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Youth In Asia 4244 reads
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What do providers think about guys wearing wedding rings to their appointments? I love my wife, but since our kid was born two years ago she's really just not interested in sex. I'm sure I'm not the only one with this problem.

Or is it worse to remove the ring just before the appointment? It's not like a provider can't tell, especially in the summer when your hands are tanned.

Fred T. S.

Personally I don't care either way.  I am not married to my clients so how, when or why they hire me is not really of concern to me.

I say leave it on, that way you have no chance of losing it, or forgeeting to put it back on.

Hugs,

Tammy

I am too busy noticing the bulge in his pants, as he enters the room lol :)))))

Mel ;)

I don't think most providers mind if you're married.  In fact, many prefer it.  And, you don't want to lose your ring or forget to put it back on before you get home!

Tatoogirl744109 reads

you can leave it on. All relationships have problems. That is why there are escorts...

We only want to please you, not marry you.

Also, remember some of us ladies are married too!!

Shaye

is what you've just stepped through when you cross over the threshold into 'my' world, and in that Fantasy Land nothing outside exists...marriage, kids, boss breathin' down your neck, traffic, deadlines..

but you do realize that your handle makes it appear that you are a transexual? TS is the standard abbreviation for that.

Thought you may like to know.

Selma Bouvier4418 reads


Fred honey ...  are you doing anything for dinner tonight?  ;-)

LOL.

As I recall, Troy McLure was Ambiguously Gay, but not TS....

DOH!

Yeah, now that I look at it like that, you have a point.

Fortunately, I'm confident enough in my masculinity that I don't need to worry about anonymous message boarders thinking I used to be a gal :-)

TS stand for "the Sadist", as in, Fred The Sadist, a high school nickname, which I got for reasons having nothing to do with sex. (That's a story that's too long to go into in detail here. Suffice it to say it involved an extremely embarassing misunderstanding in English class one day)

I thought maybe Fred The Sadist wouldn't be a good handle for these boards, so I shortened it.

-Fred

Carrie of London3457 reads

It's not something I notice.  Your personal life is yours and a provider should not have any interest in things like you being married etc as it does not (should not?) impact on your time together.  

Relax about the ring, enjoy loving your wife and child, and enjoy your time with providers :)

I need to hide the fact that I see providers from my wife.  I don't need to hide the fact that I am married from the providers I see.  If they know, it's a more honest experience, and to me a better time.

auburnaudrey3781 reads

If a provider has a problem with your ring, then she is obviously looking for something other than being your escort.  

Audrey

I keep it on with the providers.  I take it off when I play golf (it affects my grip).

Since my ATF doesn't take off her wedding ring, I don't take off mine either :)

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