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Clearly, men have more sensation without a condom than wrapped, but do females have this same distinction?  Not asking about the STI or prego concerns, just the female sensation with or without a condom.

Some guys don’t even know they’re wearing a condom unless they see it.  

 
BTW, based on your alias, I’d think you would be asking about STIs and pregnancy lol.  

 
Hopefully some of the ladies here answer your question, but a couple civvies have told me it feels better bare. Didn’t sound so much like a loss of sensation, like for guys. Just that it slides and glides better bare, even with the lubed condoms. But that’s just a couple opinions told to me and relayed here. Probably not a universal thing.

Wait is that really a thing?

 
Damn I'm somewhat envious of these guys. My body is so conservative in its nature that anything that feels off starts bothering me. And I've been alive less than 40 years. Shit don't get me started on dental work let alone surgeries! Lol.  

 
A piece of rubber on my dick always feels weird, especially (close your ears if tmi) since I'm uncut. Even if the rubber's exterior surface is covered in lube, pussy juice or whatever. It just feels off to me. And no this isn't a pro-bbfs post or anything, just envious of those who can't feel the condom on their Johnson.

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It's only a slight/subtle difference for me when thrusting.  Otherwise I have to look to see if it is on.
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I remember one encounter where my condom came off inside a provider. Only noticed it when I pulled out to do another position.  She had to dig it out.  I didn't notice any change in feeling.  
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When I supply condoms (for sugar babes) I use the  Skyn brand.  They're pretty thin.   And to me they have no rubber scent, and I've seen providers say they have no taste.

do not yet understand that there is a diminution in sensitivity as they get older because they are not yet there,  In 20 years, they will have their own experience and change their minds on this subject.  The over 60 board has had many posts and threads about diminished sensitivity on aging dicks, so I'm sure it's not just me.  The side effect seems to be that you can fuck continuously for 45 minutes before blowing your load.  It's a welcome tradeoff for most involved and the ladies, especially civvie MILFs, have no complaints.  Lol  

I have never known I woman who preferred covered with an intimate lover she trusted to be clean! My universe of experience is also limited!

the reality of the situation.  I have heard the same thing from both providers and civvie women I have known intimately where there was mutual trust.  To simply say they CAN get pleasure using a condom is not much different than claiming they can also get pleasure from a cucumber or a banana.  

Personally I don’t find much of a difference, depending on the brand - some seem to have less sensation than others. For example, I have never liked Trojans - they don’t feel as good to me and I have had them break a few times as well.  

Now female condoms are a different story altogether. They definitely dull my sensations and it doesn’t feel as good. But they are often way more pleasurable for the gents, and that’s the objective.  Plus if a man is able to stay harder with an FC that’s always a bonus for both participants!

I offer them & it’s not easy to use. I am sure the guys might find them pleasurable, but it’s not anymore arousing for me personally.  The female condoms can be tricky & time consuming to insert it can kill the mood, unless you have it in already. lol!

trash can liners.  They are made to fit the can and not what you are putting in them.  You can see the rim around the top of the liner so that you know it's in there.   If you put just a little trash into the liner, it is loose and doesn't  fit the can very well, but if you stuff it full, it's a tight fit and fits snuggly against the inside of the trash can.   Same with an FC used with a pussy.  Larger dicks will provide more sensation for the wearer, according to the providers I have seen that use them.  

The obvious sensory difference between the female and male condoms is which side is getting the direct friction.  A tight male condom is not going to put direct friction on his cock, but rather the condom will be sliding against the pussy.  If the pussy is dry (for various reasons) the friction might be irritating.  The male is still going to feel something during thrusting, not direct friction, but the varying texture of the pussy, kind of moving pressure points.
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With the female condom, she's not going to get the direct friction and whether her pussy is particularly dry doesn't matter as much as far as irritation goes.  For the male the female condom is going to feel the most like unprotected sex.  His cock is going to get both direct friction as well as the sliding texture.  Dryness/lube is going to depend on what went into the FC, so that is adjustable.  I don't have a lot of experience with FC's, but I'm now curious if the design of the penis head will pull out the lube.  There is a biological theory that the penis head is designed to scrape out competitor sperm.  
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Anyhow, I like the Skyn brand male condoms.  They're thin and don't smell like a burning rubber factory.  In my experience wearing a condom provides only slightly less sensation that bare.  There is, of course, a psychological factor in dumping your load of cum in some hot babe's pussy.  It's a very dominant kind of fetish.

