I'm 45 and in excellent health. No doubt my libido has gradually decreased with age. But I am generally able to rub one out every night to porn without much issue. Once or twice a week I'll give up, but even those days I can get hard and stay hard.
Now with providers it's a whole other story. I can get hard early in the session. But after a few minutes I go limp. Sometimes it comes back, other times no amount of dfk, BBBJ will get it hard again.. And I usually refrain from jerking off for at least 4 days before seeing a provider. So there should be plenty of libido in the tank.
Having said that, I have had sessions where I was able to maintain the erection for most of the session. However at my age of 45 it seems hit or miss whether the session will be good.
I blame it somewhat on my personality which is shy/introverted. With porn there is no one actually there. So I can live my fantasy with multiple monitors of porn.. But with providers I never really know their personality till the session begins.
Wonder any advice from folks who have been in my shoes?
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Get some Viagra.. you'll get over it. Being nervous will kill a hard cock
meaning that you have adjusted to having sex with porn, rather than people.
The only way to correct this, at least as far as used to be discussed on here, is the "no mas" regimen of no porn until you re-align yourself.
Good luck.
If that were true then all my sessions with providers would be bad. Presently it's 50/50. When I started hobbying in my 30s it was 75% success rate. So I am not sure porn addiction is the culprit. But perhaps it has part to blame. I will try increasing the number of days I avoid porn before a session from 4 to 7.
if you were new to this or your level of "success" was steady, maybe, but your success with real live providers has declined over the years, so look for another reason.
My first thought, if it was an issue with being an introvert and needing to know their personality, was to book longer sessions and/or watch porn together as part of foreplay.
ED pills should be a last resort at your age and if you function normally in front of multiple monitors.
Watching porn with a provider sounds great in theory. In practice, I would feel too self-conscious and "weird". So likely my ED issues with worsen!
I feel ya buddy. I'm in the same boat. I have used Viagra regularly for about 6 years, but when I'm with someone new I still can't stay hard. With me it's physiological, not sure what's wrong up there. I feel no embarrassment just can't get it up the first time I'm with a woman. Second time no problem and after that I'm a porn star. Seriously.
But having entered this thing with SBs for the first time I find it's much harder to stay hard. Even after a first session. I'm going to go to a therapist. Talk to your doctor. Can't hurt.
Based on what you describe it seems similar to what I experienced and it's IMO 100% mental.
It also heavily depends on a woman - with some of them it's never an issue and with some it just doesn't work. Some sort of subconscious thing.
What helps me to relax is a small dose of edibles (2.5) - also makes things more enjoyable in general for me.
And, as others said, Viagra or Sildenafil (what I tried). I do it infrequently and when I do I go for a small dose as well (25 or even less).
The important thing is to recognize it for what it is and just ignore it and keep trying. Good luck!
No denying that cannabinoids can help most people relax. Unfortunately, edibles don’t work on me. But, if the OP’s issue can be fixed by addressing any endocrine irregularities, I would avoid any amount of cannabinoids as they have negative side effects on testosterone levels not to mention their impact on work ethic and drive for the average person (but not the super human potheads a la Joe Rogan).
If you aren't taking.the blue pill you should consider it.
For some reason I am against the blue pill. As mentioned it works ok during porn, so the problem is not physiological..
Agreed, better IMO to address the root of the problem first. Pill should be the last resort rather than the first.
Nothing succeeds like success, especially in psychological matters. Of the blue pill gets you past performance anxiety, then there is less need for the pill next time.
Are you saying you have reduced your use of the blue pill then? Do you still use it now?
Take the fucking pill!, It was prescribed for me when I was your age when I complained that I could no longer take my time during sex because, if I didn't keep at it, I would lose my erection. Doc prescribed 100 mg pills and told me to take a quarter to begin with. Turned out that 1/6 worked perfect for a long, long time and I could fuck for as long as I wanted, stop for daty, wait for as long as it took for her to cum...whatever.
The last few months I've upped the dose to 1/4-1/3, but I'm old. Still fucking though, but porn left me cold right around the start of this year for the first time in my life, which is why I finally broke down and started paying for it. Now it's the real thing or nothing. Enjoy your youth. Take the pill to overcome your performance anxiety, which I can't believe isn't a central cause of your troubles. How I wish I had started hobbying earlier in life.
