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To TOFTT or not to TOFTT! That is the question. Advice needed.
WhatFuckingAlias 2424 reads
posted
1 / 31

So I've been PMing with a new girl whose look i love and who posted on a regional board with my normal handle, hence the alias.  Nice pics which passed tineye scrutiny, but her personal website is fairly barebones.  Problem is she has no reviews, as well as having no other ads up or history or anything at all anywhere on the Internet-even her own website doesn't come up in a normal Google search for her name.  Her rate is decent but I don't know what she's willing to do or not do in private. Exchanges with her have been pleasant. But in no way have I broached the specific subject of services offered, to avoid any compromising legalities. She claims shes not LE, but LE can do that. Email contact only; i offered to chat with her on the phone to feel her out, but she declined saying her schedule is too busy to chat. So go there or not?  Advice and input appreciated.

Mayhem19 35 Reviews 1245 reads
posted
2 / 31

If she's that busy, she should have reviews.  Doesn't pass the smell test for me.  I'd pass.  Just as its important that Providers verify us, we also need to be able verify our Providers.  There's lots of other fish in the sea.

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 1126 reads
posted
3 / 31

Websites, especially if someone is new, don't pop up in searches until they get a certain number of clicks. Also, TER has a feature where they put our sites in an escort mall, which makes it pop up in google searches. (Speaking very generally here.)

Being new makes it hard to show up on the internet until our name catches on

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mrfisher 111 Reviews 1013 reads
posted
4 / 31

and if so, could she inquire of them if they were willing to communicate with you via PM.

This is not likely to be the case however, so if you are unsure, I would not go forward.

Pimpathy 1249 reads
posted
5 / 31

Makes having fun, sound like a chore.

Posted By: WhatFuckingAlias
So I've been PMing with a new girl whose look i love and who posted on a regional board with my normal handle, hence the alias.  Nice pics which passed tineye scrutiny, but her personal website is fairly barebones.  Problem is she has no reviews, as well as having no other ads up or history or anything at all anywhere on the Internet-even her own website doesn't come up in a normal Google search for her name.  Her rate is decent but I don't know what she's willing to do or not do in private. Exchanges with her have been pleasant. But in no way have I broached the specific subject of services offered, to avoid any compromising legalities. She claims shes not LE, but LE can do that. Email contact only; i offered to chat with her on the phone to feel her out, but she declined saying her schedule is too busy to chat. So go there or not?  Advice and input appreciated.

Pimpathy 1041 reads
posted
6 / 31

The OP is the only one who wants to see this provider.

 
Yet he wants to TOFTT.

Pimpathy 1004 reads
posted
7 / 31

I think the OP should go for it and TOFTT.

Posted By: mrfisher
and if so, could she inquire of them if they were willing to communicate with you via PM.

This is not likely to be the case however, so if you are unsure, I would not go forward.

FatElvis 23 Reviews 915 reads
posted
9 / 31

If she's real the reviews will come. The downside risk here is much greater than the upside. Be patient.

sajer1 13 Reviews 1020 reads
posted
10 / 31

Always always always error on the side of safety.

harborview 10 Reviews 1026 reads
posted
11 / 31

I do note them but I put them on HOLD pending reviews.   Normally, I'd expect to see ads in usual venues BEFORE ads on TER.    
Too busy for one phone call?  >>  HOLD pending reviews.

Pimpathy 1038 reads
posted
12 / 31

Posted By: sajer1
Always always always error on the side of safety.
No, error on the side of freedom.

Blowing Chunks 1085 reads
posted
13 / 31

hey get a brain and realize that when he TOFTT and if the girl checks out,  others WILL want to see her.  That's precisely what TOFTT entails and brings to the community,  but something tells me neither clowns have ever TOFTT to know anything about it. Rest assured there are others who want to see her assuming she's attractive,  but it's simply the uncertainty and suspicions getting in the way.  

As for the other village idiot brilliantly suggesting a vote,  don't let others decide what you (op)  should do.  Be safe and live to hobby another day. There's a reason why these posters are SPOTY nominees. rofl.  

Downside is clearly greater then the upside,  what if she turns out to be LE?  
She has to be willing to work with you with more references of her own to prove her legitimacy.  Even a phone call isn't going to be reliable indicator that she isn't LE.  Or just wait and let someone braver TOFTT.  

I have not had much problems talking about certain menus when asked politely and discreetly,  through PM or comparing with another provider of similar menu. this avoids being too specific

Pimpathy 1072 reads
posted
14 / 31

To the best of my knowledge the OP is the only one interested in this ZDS.