I would say that thick condoms do feel different for me, but Skyn and Lelo Hex condoms, which are what I use with clients concerned about sensation loss, feel very close to bareback to me (and to them).

I agree with another commenter that most guys wouldn't notice unless they see it. I think it's more psychological than anything. In my private life when I dated a partner, if they were having trouble being hard with the condom on, taking it off didn't change a single thing.  

As a woman feels the same to me condom or not unless it's a terrible brand condom like Lifestyle. Skyns are amazing and feel like nothing so I prefer those. Female condoms are slightly thicker but I'm still able to come very easily with them so no complaints.

It really depends on the brand/style. If it is too thick or too tight, it can be a problem and kill the sensation. But there are some brands where I can still feel her skin and juices through the condom. Honestly, the worst part is that you have to stop the momentum to put it on. But better to be safe. What is worse for me is if she is dry and needs to stop to lube several times. Lubing once in the beginning is fine. But after that it can really kill it for me.

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applying a cover. Many providers know the “magic cover” trick, in which they apply it with their mouths during BBBJ. No stopping the action. Some can do the trick with their hands, eg when sitting on you and their hands are behind their backs giving you a HJ. Even with providers I’ve seen dozens of times, I have trouble seeing how they get the cover into their mouths.

 
As for lube, yeah, that can require a brief pause. Some of my favs are late forties to mid fifties, and they sometimes need extra lube after going at it awhile. No problem. Whatever makes them comfortable. And it’s not really an interruption if we add lube while changing positions. Anyway, at my age, a quick breather doesn’t hurt. 🙂

Yeah, many I have been with do put it on using their mouths. They still need to stop to open the package though. I did have one who slightly tore it before we started and that helped a little. Unfortunately for me, a slight breather can make woody go limp. I require stimulation build up to keep going and reach completion. And if jimbo goes limp, it can be a task to get him up again. I wish the breather wasn’t such a big deal. But we’re not all built the same.

before you get there, and place the cover on a washcloth next to the pillow.  This is what my regulars normally do so the transition from BBBJ to cover-on-with-mouth to riding me CG is seamless.  There won't be enough time for Jimbo to become Limpo.  

revive a dick that has fallen asleep.  Try both and you will see for yourself.  Lol

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that with the thousands of providers you’ve seen, it appears you’ve never met one who does the “magic cover” trick, so your dick can stay awake without that cover on the washcloth staring at you. It’s a shame because it’s a lot of fun to see the trick executed to perfection.

with Kgirls, you would know that this is not a one-off.  MOST of them routinely have the condom on a washcloth next to the pillow.  A side benefit for them in doing this cuts short any unwanted requests for BBFS.  For GFE girls, it's use the cover or I'll walk you to the door.  Since we don't know if you have ever seen even one provider, we don't know if you have much experience, but this post reveals that you are not seeing many Kgirls, if any.  There are no tricks that I have not seen executed to perfection, but if you don't see Kgirls, I would venture to say you have not seen many other "tricks."

 
If it bothers you to have the condom out where you can see it, perhaps you should have her put it on while you still have your underwear on.  Up until now, you didn't seem like the shy type around naked women, but I learn something new here everyday.  Is your long-suffering wife unwilling to learn any new tricks?  Lol

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for you to try to justify yet another vicious attack post by saying my two posts above were attacks on you.  

 
But I forget… all of your attacks are just for giggles, right?  I know you’ll take this next remark as an attack, but it’s just a general observation that some people have a very odd sense of humor.  

 
P.S. for those keeping track, we’re up to AA now.

is a vicious attack, you should be posting on Nickelodeon, not here.  I just commented on an admission you have made in the past and updated it to this topic. You always insert yourself and into my conversations and then cry that you are a victim when you get bitch-slapped.  The obvious remedy for you is to MYOB and I will have no reason to respond to you.  Otherwise, stop whining about what I say to you after you have challenged me on something with one of your snide attacks.  Got hypocrisy?  

 
P.S.  No one is keeping track.  You grossly overestimate your own importance here.  You are an alias with no reviews, so what is your relevance on a review site?  I don't read your posts unless they directed to me, and I imagine there are others who are the same.  For all we know, you have never seen a provider and are just lurking here, and many of your posts with your "opinions" (your posts are mostly devoid of facts) support this interpretation.

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on your mastery of projection. You really should consider teaching a class on it.

 
Just one example of that mastery: you seem concerned about how many facts others have in their posts, yet in just one short post you told at least ten lies… or to be kind, let’s say mis-truths.  

