Contacts me. This one was worse because the client cancelled in advance and I never met with him. The spouse emailed saying she wanted to know if he was a client of mine, details about the meeting and that she had terrible things to say about him. When this happens, I always ignore and send a FYI email to the client.  The client was so pissed and  told me they're getting separated and his wife was being a (you name it)...

very close friend of mine.  For every ONE hobbyist that says he's breaking up with his SO who caught him cheating, there are ten who want to try to stay together with the SO (usually for financial reasons or underage offspring still at home).  This was the way my friend decided to go, and after leaving TER and all of the wonderful providers behind, he spent 8 miserable years being verbally abused by his wife before he died of cancer.  I know others that have had similar experiences.  

Definitely agree with you about people being in unhappy marriages. I’m lucky my partner enjoys doing this with me. I have a few friends that have to hide things from their wife. Shit would drive me crazy.

Incognito Mode is the way to go. It will not show up in your history. It's not fool proof if she truly wants to dig. But it will stop the accidental catching it from the drop down history or autofill when she types something close to it.

There was this guy on TER who we shared info. Messaged each other alot here.
I DM here and I got this response.
"This account is no longer an active participant. You will need to get your info from some other cheating asshole.
The Wife"
She got into his TER account..
But eventually came back into the scene...let me now all is good....for now

It's not just the clients that need to be dilligent, but also the ladies.
One day I opened my email and was shocked to find a message from one of regular providers, only to see that it was written by her boyfriend!  
She had left her laptop and email open , and he read all our messages.
Needless to say it caused quite a bit of drama, more for her than me.  She lied about who I was and apparently he never found out she was an escort.  We stopped seeing each other after that.

Thank you for sharing, I didn't think of this!!  
I always admire the providers that show their face and their families know what their do for living, unfortunately,  this is not my case and I always I have to be very careful when family is in town. That's why  I "take " a lot hiatus, vacations etc"  and don't answer requests or tweets. I know some clients have been very very patient and some get frustrated when "I am not available after trying a few times". Oh well, we just have to diligent as well

***he spent 8 miserable years being verbally abused by his wife before he died of cancerI** I have no words! Poor guy (RIP) I hope wherever he is, there are providers too and hope he is having a lot fun!! 🙏🥳🥰

I couldn't agree more either!! Happy to read everything is going well for now 😍👍

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I had something done here too.  A couple came to Atlantic City, NJ and the husband called for a session. A few seconds after I hung up with him. His wife called and tried to scare me. I believe there are people trying a scare tactics on certain Escorts

That does not sound any fun at all. Luckily I do not have that problem, young, single and free!! A tip could be to use different internet browsers, one for regular stuff and one for the fun stuff. And there your history is always clean, and you are logged out of everything, but agian, that could in itself be a red flag to a bloodthirsty SO hunting for evidence, lol! And if you are using iPhone, do not use «faceID». Its super convenient and easy to use, but if you are safety first you should turn it off and use pincode or password.

Woah! Like did the boyfriend say stop seeing her?!  Did he sign it? How did you know it was him.

Wow! What did they say? I have gotten emails from couples several times but then they never show. They always say they will be at some expensive hotel and send pics of the woman who is blonde. They send hotel confirmation as well. They never pass screening but I always wonder the point of their emails are.

He did not stop seeing her - they were living together.  Fortunately, none of our emails had any sex references or mention of her being an escort.    
I know it was him because he used her email and put his name on it.  And she called me to tell me the whole story, and how much drama there was for her. We did not see each other after that.
I felt bad for all the trouble it caused her, but it was not my fault.

It's the hobby equivalent of a guy seeing another guy get hit in the nuts.

Every now and then my web searches show up on my wife’s phone.  Thank God nothing bad….ive gone into tools, both phones and I “think” I’ve “fixed” it. Anyone have an issue like that?