I see a lot of people saying or implying that reviews here, particularly the "juicy details" sections, are largely made up.  I'm wondering how true that is.  Personally, everything I write is entirely true.  I'll even write about the times when I have equipment failure, which is hardly something you'd read in Penthouse Letters.  The only thing I sometimes fudge a bit on is the looks rating -- I know the provider will likely read the review, and I'm hesitant to say something hurtful (besides, looks are very subjective).  But as far as what went down, I tell it like it is.

I don't want others feeling inferior when they can't get her off that many times. I do tell about the various services so that others will know what to expect.

I'm always honest. No reason not to be.
I NEVER write reviews for providers that don't want them, or providers that don't deserve one.
I NEVER write a review unless I can legitimately give a 9 - 9 or better in both categories.

As the OP said, the only thing I fudge just a little is in the looks department because as he said, I am hesitant to say something hurtful (and looks are subjective).  Likewise, a girl can have a smoking body but a less than appealing face, or vice versa.  There you have to split the difference.  If her body is a 9 or 10 but her face is a 4 or 5 then she gets a 7.  Likewise, if her face could launch a thousand ships, but her body is average, she gets a 7 for looks.  Looks almost don't matter to me.  I mean sure, she's gotta be halfway decent for me to even look at her, but as pudgy 40 something white guy, I can't be too criticizing.

that claimed CIM with a provider that I know for a fact does not do that.  So yes, I think some guys feel the need to claim receiving a service that nobody else was provided in a lame "check me out, she did this for me but not for any of you losers" statement.  Anonymous, made up man card validation is pretty f'd up and sad, IMO.  Some of my reviews, particularly the early ones, might be a bit douchenozzley but there isn't a false statement in the lot.

I think more of them are totally fake, meaning they did not see that provider, than they are embellished.
Cheapskates who don't wan to pay for VIP post fake reviews to get access.

Tried PMing the guy to say thanks... but... I didn't see any new clients that month?

Yes I agree !!! I have 2 reviews that state I provided cim and another for greek and thats just not true im always up front with what I will and WILL NOT  provide to my clients

I know there are a few of mine that make me go "wow, well I'm glad that's how you felt about it!" Lol! Mostly accurate, but I just maybe didn't feel the connection as strongly as he did, or maybe I didn't feel like I did as good of a job as he seemed to think, but if that's how he perceived it, then hey. It is someone else's description of their side of an experience. For what they are and from what I've seen doing doubles, they might be a little fluffy to protect a girls feelings every once in a while, but they're fairly accurate, for the most part.

Since TER gives out free VIP, they're basically encouraging fake reviews. Post one so you can check out the girl you actually want to see, easy peasy. I have seen some where I know they can't be real... The guy is just listing off such general stuff there's no way he actually met a human being. Especially if you go back and look through his history and see that they're all copied and pasted nearly word for word...

The truth is you don't really know...you only know what this (or any other) gal tells you.

The rest are fairly honest.  

I don't trust 10/10 reviews myself. I look for continuity. When I see a string of 8/9s I tend to throw out the random 6 as a pissed off client. I also get a laugh at the guy who gave the provider "several O's". Really?! Got some mad oral skills do ya?LOL Uh dude, she does this for a living...
 

Just saying ;-p

I agree with you about looks; all you need to know is if the pictures are accurate - but we have had this discussion before ad nauseum.  I won't book a woman that I don't think is at least attractive - so 7 or higher. Your Opinion Will Vary - Get Used to It.  *YOWVGUTI*

Plenty of guys write that "excellent" review so the gal doesn't go ballistic on his ass.

I would skip right over the ones that totally degrade and say passive aggressive, mean things about the woman. Those are obviously fake reviews.

Why shouldn't any dude report that in his review?  He is paying (in many cases) a months worth of disposable income to be made to feel like the only guy in the world.

You are correct, I don't "know for a fact" she doesn't, I know for a fact that she SAYS she doesn't.  So either a) she was so turned on by this one reviewer that she couldn't bear to not taste his seed, b) she was so repulsed by me and every one else that has reviewed her that while she normally does she wouldn't, or c) the reviewer in question is engaging in wishful thinking and/or braggadocio.  Though admittedly not a fact, I'm going with C!

If I write a review that is honest but out of the norm, well you know what happens either way. And the process is flawed too. If I say she is a 9 in looks, a statement of taste, then the haters and WK both attack me. Even if she reads me like a her favorite book and I totally enjoy the session, an honest review in this system can fall too far below the norm. So, lie or be honest? I have learned that it is better for me in my small community to just not tell everyone how good a time I did or did not have, if it will not be her average review. Thank you to the ones that have helped me establish a presence here. By the way, if someone back channels me for dirt on a provider, you will not get it. Other information probably yes, but I will not say in pm something bad that I will not say to her face. Yes someone did ask.
May you have your world rocked for reading this silly drivel, may you orgasm into a comma
(coma,, decided to leave it for silly effect )

A few thoughts about 10/10 reviews.

Ok I get some guys will write false reviews to get free VIP (how cheap is that?) but I do not get making false statements in  reviews either good or bad. I am very well aware that my reviews are way long and as one girl claimed here rather "Verbose" in nature but I do say what did take place as accurately as I can so that others who are trying to decide if they may want to see the same girl and so that the girls services are clearly depicted to help her get more biz. Ok I do get off on them also I admit lol.