Tadalafil (Generic Cialis) works better for me than Sildenafil (generic Viagra) less side effects for sure. Both pills were originally designed as BP meds and still work for that but pleasant sides helped make boners so they tweaked them and got FDA approved for ED.
On days that I play I skip my BP meds and my Atorvastatin's which helps a lot. I'm also on testosterone replacement therapy (TRT) which has been a HUGE game changer for me. I get the package sent from www.Royalmedicalcenters.com from Florida (Also on FB and Twitter and YouTube) affordable and totally legit compounded by a real and legit RX pharmacy in Fla, USA Without this I'd be useless. My T levels are back where they were in my 20's
Another great ED site is www.franktalk.org
PM me for more, always glad to help
Jeff in NJ
sildenafil some years ago when I went to see a sports medicine MD for issues with my athletic activities (less productive workouts and trouble increasing muscle mass on my normal workout schedule). After some tests, Low-T was determined to be the reason, so I went on TRT. Not only did my overall health and athletic ability return to what it was 20-25 years ago, so did my sex life. I didn't need the sildenafil anymore. The side effect of TRT is improved and longer-lasting erections.
However, make sure the doctor managing your TRT is up on the latest science. Once you start TRT, you should also be taking Anastrozole and hCG. The best delivery for TRT is IM-injection. The companion drugs are an oral tablet (anastrozole) and another injectable (hCG). I won't go into the details for the three-drug cocktail, because its easily researchable on the web, but suffice it to say that, without the anastrozole, you will likely grow man-boobs, and without the hCG, your balls will atrophy and shrink in size by two-thirds, so you don't want to take ONLY the testosterone supplement. Once you are on this 3-drug regimen, you will feel and perform like you are 35 again, assuming your sexual failures are normal age-related issues and not due to an injury or congenital deformity.
Spot on stuff CDL and I'm on a similar program from Royal Medical Centers.com Who send me the complete package legit from Fla (Google them) They send me the Needles, syringes, drugs etc. all for $195 per mo. compounded from a US pharmacy in Fla. The Anastrozole (Estrogen blocker btw) is already mixed with the testosterone cypionate (200mg strength) which makes it easier. The HCG has been upgraded to Gonadorelin also injected 2x weekly subcutaneously with insulin syringe. The Gonadorelin tells the pituitary gland to tell your testes to produce more T naturally and combined with the Testosterone Cypionate Your getting the boost naturally AND artificially which should bring your T levels back to where they were at 30 years old. No side effects at all! Been a godsend for me at 76. 
Lastly Tadalafil (Generic Cialis) much better than Sildenafil imho as it's always in your system and no dizzy side effects, YMMV.
Posted By: coeur-de-lion
Re: I had just started using . . . .
sildenafil some years ago when I went to see a sports medicine MD for issues with my athletic activities (less productive workouts and trouble increasing muscle mass on my normal workout schedule). After some tests, Low-T was determined to be the reason, so I went on TRT. Not only did my overall health and athletic ability return to what it was 20-25 years ago, so did my sex life. I didn't need the sildenafil anymore. The side effect of TRT is improved and longer-lasting erections.
However, make sure the doctor managing your TRT is up on the latest science. Once you start TRT, you should also be taking Anastrozole and hCG. The best delivery for TRT is IM-injection. The companion drugs are an oral tablet (anastrozole) and another injectable (hCG). I won't go into the details for the three-drug cocktail, because its easily researchable on the web, but suffice it to say that, without the anastrozole, you will likely grow man-boobs, and without the hCG, your balls will atrophy and shrink in size by two-thirds, so you don't want to take ONLY the testosterone supplement. Once you are on this 3-drug regimen, you will feel and perform like you are 35 again, assuming your sexual failures are normal age-related issues and not due to an injury or congenital deformity.
when I see him later this month about the Gonadorelin. When I saw him last year, he didn't mention any possible upgrades. Thanks for the heads-up.
That sounds like a great deal price-wise for all three drugs. Does that include the cold-pak shipping?
You'd rather take drugs that fuck with your endocrine system than take a harmless one with a short half-life?!? Wow. I guess I don't have anything else to add to this thread.
you off of the science. Are you an anti-vaxxer, too? Or would you rather fuck with your immune system by taking the vaccine rather and acquire the antibodies the natural way from the disease? Got hypocrisy? Periodic testing assures me that my endocrine system is just fine, and I would AGREE that anyone that reacts negatively to these drugs should not take them. And Yes, you probably have nothing else of any value to add.
