I'm interested in what married hobbyists and providers do with their wedding bands when they're in session.  Wear them?  Leave them at home?  In the car?  In a drawer?  Something else?

I lost mine last week while fucking my ATF....I was finger banging her and I lost it in FIV.  I have to find a replacement soon......SHIT!!!

I suspect most providers know that they are seeing married guys the majority of the time, and I doubt if it makes any difference to them.  Besides, if you live where the sun shines on a regular basis, you'll have a "cheater tan" when you take it off and they'll know right away.  Don'tworry about it.

I understand.  The hobby world is (mostly!) non-judgmental, which I appreciate.  I don't hide my marital status, if asked, and, yeah, I have a tan and also marks (my ring is too small), but I put it on my key chain during a session, as it's a small gesture to keep the fantasy alive "in the moment."  Just wondered what others do.

Wear your wedding band. We already assume you are married...

As to my rings.. I don't wear them.. Women's Jewelry typically has small post to hold the diamonds
and stones.. I don't want to gunk them up with sticky stuff! So I don't wear them during play dates..

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So wearing your ring does not matter to them.  If you want to wear it, do so, if you don't want to, don't, it's up to you.  If you don't wear it, you could leave it in the car, or as has been mentioned, put it on your key ring.  In either case, don't forget to put it back on before going home!!!!!!

On the other hand, I think most married providers do not want to broadcast the fact they are married, and thusly do not wear their rings.  It tends to ruin the fantasy for the clients.  As also pointed out, many ladies' diamonds are set on tiny posts, and that could cause problems with lubes, not mention getting snagged on something.

Swim

Do NOT take it off at my incall!If you forget it you have to come back and get it an inconvience me! If you forget it then it's mine! lol

Wear it or leave it in the car, just do not place it somewhere at a ladies' incall!

so I told the wife, it was that or tell her the truth.

I lost it inside of a PYT.

I used to put it on when going out but my fingers must be swollen again because I can't get the thing on.   I'd leave it at home or in my pocket pants.   Providers do not care.
skb

I wear it on my left hand where a wedding ring is conventionally worn.  It was a gift from my parents years ago.  If anyone wants to believe that it's a wedding ring, that's fine.  I know the truth, and well, I guess you all do now as well, lol.

I'm not married, so I do not wear a wedding ring.  I do wear rings on both hands, a watch, and a neck chain.  I remove all of them and put them in my pants pocket before we start playing, they get in the way.  Thus far, I have not had to worry about my stuff.

Yeah, I know everyone will tell me to leave all of that in the car, but I don't.  My thought is this, if I have done my research thoroughly I should not have to worry about putting my valuables in my pants pocket.  Thus far, I have not had to be concerned.  Yes, I am being very trusting, but with a quality provider, why not?

If you are with a provider with no reviews, yeah, leave the bling in the car, duhhhhh.  If you have to worry about it, you have not done your research.

Just my opinion,
Swim

Every lady I know takes hers off. They don't want it to disrupt the momentary fantasy. Their husbands knew their profession so there was no danger of upsetting him.

A gent should never take off his wedding ring. Every time you do, it's playing a lottery, there's a freak chance it might get lost or forgotten.  Not very discreet to return without your wedding band.

To attract less attention I got the cheapest wedding band I could find and wear it on a date if he's wearing one. It attracts far less attention.