Pro - We get more reviews, therefore more publicity and verification that we're consistent.
Con - Guys are more encouraged to write fake reviews.

That sometimes a gal is comfortable enough with a well paying dude that she'll allow something that she really has NO interest in otherwise.

Posted By: thehumanist

You are correct, I don't "know for a fact" she doesn't, I know for a fact that she SAYS she doesn't.  So either a) she was so turned on by this one reviewer that she couldn't bear to not taste his seed, b) she was so repulsed by me and every one else that has reviewed her that while she normally does she wouldn't, or c) the reviewer in question is engaging in wishful thinking and/or braggadocio.  Though admittedly not a fact, I'm going with C!

As well I will get that website up and run those threADs very shortly.

In performance the max is 7, with one point added for, kiss with tongue, BBBJ, Greek, Bi, or second provider. So that 10 takes some commitment, or guys just take her word for it or what??
Am I wrong on this? Have I been wrong all along?

I'm expensive too.

I think it's because I'm really so highly educated...or perhaps due to my extensive narcissism.  I'm not sure to be honest.  Maybe because I'm cheap?

Posted By: OpenMindedGFE

I'm expensive too.  
   
 Regarding Harry Caray's, great restaurant, I just can't finish all of the food ha. I think next time I'll remember to give my date the rest of my meat balls when they're still hot.  
   
 Portillo's is too expensive for me.

I have never offered greek and have gotten more than a few 10s in service.

Then it was pretty dickish or ignorant to include that detail in the review.

I'm really more speaking about degrading language and almost making fun of, and / or exposing something that a mature person would word respectfully.

In a schoolgirl cheerleader outfit snapping your suspenders.

Especially when a gal they've been seeing a long time rejects them for a myriad of reasons.

This sounds like it might get a bit on the kinky side...which is no problem for me at all.

because I think that may be how I even get the job?

Sometimes you can't tell the girl to her face. I'll admit, I've gotten upset with a regular or two who said my service wasn't up to par or improving, but it seemed it was more that I scheduled with them during time off when I was in pain or something of the like.

And for those guys who think a lady has to allow reviews, I can tel you I don't and it is possible not to have a review even though the guy tries to post one. A few well placed emails will do the trick, ha ha pun intended.

And honestly, if those dudes want to write (real or fake) a review on YOU they will.  Now if you don't have the site or ad for him to use when trying to write a review that will generally result in a rejection from TER.

There are no threatening emails sent to any john. I dealt with the actual sites themselves, well not me personally. And if any ever sneak through, I am very diligent at checking and they get removed after another email is sent to the site in question.

I want to see the goods as gravity meant them to be viewed, hanging down. No shaving off a few inches around the waist line. Since you will be new, I am prepared to TOFTT if I like your website and images.

All a dude needs to review you is a site and an ad.  If those exist somewhere he can review you...just that simple.

That's fine...but you know that there is absolutely NO NEGOTIATING my fees.  You don't want to offend me by offering to pay me fees that are already astronomical.  I'll be so offended that you'd want me to even think you devalue me as a person.  I'm going to start crying now.  Psst....I do negotiate...just don't tell anyone else...it's OUR secret  

I just don't like the idea that a girl just CANT do that good of a job on here. Some do get a little crazy, but that can be avoided by doing your homework. I know the majority of the guys won't go through a lot of effort other than "yup she's hot and yup she's got reviews", but those of us who actually do work and try to earn and live up to our scores shouldn't be counted out just because a guy got a chip on his shoulder from a story he heard.

Nope...she didn't actually have any O's.  But she did put on a terrific show.

Those are all quite true.

I'd rather read less reviews knowing that they are real and from serious (paying) members.

In a world built on fiction an abundance of lies should not be all that shocking.  And yes in fact I have heard a couple of lovesick puppy tales, and while they confound me I try not to judge too harshly, not knowing the first thing about the circumstances that made those gentlemen susceptible to such fantasies.  There but for the grace of God, as they say.

...offer it (it needs to be marked on her profile) she doesn't have to actually do it with you. If it's on her profile (read offered) she can recieve a 10. One point of clarification bring another provider is not one of the things that qualifies her for another point. "More than one guy at a time" does.

Like I always say ... Ask your SO (wife,GF, whatever) how many O's she had. She'll tell ya the "real" number ...

I decided to see Courtney after reading her posts on the boards...

A "little"? I remember getting bitched out (OK maybe a little) because I gave a provider an good review IMO 8ish /9 ish. She told me she was a 10 and sure enough her next review was a 10/10. Please! Talk about arm twisting. To me an 8 or 9 was a "good" review. To her. It was an insult.

You are just trying to argue at this point, and I really don't care if you want to try and throw little jabs like that at me. I know how I run my business, and the fact that I can be completely booked for an entire month off one mailing list note, meeting just one new person, and retiring in a month after barely even being here, shows me what the back channel says about me. So, go on with your childish self. It's not workin here.

Yeah, I would say that's a little... Some guys have been outed and blackmailed because of stuff, so whining about a review just doesn't seem like that big of a deal, grand scheme if you know what I mean.

And it is not about contacting the site after the review has been posted.

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Hey too much yapping , not enough lapping, get to it sweet cheeks.

Don't hate.

The discovery of the century. Really, what you think?