... this meeting would be more of an TOFM, TOFY, or TOFI.
Posted By: Drunken Asian
hey get a brain and realize that when he TOFTT and if the girl checks out,  others WILL want to see her.  That's precisely what TOFTT entails and brings to the community,  but something tells me neither clowns have ever TOFTT to know anything about it. Rest assured there are others who want to see her assuming she's attractive,  but it's simply the uncertainty and suspicions getting in the way.  
   
 As for the other village idiot brilliantly suggesting a vote,  don't let others decide what you (op)  should do.  Be safe and live to hobby another day. There's a reason why these posters are SPOTY nominees. rofl.  
   
 Downside is clearly greater then the upside,  what if she turns out to be LE?    
 She has to be willing to work with you with more references of her own to prove her legitimacy.  Even a phone call isn't going to be reliable indicator that she isn't LE.  Or just wait and let someone braver TOFTT.    
   
 I have not had much problems talking about certain menus when asked politely and discreetly,  through PM or comparing with another provider of similar menu. this avoids being too specific.  
   
 

inicky46 61 Reviews 1080 reads
posted
15 / 31

I think his call for a vote was sarcastic.
And now for a picture of fungus

Blowing Chunks 907 reads
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17 / 31
FatElvis 23 Reviews 924 reads
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18 / 31
Dr Who revived 964 reads
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19 / 31
keystonekid 114 Reviews 854 reads
posted
20 / 31

and a green light to TOFTT.  Maybe if she does give the OP some TER members' handles that she has seen and mrfisher gets positive replies from these guys, then the OP might consider TOFTT.

The biggest question is, "how experienced is the OP" to venture into the TOFTT arena?"

keystonekid 114 Reviews 1033 reads
posted
21 / 31
Blowing Chunks 820 reads
posted
22 / 31

When a girl has her ad up and a guy is interested,  chances are there are a couple of others who are equally interested.  

wake up and smell the coffee, pimples.

GaGambler 1050 reads
posted
24 / 31

but as much as I hate to admit is as I have money on Fungus repeating as SPOTY, I have to agree with you, Fungy is nothing but sarcastic and I am sure that this was no exception, he just expresses himself so poorly it's sometimes hard to tell.

As for the OP I was with him in his intial desire to TOFTT until she said she was "too busy" to talk to him. That ended it for me. No reviews and "too busy" to talk, NFW.

WickedBrut 27 Reviews 1060 reads
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27 / 31
Blowing Chunks 1036 reads
posted
28 / 31

my moron and your moron...  LMAO  

my moron generally makes no sense cuz he's incoherent.  
your moron generally tries to be sarcastic,  mean,  usually totally clueless.  

does inicky have his money on his moron?  I think we all know who his moron is.  rofl   probably the same guy as CurlyW's moron.  

we all have our money on our morons....   Ha ha ha

TalkToTrees 1115 reads
posted
29 / 31

... I wouldn't take a chance on this one. Declining a voice call is a red flag to me (looks like LE). Too risky and the fact that this lady has no reviews and her website is barebones... nah.  

Move onto the next one, preferably with a lot of reviews on TER. Play it safe.

The Forest Waits
Posted By: WhatFuckingAlias
So I've been PMing with a new girl whose look i love and who posted on a regional board with my normal handle, hence the alias.  Nice pics which passed tineye scrutiny, but her personal website is fairly barebones.  Problem is she has no reviews, as well as having no other ads up or history or anything at all anywhere on the Internet-even her own website doesn't come up in a normal Google search for her name.  Her rate is decent but I don't know what she's willing to do or not do in private. Exchanges with her have been pleasant. But in no way have I broached the specific subject of services offered, to avoid any compromising legalities. She claims shes not LE, but LE can do that. Email contact only; i offered to chat with her on the phone to feel her out, but she declined saying her schedule is too busy to chat. So go there or not?  Advice and input appreciated.

WhatFuckingAlias 956 reads
posted
30 / 31

Mayhem19 said it best: "Just as its important that Providers verify us, we also need to be able verify our Providers."  And she has not been willing or able to do that.  On to the next one! And much thanks to all who responded

StinaValentine See my TER Reviews 1015 reads
posted
31 / 31

Probably a good choice just based on the no phone call thing alone.

For those of you saying so, we all start with barebone websites and no reviews until somebody does TOFTT! And, some just don't really care about the website at all. If it's got her contact info, what you need to do to make an appointment, pictures, a little about herself, the donation, what more does it need? Vague sounding pull down menus that bring up a bunch of pages with too many ad buttons on them? When all the info could be sitting there right on the front page, what's the point? "Wow, nice website! I wonder if her blow job is as good as her website!"
Posted By: WhatFuckingAlias
Mayhem19 said it best: "Just as its important that Providers verify us, we also need to be able verify our Providers."  And she has not been willing or able to do that.  On to the next one! And much thanks to all who responded!  
 
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