Actually, I confused you with the OP, so I retract the post. Mind you, however, I'm a proponent of TRT, just not as the approach of first choice. That would have been the case if your post was from the OP. And what I'll say about your ad hominem remarks is that you made a few really bad, erroneous assumptions about me that also have nothing to do with the topic. It seems your reputation among some here is earned.
But it's not your assumptions about me that are truly objectionable, it's your apparent lack of understanding about the acknowledged and well documented limitations about what testing hormone levels can tell you. If you wanted to know whether your endocrine system is healthy, you'd need to stop the TRT for three or more months -- most medical researchers say a year or more -- to know whether it's still at least marginally healthy. Testing your T-level while on TRT doesn't say much about the health of your ES.
You stated that you did have low-T, so I'm glad TRT is there for you. Hopefully anybody thinking about it will have not just their overall T-level checked, but also their free and bioavailable T-levels, along with their estrogen levels. You may need TRT, but stick to the facts.
instead of implying I'm out of my mind for being on TRT, you would have gotten a different reaction from me. With me, you reap what you sow. So we got off to a bad start, but after this followup, we're good.
I probably test too much, out of an abundance of caution. I check my complete blood chemistry every six months, the free- and bio- levels every 90 days, and the testosterone, estrodial, liver panel and PSA monthly. After four years, no surprises or deviations from the norm, and the overall improvement in my quality of life is worth the time and expense of the monitoring.
'allcomers' was incredulous that someone would rather take a serious drug like TRT rather than the relatively harmless Viagra. Unfortunately, he mistakenly thought Cuck-Da-Loser posted that statement.
Cuck could have replied by pointing out that 'allcomers' confused him with another poster. Instead, Certified-Dick-Lover immediately launched an ad hominem attack against 'allcomers'.
'allcomers' realized his mistake and immediately retracted his post accusing CDL of taking TRT rather than Viagra. He did however gracefully note that CDL was an asshole when he said: "...And what I'll say about your ad hominem remarks is that you made a few really bad, erroneous assumptions about me that also have nothing to do with the topic. It seems your reputation among some here is earned."
Certified-Dick-Licker's reply was: "With me, you reap what you sow." IOW: "I'm CDL and I'm a butt-hurt little bitch. If you say anything that remotely disagrees with me, I will cry, stamp my feet and launch ad hominem attacks at you."
Notice that 'allcomers' retracted his post because he confused CDL with the OP but little bitch boy CDL did not retract his ad hominem attacks against 'allcomers.' The best that asshole CDL could muster up was: "So we got off to a bad start, but after this followup, we're good." What an asshole!!
Certified-Dick-Lover is nothing more than a defensive, butt-hurt little bitch.
Hey Papa,
As we learned in our group chat, CDL is indeed a bitch boy. Our group includes a couple of prominent K-Girl providers who share what really has gone on inside their "house" in the past. The photos of him in full sub position with hobbyist men having their way is a stark check to a life gone in the wrong direction.
It does explain why he continues to submit FAKE REVIEWS and post nasty comments filled with vile and hate. We must all reject this behavior and stand up to his bully power plays! So congratulations to 'allcomers" as even your "mistake" was useful!
Posted By: coeur-de-lion
Re: I'll have to ask my doc . . . .
when I see him later this month about the Gonadorelin. When I saw him last year, he didn't mention any possible upgrades. Thanks for the heads-up.
That sounds like a great deal price-wise for all three drugs. Does that include the cold-pak shipping?
Cold pack not necessary, both drugs are room temp ok. Many docs. have little clue when it comes to TRT and are queasy so as to CYA. Take a look at their website www.royalmedicalcenters.com and learn more. One of the things that really impressed me was the fact that this is all they do, nothing else! When I signed up I took an online exam (Health issues, BP, etc.) and was approved quickly. Next they sent me to Lab Corp for a CBC with T-levels at their cost and of course mine were very low. Head honcho Dr, Rodriguez personally calls you to discuss your situation with his excellent knowledge and bedside manner.
Next they debit my CC every month and send all you need compounded from a LEGIT FLA US pharmacy enough product to last 60 days repeating. After your initial 2 mos he sends you back to the lab for another CBC/T-level test then he personally calls you again for another consultation to see how you are doing. An absolutely flawless 1st class operation. I have found NO holes with this site. Highly recommended.
When I first started with them they had me on the HCG which I had to mix myself then refrigerate but they since have upgraded to the Gonadorelin.
