I'm  50, enjoying the hobby after leaving a longterm unhappy but monogamous marriage. Sex was OK, and birth control was the pill, cause I never liked condoms. Here's the problem now: intercourse with condoms just isn't fun. I just don't feel any pleasurable friction, and rarely complete. BBBJ, on the other hand, is like heaven. Since condomless sex within the hobby is out of the questions, what's a guy to do?

I can relate somewhat; I was spoiled too. I still find intercourse pleasurable with a condom, but only about one third of my climaxes happen that way. So, if I'm not quite there, I'll have her finish me off with a BBBJ or go russian. Works every time.

You seem to have the problem in hand.

Same deal, I can never finish with a condom. I usually go for a girl that does a nice bbbj to start. Will go through a few postions, because it feels pretty good and is still enjoyable. But always end session with another nice bbbj. Not ideal, but still a very good time.

When my marriage split up I had a similar problem and had trouble maintaining erection do to change in feel.  Used Viagra for a few months and then stopped using it and the problem was solved.  Adjsted to the feel of covered sex and all was good.

Yep..the condoms suck for me too, but sometimes I can get there. Here is a suggestion. Don't flog your log for a week before an appointment. I know ! Not easy but it does work for me..sometimes. I know how you feel, all that work and she's probably had at least one or two and you just can't there, very frustrating to say the least ! Also relax and don't worry about it, it will only make it worse.

In you 50’s the senses (smell, taste and tactile) are not as acute as they were when you were in your 20s.  Viagra and condoms can further reduce the tactile sense in the penis making it difficult to reach completion.  My suggestions, if it is not working to remove the condom and complete the action externally with the help of the ladies as other have suggested or take matters into your own hand rather than to continued to pound her.   Most ladies should understand. Moreover relax; often the journey with the right lady is more pleasurable than the destination.

I am about your age and have the same problem too.  I saw my ATF for the 10 times and I could only cum inside her 3 to 4 times.   But I enjoy the foreplay and the conversation very much and so I keep returning to her. I guess the problem is her pussy is not very tight, I am not very big, and my age made me less sensitive.  Some ladies have the ability to tighten up the pussy to create more friction. On my next visit, I will ask her to try straighten up the legs and tighten up the pussy and see if it will work.