Good Morning Beauties and Gents...

And see what the guys pick up on as their "favorite" activities in what or how things were done.  Figure out what you don't do, and do it!

next visit just start doing what comes to mind, guide him along, giving him direction.  You will sense if he he's not into it, but you will probably be surprised that he gladly goes along, becuz he has been too shy to try it on his own.

Well, in my case that's sex...  BJs for sure.  What I really like in a BJ is mixing in/out with a tongue exploration to see how much sensation & where...  every guy is different & every gal, too.    

pegging... that'll get him to open up. Literally and figuratively.

Just a suggestion. You can list a few things on your website you happen to be into or " like" that way when they reach out they know all about what to expect.  

Ask them to bring their favorite porn along with them, and see if there's anything depicted that they want to try.  Alternately, find some porn of your own, with various themes and fantasies, and share it with those clients to see if they get turned on by something.

When I am seeing a provider it isn't to try new thing (other then new women) or expand my boundaries. There is very little I can't get at home. I am there to relax, to be pleased, and to please. In my paid dates I am reserved. I save exploring for home. If he is happy no need to push.

Never peg anyone without consent.

You must not have read the rest of my post.  

Just ask GaGambler. Do you know where I can by one by the way? I checked Walmart and they don't carry any

Too bad the moment has passed, I could have had fun with this. lol

to even consider shopping at Walmart.
Troubles me that they were out of stock.

Didn't see the need before.

I've done a few of the milder ones like picking up a "stranger" at a restaurant bar, lots of flirting, sexy chatting, light touching, ect. These are easy to bring up to a reg an usually gets them going!

Isn't that her name ...lol 🤕

If he goes for it and likes it, offer the double with you and the mule!

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If I didn't do it, who would? You? I think not. Someone has to, as it isn't a party without a party pooper.

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This is one of those times. lol

...sprinkling a little of this. mrfisher swears by it.

Lots of areas to play with...places also- take it out of the bedroom, maybe?

Personally, it's the last thing I want in a session.

a gal whom I thought was only GFE had her whips and such all laying around the room.  I asked some questions and one thing lead to another and before you knew it, my back was all red.

Very true.

What about vibration along with that BJ

Did that already Fancy... two of my favorites never ever tell me anything.  
Just this devilish grin and a shy "I like it the way it is" along with compliments.
I am not complaining.. no no no. I just thought I saw a "longing" for something  
naughtier or some shyt like that

VERY hot!~

In my defense, a good portion of my clients don't leave reviews.  
Some of them are high profile etc etc, I am sure you are familiar.

The guys comfort and boundaries be damned? If I slip up and forget this advice you gave and try to book with you, please refuse me. We are not a match. After all would you want a guy to do whatever to you minus consent just because you agreed to some sex act? What it is, is not important consent is. I for one hate tooth play and would not enjoy it or appreciate it in the least.

It's a joke. Don't do "pegging" as for threesomes with a mule ...eh...eh... leave what happens in TJ in TJ

but I don't see the humor in this either.  

the heart of the message was a more helpful attempt to answer your question. Your point about many not posting reviews was a good one, as I review only occasionally.... it's nice to see a provider that cares about her client's enjoyment...  

Good advice!

...her client what does he find erotic, and then maybe start throwing options: do like porn? if yes, what kind. If no... don't pursue but in the future don't be surprised if your client didn't answer that question truthfully and NEVER ever ever bring up the fact that you had already asked him about it beforehand.  

Ah! Speaking of biting: I gently bit her clit and then asked her if she liked it. She said she still preferred lips and tongue. Anyone out there who likes their clit to be bitten, gently of course? Just wondering.  

...Or you might try a little ice play or perhaps flavors (koolaid mixed w/ corn syrup) different flavors for different locations on your body.

As a hobbyist who mostly sees the beloved friends I have made over the years...just ask if you feel/want to spice things up, in whatever way you might want.  You're an equal partner in this..your regulars probably will be open...

I think this is pretty clearly spelled out:

They may want to keep it simple. Be careful at over doing it, but try to look for signs, and always ask questions. Teaching a man it is ok to develop sexual communication skills over time can change his whole view on sex. And yours. It is ok to know you can't guess, and you can gently ask. Good luck.