If it wasn't for this TRT and Tadalafil (Generic Cialis) I probably couldn't hobby, perish the thought. I wake up every morning now with serious morning wood. Hope this helped.
Good luck,
Jeff in NJ
I'm going to look into this. I appreciate you taking the time to explain it.
BTW, I forgot to mention that when on TRT, your red cell count (Blood thickens) will go up as you'll notice after subsequent CBC's. My urologists suggested I donate a pint of blood every 60 days and this works along with low dose aspirin. Also blood badly in need for the less fortunate. these days.
Also nitric oxide supplements help considerably.
When all this stuff fails in the coming years, what then?? Ah ha, I'll probably go to Trimix injections which from what I've read absolutely guaranty rock hard boners that can last easily an hour. Scary part is you have to inject your dick with a needle before play 
Might have to think long and hard (No pun) about this.
For now, all is well.
donations for a few years. My doc said four times a year and that seems to keep me well within the "normal" range. I also take the the nitric oxide supplements daily. If my memory serves me correctly, you have 10 or 12 years on me, so its encouraging to know the TRT will continue to work for me for several more years.
I have used trimix several times when I had what I expected to be a marathon meeting with a lady or a double. It does, indeed, deliver as advertised. The standard needle is one used on babies and by insulin users and is usually the 5/8's length. That will get the drugs into the cavernosa without punching all the way through into your urethra. The trimix must remain frozen (best for long-term storage) and/or refrigerated until use, which can require some logistical accommodations for those that use it often. (An insulin cold-pak can keep it stable for transport).
The advantage (and the only reason if use it) is that the drugs keep you erect after ejaculation, which is great when you are in a double, or anytime you are on the clock, until such time as the effect wears off. The refractory period between pops is all but eliminated. By tweaking the dosage, you can learn how much of the mixture you need to inject for a specific amount of time. Staying erect for close to 4 hours can cause tissue damage, but I have had no ill effects injecting enough for a continuous erection of 2 - 2.5 hours at a time during a weekend of debauchery. Since its effects are localized, it a safer option for extending an erection than ramping up dosage of oral drugs which travel through your whole body.
The needle is off-putting, for sure, but your mind makes a bigger deal about it than what is really is. After the first experience, I think you will agree its totally worth the small discomfort you experience for about 30 seconds at the time of injection. Its best limited to occasional use, once or twice a week. My doc warned me that overuse can cause scar tissue to form in you dick, and then you need a stronger needle to punch through it, which in turn means more pain. Ugh.
...now we have NeedleDicktheKgirlFucker.
Certified-Dick-Lover's favorite ad hominem attack is to call everyone a "limp dick" or accuse them of having ED. Now we know why - it's projection for his own LIMP DICK!!
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Try cutting carbs and increasing your healthy fats. You may even want to get bloodwork and see if you’re a candidate for TRT as that will improve many aspects of your life if you’re low. While we all have different reasons for our issues, this has helped me considerably. Or you could always white knuckle a month without porn then book a session and see what happens.
A month without porn seems a tall order. I think the longest dry spell was 10 days when I was travelling with my parents.. When I came home I was ready to hump a table!
I am 53 and I have experienced the same things. Sometimes putting a condom on makes me go soft. At the start I’m getting a BBBJ by an extremely attractive naked woman and I’m hard and everything is working like it should be. Then the woman puts a condom on me and all of a sudden I’m not hard anymore. Especially if the condom is extremely tight and uncomfortable.
This happened with one extremely beautiful provider, she had given me a BBBJ while I was running my hands over her body, I was ready to go, she put a condom on me and I tried it doggy but as soon as the condom was on I was limp. She suggested she could use a female condom. She went back to giving me a BBBJ, I was running my hands over her, I got another raging hard-on, she put the female condom in, and doggy inside of her felt great without that condom on me.
As far as the porn, sometimes I can get hard watching porn, sometimes it doesn’t do anything for me.
But it does seem like I have ED more with providers I’m seeing for the second time, not ones I see for the first time. Somehow mentally it’s more exciting to be with a woman I’ve never been with before so I don’t experience the ED even with condoms.
I agree that second time seeing a provider is usually a worse experience. Despite not having any nerves, something just doesn't get me excited.. This is only based on a handful of experiences where I saw the same provider twice.. So I wouldn't read too much into it..
