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I met a civvy woman who turned out to be a provider ...
Hu11 40 Reviews 2322 reads
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I have been with my barber for many years.  About a year ago, he hired an attractive young woman.  She cut my hairs a couple of times in the past.  I chatted with her when I met her there.  I felt like knowing her pretty well.

For some strange unknown reasons, I just felt she could be a provider.  Yesterday when I was at the barber shop, she chatted with me as usual; I did something bold that I could not believe myself: I handed her my business card and I wrote down my cell number on it -- underneath the number I wrote "$300?".  What happened next shocked me.  She wrote her number down on a piece of paper and whispered to me "text me if you want to see me".  I was speechless; I don't think any regular civvy woman would behave like this.  In the afternoon, we traded some texts.  We set up an appointment in a hotel today.  She was awesome I would give her a rating of '10'.  

This is not good practice.  But how could I be right about her?  I Googled her, she is not advertised anywhere

Ladybutler915 reads

I am sure she wants your dick in her mouth

Be sure to keep things straight.  If you see her at the hotel again, do NOT ask her to cut your hair during the visit.  You might offend her and get a Bobbitt

I wonder myself sometimes if someone is a provider.

I giggled the other day when doing an outcall when I passed a door with the lock holding the door open, hehehe. I was thinking, "I know what she's doing!" I then went into my appointment and forgot about it quickly.

But I hear that stuff all the time.

Have you had other times where you've said/done things out of the blue without even thinking and were right about it?

I've predicted some crazy shit that came true... even names of people I'd never seen in my life.

I believe in auras, presences, angels, and reasons behind things. There have even been times where I've felt such a strong feeling to get out of a situation or to go into a situation, not knowing why, and it ended up being either a disaster or something that saved me... depending on whether or not I listened.

Boiled down to a catering decision once. I call that event "Chinese food day." hahaha... long story.

Cumbledor933 reads

The odds of finding a girl in the hair salon business who also provides are like 3 TO 1.  Especially the hot ones.  I go to Supercuts and get propositioned.  Yeah I know big spender.  You think you can survive and maybe pay off a student loan on maybe double minimum wage and tips?    She read you like a book as a monger, put out the vibe you find familiar, subtle signs that have been around for a millenia all the girls here know inately and you took the bait.  She wrote $400.00 didn't she?  Your angels are not trying to get you laid.  Your best friends are.

One of the real dangers of this game is you start to think any attractive gal is a provider and any guy hanging around a hotel lobby is a fellow monger.  The odds of your being right are very long, and acting on your impulse will almost always be a mistake.
Bottom line: the OP got lucky this time.  If he tries it again; he'll probably get slapped.  At best.

I've been Internet/TER hobbying for over a decade. Being single/divorced I've had several to my home. About 2 years ago a beautiful, well dressed, willowy tall brunette woman of about 25yo appeared at my door unexpectedly. She was seeking employment doing any odd-jobs, cleaning, and yard work I may have too offer. She said her "engagement" had fizzled and she was alone, jobless and in dire straights. I queried her as to why such a poised, well spoken young lady was seeking such proletariat endeavor when her baby soft hands had no callus, finger nails were well kept and everything about her bespoke more professional potential. She left me her name on a scrap of paper and said she would check again in the near future.
   A week later she returned looking as tastefully alluring as previous, asking again if there wasn’t ANYTHING she could attend to around my home.  

  I quite possibly passed up on a EPIC experience; But there comes a time in a man's life when a beautiful young distraught woman appearing at your door unscheduled can only be a harbinger of untold trouble

For what it's worth, I get these "subtle propositions" all the time for various reasons and in various circumstances. I have never taken anyone up on it, and always been a bit put off by it. Just my thing.

and charming personalities.... oh sooooo smooth!!!  one might say velvety... Like going down a very gentle water slide....   just kinda cool!

ROGM844 reads

There's a Sport Clips near my House. The Girls are Super Gorgeous. What they make working as Hair Stylists doesn't compare to what they'd make being Providers. I might start getting my Haircuts at Sport Clips.

and brushing her breasts against the back of my head.  She is a gorgeous MILF to boot.

But she cuts hair (hairs?) for several people in my family, is married and is always chatting about her family, and so I would never dare say anything out of line to her.

I just tip her well.

This is the first time I've heard about picking up a gal from a hair salon.  I've taken up with 3 or 4 gals from MPs, but that's like talking a drunk into have a swig of moonshine.

I've also heard the gals who work at chiropractic offices are in the biz; in fact one MP gal told me she moonlights at one and even does her business there with guys.

I'm also curious as to what kinds of conversations, etc. you had with the hairdresser gal that might have formed your opinion as to the suitability of making such a bold move.

I'd have to admit, that's brass.  I'm glad it paid off rather than getting you in hot water.

My_New_Alias544 reads

The third paragraph of your post explains pretty well your subject line and first paragraph.  It's the same with the woman who washes my hair when I get it cut.  She leans over to put her boobs in my face a couple of times and I tip her twice what I should.  My dick is a poor decision maker.  Good thing I never give it the keys to my car.

Especially if it is an upscale male(we charge way to much for a haircut) type shop. The young lady most likely has all of your info, if you've ever charged a haircut.  

 
You said you Googled her, and "she is not advertised anywhere"

Did you put any thought into that statement?

a provider who is a civee women. ( go figure )

Um..lol there are quite a few of us. LOL Although, I would never give an aura though.

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since a member of TER I've read many tales of encounters of the 3rd kind.

Oh, encounters of the first kind are calling a number (e-mailing, going to a MP etc) advertised as providing services.

Encounters of the second kind - strippers.

Encounters of the third kind - civies that "give a vibe"!  this includes bartenders, hot gals walking in the mall in the middle of the day, actual MILFS etc.

One of the most detailed and best was a "monger" in my area hanging out at a very well know upscale shopping mall, who spied a lass to his liking.  He approached, asked if she was "available" (she was) and off they went to a local hotel.  Do I advise this?!  Sure - why not?!  have I personally done this? Yup, but you have to make the correct approach and it MUST be subtle.  Walking up to a comely lass in a situation such as any of these and saying "wanna f#@k for ca$h?" is not the best approach if the lady happens to NOT be in the biz or even interested.  Instead ask "have I seen your picture anywhere?" if she responds "maybe" or "yea" I follow with "I'm a bad boy!" or "I'm a dirty old man!"  If she is interested she usually says "I'm a naughty gal!"  The conversation quickly goes forward from there.  If she is truly a civie, nuttin happens.  After a while, you learn the secret signs....

I tell people this, and they never believe me....    at first  oh, and Mr. F.  being married has NOTHING to do with it.  Was with a married gal for 5 years, through 2 marriages, the birth of 2 kids, and one divorce...  I called that off.  What she may be telling you is she is available for NSA sex... but you are there "in the chair" so its your call, but know this, she knows where ALL her body parts are, and where your hands and neck are!   She is doing it for you as well as FOR HERSELF.

As for googleing a civie! Ha.  Not gonna happen - I've been handed business cards by some - a name, number and maybe an e-mail addy.  They want to be low key - although I have pictures of most of mine, these are very private.

Offer me $100 for sex lmfao!  This was when I was still in high school no less.  I told him I was a lesbian and to leave me alone but I may have been tempted if it was someone who actually looked like they had a spare $100.  Little did I know I'd be doing this some day....

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Maybe he put the idea in your head, and it just took a few years for it to sprout. ;)

I've gotten my hair cut by several women that I wish were providers. Good to hear you found one.

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