Now, I know I have been lighting up the boards lately, and some of it turned into a bit of a fiery debate, but I've a new question for you all, bare with me its a humdinger!

Some recent interesting posts have sparked my curiosity here, and I was wondering if any ladies would help me out. Of course using an alias, would anyone be willing to admit coming from more humble beginnings? By that I mean, seedy strip clubs, the streets, bar hustling, bad escort services.... pimps? Or good stories of beginnings in general actually-- anyone open to do so I welcome. Whoever has enough balls (pun intended) to share their story please do, I will get the ball rolling with my own infact:

I will try to make it short....
My family comes from the caribbien on both sides, and on both sides we have always, to put it delicately been "Ladies of negotiable virtue"; my mom shunned it in her later years but was open enough to tell me about it. I of course was interested, and began doing my own research on the matter because on my mothers side were the more reputable ones to note-- being what I like to call personal liaisons, or courtesans which is why I myself prefer to be called the same. They are considered usually to be more naturally adept at pleasing or having it passed down to them and it be their main lot in life, they are skilled, more intelligent, more charming and serve higher clientele than your average prostitute by definition, so I wanted to follow in these footsteps. I began reading books on everything erotic, from sex itself, to fellatio, cunnilingus, kama sutra, tantra and many others, but I was only 17 and couldnt get up the gumption to actually do something with all my newfound info, even though I was aware of selling sex itself from my dads sister who decided to take her business to the street if you catch my drift, (further explanation of that story can be found in my post reply to diaperman on "street grils" if anyone cares), and her pimp who I came to know as my uncle as years passed, and who actually gave me very much information on "street game" in itself. However all that considered I still couldnt do it, it was beyond me, probably so because I was so young. I started dancing in a club to start, in Southern CA; it wasnt the best caliber and thats probably why they let me dance, knowing my age already. And from there got invited by some of my co-workers to go to after-hours clubs, and underground parties. I went and for nearly a year I was only doing that. I had of course gotten many offers for some extra curricular activity but snubbed them, as they were only in the $50-150 range and I knew I was worth more than that. I began to tire of the scene, which was alot of hard work mind you-- many young people, rowdy people, "ghetto" people (thats the nicest way I can put it you all know what I mean), and people that outside of work I would never want to be around and probably wouldnt want to meet in a dark alley. I no doubt was sick of the pimps, the girls stealing from me, the patrons, the money (or lack there of), and the loud thumping music all night long, and I think my last straw was when I got trapped in a bathroom with some guy who luckily didnt hurt me because there probably too many people around and I was screaming bloody murder, who knows. So I quit the parties and began to search out something more low-key and I started calling on an older woman I met at one of the parties, she was a black lady and she was 53 but didnt look over 35-- and had the biggest butt I still to this day have ever seen! She also ran an underground party place that was much more mellow and had older clientele. I was dancing there for a not even two weeks when I had my very first "private session", the guy was a minor basketball player, and he paid me 300 for my time, and I was so excited-- which he thought was cute, and he began telling me to search out better ways to work on the net. He said I was very impressive and would do well there(he is actually the one who told me about TER). I considered myself to be computer savvy and soon after, and found a plethora of escort resources and ad sites and so on... and the rest is history....

I still get calls to go to those parties since I still have my old cell phone from LA... I just laugh when I do.

not short enough-- sorry I try to be so articulate...

Now I wanna hear someone else!

Dani-Banani

-- Modified on 9/19/2004 11:56:06 PM

Bebedoll and I tried to be pretend streetwalkers for a night just for fun.  Would you believe we'd only been out of the cab for 30 seconds when some guys approached us... and 30 seconds after that a carfull of cops burst upon us????

CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!

Luckily we really were NOT doing anything illegal.  But I dunno how those girls do it!  Do they just get picked up a zillion times a night? How do they make any money???? I don't get it!

Oh well...

Hugs*
Tamara

...response in detail about what it is they go through. Its in response to diapermans response saying street girls are btter. Most people dont know-- its worse than they can ever imagine just from looking at them on the streets. I saw it from my aunt working in the streets and her man (whom I consider my uncle) being a pimp so I know more details than most would on here...

and be careful where you walk these days cops are nuts when they think you're hookin!

Dani!

"ghetto people", yes we know what you mean.

I personally believe that anyone who is doing this 'biz who does not want to be, cannot help but be bitter. Lots of people do jobs all the time that they don't enjoy, but this one has a special way of hurting someone's soul if it isn't their *choice.*  I wish we could get to a point where the only people in this 'biz actually WANTED to be in this 'biz, but I guess that's probably impossible.

The other thing I'll say is that you find ladies in all aspects of this 'biz being tormented by pimps. Even the girls in brothels in Nevada, mostly have pimps, how wierd is that?  Also the less a woman thinks of herself, the more likely she is to be abused... so it becomes a neverending cycle.

Best,
Tamara