Been there, done that. The big boner buster for me is the time lapse (Less than 30 sec, lol) from when I`m ready to when she opens the glove and puts it on which can be too long and I lose it. Now I've learned to open it myself before and have it at the ready and within easy reach and this helps and I try to keep my mind off of it and concentrate on the debauchery and stay in the moment.
I'm 76 yo and have also learned that a lot of this condom shit is in my head being a 70's guy back when no one used and needed them. You younger guys were brought up using them so they're normal for you. Personally I hate the fucking things and I can only fantasize remembering how bbfs used to feel. I can still rub one out watching good porn,
(Little Caprice foursomes? lol) so my junk still works. Lots of generic Cialis and weekly T shots timed correctly help too. CG works better for me as I can't see the damn thing which takes my mind off it and I can concentrate on getting them off which is a big satisfying turn on for me. I must being doing pretty good as they keep returning for more.
Praying I'll get bbfs again before I die but who knows, maybe with a civvie? I've asked my ATF who I've seen +50x over the last 5 years if she would accommodate me. I can get a 10 panel online STD test and print out the results and show them to her at our next date and she said no? Says she's saving her bbfs for her soulmate that she hasn't met yet? WTF, I give up. Almost comical.
Nice to see the new TER thriving well as it was and still is thee best site for our hobby. Love that I can review and get VIP consideration, smart and much appreciated. Thx guys.
Jeff in NJ
(I could care less who knows I hobby, proud of it)
I learned from a great Vegas provider (she taught me many things) that I was using the wrong condom. It appears that the condoms were too tight cutting off the blood to my shaft and head. She placed a Magnum Gold condom and it was perfect. It didn’t squeeze the blood out of my head and shaft but was tighter around the base so to not come off. I’m a regular sized guy so Magdum doesn’t necessarily mean large. But a single one and try it on for size. No pun intended.
I'll have to say that I like my condoms tight (Kimonos). Not to the point of getting Gangrene but tight. The base of the condom acts like a cock ring and then you'll find yourself going for a while that she'll think you're on Viagra. The trick is how you put on a tight condom, which I show the ladies. Easy Peasy.
She'll compliment you and your stamina, you'll say "Because you turn me on"...then she'll say "why is your dick purple"....lol
This GILF decides I need a Magnum. Also a vibrator. I must have blown 2 loads in under 15 minutes! At my age 2 loads in a session is highly improbable. She ghosts me now. LOL. I owe her for the condom info.
I used to lose my wood from time to time mid-session. I usually take a 10 minute break for daty, and I found myself losing it at that point sometimes! Now I take 10-15 MG of chewable generic Cialis about 2 hours before the session. No problem sporting a 60 minute missile for most sessions! Also, I continue to stimulate junior with one hand during daty, condom application, etc. if I feel it is needed. No shame there- you see these young guys doing it during porn. Every now and then I forget the pill, and I can still perform as long as junior gets constant attention! Of course we stay hard during porn, as one kgirl told me, “you love your hand more than me”. She said that when I took over for the finish when she wasn’t doing it orally! I think she was insulted, but her bj wasn’t very good- no repeat there!
...now also referred to as the "internal condom."
Mentioned in passing above, I will second its virtues for every guy but especially us "more mature" types AKA Old Fossils.
With a provider who is used to using them, and a bit of the right lube, it lets us feel as though we're going "bare," even though both of us are fully covered. In fact, the coverage is even a bit greater, given the larger surface area covered by the FC.
Every provider I've visited who features them has always had them on hand. Give them a try...it just might be the cure for condom strangulation.
You said it, brother! FC have those huge advantages.
I take them along just in case she doesn't have them but is willing to try.
viagra. happened to me same way.
... That she isn't simulating you right. Everyone has their thing, pun intended. Too tight, too loose, too wet, too dry. Too fast, too slow. Foreplay, etc. Make sure you know what works for you, good providers will listen.
You got porn induced ed, the cure is easy stop watching and jacking off to porn to reset your brain. research gary wilson book your brain on porn, it is excellent book that explains it. also you can probably find websites on it. I had it years ago did the 60 day no porn, masterbation or orgasm and it work. everything came back. but like an alcoholic you will have to avoid porn forever or it will come back. we would like to have our cake and eat too, but its one or another, your choice.
In that case I'd prefer porn which I can do nearly everyday vs. real thing only every couple months...
It seems every response so far is from a person who owns a dick, meaning they each have a lifetime of experience, but each with only a data pool of one. Here's a few thoughts as both a women who's worked with a few dicks, and as a functional health practitioner (in the "other side" of my life) who has coached a few clients with similar issues.
