening dialoge. Thanks folks 
I'll drink almost anything, but prefer wine or vodka for sessions. Low to mid level lighting, and rock or jazz for tunes
well with a screen name like that I would assume your down with a couple few drinks 
wine is fine but gets expensive. I'd like to offer some higher octane. Vodka has been one I've kept on hand but is often turned down 
Posted By: shitfaced_drunk
I'll drink almost anything, but prefer wine or vodka for sessions. Low to mid level lighting, and rock or jazz for tunes
I like BBBJ & FS. I can pop a few times in an hour. I like anal as well. A decent clean room is always a must, but one needs not go overboard in room fare. I don't require much in the way of lingerie either. I like girls disrobed!
I'll drink vodka with you Penny!
right off bat know that Im nothing more than a 6 at best
Hi Penny,
I may be wrong in my thinking but I have a hard time relaxing at an incall....too paranoid about safety and the legal.
I like outcall.
Also, I love a great personality combined with great skills. Wine and Vodka are great . . .and love a great Bourbon or Scotch. I like it when before or after session, we visit the hotel lounge.
Based on your review, sounds like you are a dream come true for guys like me that appreciate the artform of world class BBBJ/CIM. I agree with other posters about Anal being nice ....and I enjoy a lady that has a wonderful selection of toys for both of us. I prefer GFE over PSE.
My guess is you are already doing great because you care enough to post in search of how to serve your companion better.
When I visit Phoenix, I hope to see you.
Thanks for caring!
Posted By: GoWest2500
Hi Penny,
I may be wrong in my thinking but I have a hard time relaxing at an incall....too paranoid about safety and the legal.
I like outcall.
Also, I love a great personality combined with great skills. Wine and Vodka are great . . .and love a great Bourbon or Scotch. I like it when before or after session, we visit the hotel lounge.
Based on your review, sounds like you are a dream come true for guys like me that appreciate the artform of world class BBBJ/CIM. I agree with other posters about Anal being nice ....and I enjoy a lady that has a wonderful selection of toys for both of us. I prefer GFE over PSE.
My guess is you are already doing great because you care enough to post in search of how to serve your companion better.
When I visit Phoenix, I hope to see you.
Thanks for caring!
Oh you are certainly welcome
you sound dreamy yourself as I am a whiskey lovin outcall kinda gal
but sometimes I do offer incall and when I control the environment I want to be as thoughtful as I've had the pleasure of being received.
Always puts a smile on my face ! Now a serious reply. I hope the room will be prepared much like I prepare the room when I am receiving an outcall. Soft music...dim lighting..scented candles...perhaps a bottle of champagn chilling. And I hope the lady is dressed to titilate and intice. I like a romantic enviornment that becomes the precurser to passionate lovemaking. Well...you asked...lol
There is no one answer to your questions, so I won't bother telling you what I like in a session. If I were you, I'd ask questions; some when booking and some at the session. For security, the pre-session questions must be limited to "is there anything special you'd like me to wear?" At the session, have lots of clothing options, toys, music, etc. There's nothing wrong with asking him, "what do you like?" and trying to get him to be quite specific. Lots of girls have asked me that. But I"m a simple guy: put on a sexy pair of panties, thigh-highs and heels and that's all I need. No candles unless you like 'em, no music, maybe some porn. All I want is to hear you moan and talk dirty.
because I'm sure that there are so many differnt desires and tastes among guys that you'll never find one size fits all.
As for myself, I love it when a gal just wants to jump on top of me and rip my clothes off. It's like she's waited years for the chance to finally make love to me.
Sure it's a bit of an act, but who doesn't love a good play? Especially when you can be the lead actor!
If she saw even the slightest hole in my underwear she'd jump me and rip them to shreds.
Posted By: inicky46
Reminds me of my old college GF If she saw even the slightest hole in my underwear she'd jump me and rip them to shreds.
so obviously questions are appreciated. Its also nice to see that your all pretty much realistic. alright so the ter tone got set, if you've got an SO and plan to see me also plan on a change of underware if your wearing your holy's. I mean afterall you would deserve it for showinng up in them
I prefer in calls. I like a nice apartment or hotel. Simply furnished. Kitchen stocked with water, soft drinks, and good snack or finger food if it's an apartment. I don't drink alcohol during sessions. I prefer GFE. I'm about bbbj and FS. I rarely finish with bbbj but in a session it's very important to me. Lighting should be low or off. Candles are nice with the lights off. I want music: soft rock, cool jazz or good blues. I like for the provider to be dressed comfortably in things she thinks make her look good. I will make clothing requests sometimes but it usually something simple and is very likely something you have. I like sexy undergarments but just as often I like No undergarments. Thanks for asking.
First off, for me to call at all, your ad must state location, height, price (this is not a deal breaker), and have a full body photo and an un blurred face photo. During the session itself, I am a go-with-the-flow kind of guy, but am always extremely impressed and normally do a repeat with a provider that will pose for photos.
About the same hear, especially the face photo. I've gotten burned too many times with picking a provider with a nice body and no face photo only to show up and find out that she's got a buttaface.
I can understand why some providers don't publish face photos, but after the screening process is done why can't they email or text you a face pic? Many that I have asked will not so I won't book with them.
Posted By: alee43
First off, for me to call at all, your ad must state location, height, price (this is not a deal breaker), and have a full body photo and an un blurred face photo. During the session itself, I am a go-with-the-flow kind of guy, but am always extremely impressed and normally do a repeat with a provider that will pose for photos.
You might want to relax a bit on the unblurred photo thing..... a lot of ladies have good reason to blur or crop their faces.
Posted By: HalfHour
It will be interesting to experience your style!
HH
Interesting is putting it mildly. >:-}
