My ATF makes sure I finish...  sometimes, after a couple of hours of s*ckin & f*ckin...  I just need to finish.  She sure senses my needs.  I was slowing down & I think (it's was a while ago) she said something like "Are you getting tired?"  It may be because she is a massage lady who adds extras you want but she sure knows how to put enough pressure is exactly the right spots.  Not only does she make me c*mm, but knows how sensitive a guy is after the cream & can keep me going for another 10 or 20 contractions.  About turns me inside out through my d*ck.  This is absolutely the most intense O I've experienced.  (After she cleans me up, she always comes back to lie with me while I come down.)
 
I know some guys think a hj is second rate.  My ATF promised she'd never leave me unfinished.  I've not been with very many, but am wondering if other providers offer this service.  
S

PS   IMHO, If SOs would learn this, a lot of ladies would need to find other employment.

I have often said, and some of my reviews confirm, HJ's are extremely under rated

The problem is...a lot of ladies don't know how to REALLY give a good hj finish.

Who says HJ's are just for finishing??

My hands are the most agile and nimble part of my body, capable of varying pressure, speed, and sensation far more than my mouth or my poosy. HJ's are meant to be savored and enjoyed while I slowly tease and tantalize a man until he is ready to explode. Then we can move onto other activities that are equally as fun

I love a good hj from time to time.  They can be a very erotic part of a session, and not always just for a finish.

Sounds like an excellent provider. Now if you'd share with us who she is, maybe we could all enjoy a great HJ.

Yes, I agree and I love a good one. My point was that many ladies don't know how to utilize the handjob or do a good job of giving one. I just said finish bebcause that was the topic of the thread.

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For someone who uses her hands on a REGULAR basis, I have to say...YES!
and I Agree with Sins...HJ are NOT just to FINISH.

xoxo
~Diana~

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Cup #3 was with a HJ finish last evening.  Not bad for a guy in his 50's.  Unfortunately, this is a rare occurance.

The absolute best orgasmic feeling that can be had is through manual stimulation. It must be well lubricated. And not with these cheap water based lubes. It must be a good oil based lube (or maybe saliva if you prefer, but you need lots of it).

An expertly executed HAND JOB release (most preferably executed by "her" and not me) is like none other. Too many providers are either untrained or simply overlook the detail needed and the care required to properly execute a good HAND JOB.

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If SO's would learn this??? Who are these ladies you guys are marrying? They're not shy little naive virgins that grew up raised by wolves or something. C'mon...

SO's know the trick. I think if anything, your affection for your ATF has colored your view of your relationship with your SO. I would drop the generalizations... not all civvie ladies are ignorant in the sack.

For whatever reason, if your SO isn't fucking you in *any* manner, it's not because she's ignorant about ways in which she can offer pleasure.

Katie

I'm certain the following does not apply to any provider who is participating in this thread.

The HJ finish is also the saving grace when the hobbyist tries someone new and she (a) just isn't the one for him, (b) does not like her job, (c) isn't good at her job [let's face it; being a provider is a skill position], and / or (d) the hobbyist TOFTT and discovers the rare companionship disaster (or, for fellows like myself, who sometimes develop "condomitis.")

In order to prevent the experience from being a total loss, one can at least hope the provider, whose guidance counselor obviously steered her in the wrong direction, can lightly grip and move her arm up and down.

Thank you Ladies for your interest & candor,
I will not speak in general terms, only of the ladies who have been in my life.  My SO, now post-menapausal, has no sex drive but will willing participate & enjoys herself thereafter.  She really isn't good at BJ or HJ  & has no interest in improving.  She's fine with f*cking.  We do indeed have a sex life, just not all it could be.

There may well be ladies who are more knowledgeable & etc.

I am indeed fond of my ATF & all that she does, which is why she's my fav.

Your comment "They're not shy little naive virgins that grew up raised by wolves or something. C'mon..." kinda struck a nerve with me.. as my wife was pretty much THAT. Except the wolf part, I won't go there. No HJ even close to completion, definitely no BJ of any sort, you can imagine the rest. I always pleased her with DATY though. We're divorcing now for multiple reasons - I didn't even get into the sex thing with her, there's enough bad feelings I don't want to add to it. And no, our marriage was ok then she just seemed to find cum gross and wanted to stay as far away from it as possible. Not too arousing for me.

I spent so many years HJ'ing myself (embarrasing), I don't think to go ask a provider to do it and spend the time that way. Maybe I should let someone else do it for a change, maybe I'll learn new techniques! lol

By the way, I only saw one pic of you - but from what I could tell with your looks alone I'd probably cum before you even got a chance to touch me! Too bad I'm across the country..