First, a 50/50% response rate to real live ladies doesn't mean it can't be this or that. Our hormones, neurotransmitters, and moods fluctuate based on all sorts of things, like coffee, alcohol, sleep, certain foods, more or less stress in other parts of your life, etc. That said, it's rarely a single smoking gun. You may have a combination of things at play.
The guys who mention porn ED may be right. Porn, video games, social media, etc are all designed to trigger our dopamine to abnormally high levels. (Marijuana similarly abnormally boosts both dopamine and other "feel good" neurotransmitters, which is why regular smoking can leave us feeling "dulled" when sober.) Once that new benchmark is set, anything that produces lower levels of dopamine (like, say, real life, even real life sex) simply won't interest us as much. Introverted/shy guys often lean heavily into digital entertainment, so would I be correct in assuming this may be you? If so, this is a great sign that it's time to take a full dopamine fast-no TV/media, social media, video games, porn, weed, or other stimulating activities for a month.
Poorly controlled blood sugar levels is a major contributor to erectile dysfunction. Nitric oxide is necessary for sustained erections. When blood sugar spikes too high, less nitric oxide is produced. Cortisol (our "stress" hormone) rapidly elevates our blood sugar-it's designed to help us flee or fight our way out of danger, after all. Your post mentions the "personality" of a provider being a factor, which suggests to me that you may feel more stressed and anxious (meaning you get a cortisol spike) with the ladies on those dates you experience ED. Stress and cortisol should NOT make a healthy man go soft, because healthy bodies do not experience wide swings in blood sugar. So, this may be an early warning sign that it's time to look at your sleep, sugar/carb and alcohol consumption, exercise, etc. If this ends up being a factor, you can think of ED moments as a blessing-catching glucose instability early on makes it MUCH easier to correct.
Decreased Testosterone MAY be a factor, but generally when lifestyle is corrected to manage stress and minimize cortisol/insulin swings, our sex hormones come back into balance. This is because our sex hormones are part of the same metabolic pathway as cortisol, meaning cortisol requires the same base components (pregnenolone) as our sex hormones. When we need to make less cortisol, we have more pregnenolone to go around to make certain other hormones, like testosterone.
In the meantime, while you sort things out, may I recommend finding 1-3 ladies you really connect with and sticking with them over the longer term? If you've already figured out what sort of personality does it for you, repeat with the ladies who give you that. In my experience, anxiety and stress continues to decrease with increased comfort and intimacy.
Good luck!
See my earlier response for details of my experience since being first prescribed in 2001. 20 years. I've been taking it for 20 years. Until only 8 months ago, I could masturbate to for hours. It was actually a problem because I would be cuming at 6 am after jerking off 4-6 hrs, a hardon for most of that time. And that's the way it was for 40 years. But starting ~20 yrs ago, I had to fuck like a dog when I was with a woman or risk losing my erection. A urologist, not just somebody with a dick or years of experience servicing them, correctly diagnosed it: anxiety. My mind would wander. That diagnosis was a major event in my life, I kid you not! Take the fucking pill...start with a really small dose, say 20 mg.
One last thing, look at the data! ED meds have been on the market for 25+ years and there's no contrary data. Some anecdotal stuff, and that's not worth the toilet paper those guys use to wipe their asses. Are there some very unlikely serious side effects? Yes, but Aspirin has a higher likelihood of producing serious side effects.
Maybe Tylenol Acetaminophen is more dangerous. The acid blockers have probably caused much suffering.
I been rob, beaten, and given sucky service as well as I devoice from a woman. So I know what can go wrong when I see a provider porn nothing will go wrong. Get a good safe incall hotel, find a cuttle hunny you will be fine. Most of hooker out there are scarry
It depends on what I can get I hate take them when have a cold, so save them and just take dollar store cough medison. Rub 4 on my dick before I go out. No problems getting hard if kiss and look good just don't I just don't feel the pussy so it take a long while some providers like it other get mad I won't cum. I just have to hope I don't get BBBJ because she will know Stomthing up when her mouth go numb.
I find my libido appears to cycle - some days Im just all out horny and other ones I think it would take a succubus to make me cum. I kind of suspect good sleep and diet and exercise play a part. When I get a lot of sleep and eat well I suspect I can blast out a bunch of loads in one day. I'm still monitoring the situation.