 
One thing (among many) you need a lot of help with, however: staying on topic. I did that in my two posts at the start of this thread. (And you consider those “attacks”. LOL.) Then you went WAY off topic, as you trolls love to do, bringing in your attacks from other threads, etc. Then you had to resort again to “MYOB”, since you’re incapable of having a discussion without resorting to personal attacks.

 
Even one of your few friends on this board says he’s sure you’re a troll. That should give you some idea of what others on this board think of you: a troll who has no life, and thus spends day and night trolling on a fuckboard, taking a break every now and then to fuck K-girls. A guy who thinks the number of posts on a fuckboard and the number of provider reviews someone has are the most important measures of a person’s worth.

 
Have fun thinking up more attacks and lies as a response. I know you trolls get great pleasure doing that.

I think CDL had a better suggestion, but when reading your post I was gonna say that a right-sized cock ring should help with what you’re talking about.  

 
Alternatively, find an honest to goodness cock worshiper and enjoy that to completion, at least occasionally. As you said we’re all built differently, to each their own but imo a BBBJTC can be as good or better than CFS.  

 
Somebody is probably gonna snicker at me but hell, I’m just going to say it. There’s no shame in giving jimbo a few stimulating support strokes while your rider readies the rubber. I mean, it’s not like you’re…strangers!

I think two of my comments are getting mixed up. While putting the condom on kills the momentum, it doesn’t make me go limp. That was the stopping multiple times to lube. That’s what is more likely to make me go limp. Given most providers don’t need to continually lube, I prefer not to give a pass to the ones that do and start jerking off because they got a dry snatch.

Oh okay. Fair enough. I think if you look at your comment, the one to which I replied, it’s not totally clear there was a change of subject there. I do see what you’re saying though, not tryna be a dick.  

 
I feel like what I said still applies. Right? A pause is a pause, for whatever reason; and a pause can lead to erectus deflatus. Understandable.  

 
A ring that’s good and snug, without being so tight that it’s dangerous, keeps blood in there surprisingly well with no stimulation. In my experience at least.  

 
I think I understand what you’re saying about not giving a pass, as far as you’re not going to come back and you’re not a totally happy customer. But you probably don’t usually know she’s dry until you’re in her bed with no pants on, right? So you can find a ring to carry around and at least try it on a dry day to make the best of it, you can ask her to jump back to BJ real quick-like to make the best of it, or you can get irritated and walk out with blue balls.  

 
BJ to completion is not “giving a pass”. Some women feel like it’s more work than sex, depending on positions. Also, it’s fuckin’ fun!

 
Sometimes it’s just about being willing to pivot to what works.

Yeah, I get it might have been confusing, and that's why I tried to clear it up. I never tried a ring, so that might work. Not sure about carrying it around though. I have my reasons lol. As for BJ to completion, I have not found a woman that can bring me to completion with a BJ in the last 15 years. Many have tried, and when they have they typically tire out and ask me to finish myself. And, I do and cannot be mad because I know it's me, not them. Maybe it's a control thing, idk, but I either need to be in her (front door or back) or using my own hands.

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Re: It’s possible to not stop the momentum

 Not sure about carrying it around though. I have my reasons lol.

LoL all I meant was to make a habit of bringing it to sessions, but I guess you could go full send and just use it as a key ring.

Not about the wrapperus interruptus issue, but more generally about the limpus dickus issue ... I was reading a news site that I haven't read in a while and there were ads for the Tenuto 2, a male vibrator, that has been getting decent reviews. But be careful believing the reviews. You know unreliable some review sites can be. Google "Tenuto 2" for articles, reviews, video reviews, etc..  
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http://www.wired.com/review/tenuto-mini/
Review: MysteryVibe Tenuto Mini. The tiny Tenuto Mini vibrator improves on its predecessor’s attempts to satisfy both people with phalluses and their partners.
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(Sold by Amazon, Walmart, sex sites, etc.)

This has been here for like half a day and nobody has said this, but here goes.  

Are you referring to Limpus, brother of Biggus Dickus? He’s friends with Caesar you know!!

because for the guy wearing a normal male condom, since there is a covering all around the skin, so his skin is not directly rubbing against anything else. Whereas for a woman, she still experiences the sensation of something sliding directly against her skin, even if it’s latex and not penis-skin. However, this is the opposite for female condoms. I have still yet to find a lady who offers these, but supposedly it’s the best feeling for a guy other than bare…

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