How can a dude seriously post that they are making connections with girls half or a third their age?

1) Use a tongue scraper.
2) Floss
3) Gargle
4) Bathe
5) Use deodorant
6) Get your back waxed
7) Trim the hair in your nose and ears
8) Ask her about her feelings
9) Bring extra cash

Some through work, some through family, friends, neighbors, etc... Maybe because I'm not a dried-up douchebag with a bad attitude.

You and I will ride on Splash Mountain in the front.  Please wear a nice tight t-shirt without a bra.  

What do you talk about with them?  Do they tuck you in at night?

orange grove owners back in the 60's before you built the magic kingdom. I will not even mention the alligators.

You have no business running theme parks and making movies intended for impressionable youth.  You really are just despicable.  LMAO!

I was far too busy hosting "The Wonderful World of Disney".

I leave the business end of this to my brother Roy.  

I sure hope that the majority of us appreciate your efforts making the fantasy as good as it can be, but when it's over we realize it's over, I sure do.

And does the disembodied head type with a Mickey Mouse souvenir pen in its mouth?

She was so hot.  Gave me my first boner.

Me? I don't like the red hair.  

Why would an intelligent, rational, accomplished man of the world... want to spend time with me???  

Oh, I forgot. You ARE old. lol

For a lot of clients, good GFE includes some fantasy of romance and connection.  Some clients talking about connection may just be responding to how well providers do on that aspect.  For other clients, they may just be talking about how well the provider makes conversation.  Most sessions will involve some chit chat, so having at least a few things in common so that conversation flows makes the experience better - certainly less awkward.  Some clients talking about connections may just be delusional.  I think most clients know that when the clock strikes midnight, the fantasy is over and it is back to reality.  That is not to say that providers and clients can never make genuine connections or be friends, just that it's less frequent than we like to think.  These ladies are just too good at their jobs sometimes...

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"what do you talk with them about"? Maybe asking what their interests are if they are willing to share some of them. Goals for the future? Offering some advice or merely encouragement to them?

Her heyday was like way before they even invented the internet!  

You just contradicted your post... Lmfao!!!  

...She was hot.

When I was 13 I started having sex and it was with a 16 year old.(13 year old boy and 16 year old girl is a huge gap)
At 21, I had a torrid year and a half affair with a lady in her mid forties. It was fantastic.  
My most recent long term affair was with a lady 25 years younger than I am.  It was fantastic.
My wife is 15 years younger than I am. Still pretty good after decades.
I have a real friendship with a lady 40 years younger than I am, no sex because 1) she needs to find a second husband: much more than I would ever want to give her and she needs to be unencumbered to find that and 2) She works for me and I would never.
There are three stages in life. At least in women: kids (I have no interest) grown ups (obviously of interest if I am looking), and old ladies (no interest.) You can not tell by chronological age.
The differences of experiences and interests between me and a 30 year grown up woman are no greater than what I found when I moved to Europe many decades ago.  I met and found friendship and love with women who had read different books, who often listened to different music, whose views of the World were different from mine,but I ended up having long term friendships including sexual friendships with women from different countries and some of these friendships, as much as 50 years later, still survive. (I an still in contact with a Lady I met and fell for when visiting Crakow, Poland. She was a student at the excellent University there. We fell in love and I visited often.  She believed the profit motive and capitalism was the root of all evil, I was not a fan of Marxist philosophy expounded by a dictatorial Polish government.  I visited often, sex was great, and we still keep contact.

my favorite hooker. Answer? I really have no interest in the time and effort it take to establish and maintain a relationship. As far as interesting and compassionate go I believe I am both but it really doesn't matter because whether I am or not I am paying to be treated as if I am both. Those that make me believe it get repeat business. Those that don't.....Oh I can't remember who they are.

I bring a thick stack of $10 bills, and when we take care of business at the beginning, I pull the wad out, start laying down the bills, one at a time on top of each other, watching her face intently.  When she smiles, I stop, because I know we have achieved a connection, and no need to ruin it.  

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created by Annette, you could reach the moon.  No space program required. Amount of Jizz flying and the associated joy would be another story.  I sometimes wonder if she knew? Thanks for the memory Jake.

was Roy.

just swim out of her pussy?!!!

The sex is obviously great, but I've always felt that the greatest connections have everything to do with mutual respect. You wouldn't believe me if I listed all the wonderful things that have happened over the years. But I'm like you. Did this younger lady seriously invite me to stay over for lunch? Could it be that certain older gentlemen treat these younger ladies with a respect they don't see every day?  It has nothing to do with being into me. It has everything to do with extending that rare feeling.

I have been at this hobby on & off a very long time & the best hobby experiences for me have been with the actresses    ( the providers that pretended to be in love with me) of course I understand the unwritten rule that most providers follow        ( don't try to mix friendship with providing ). Most providers accept that they are paid to see hobbyists to bring them a session of joy & if that means acting like a friend or a lover so be it, besides the sex the way we treat each other during our time together is important to me.

the proposition that men can be attracted to girls older OR younger, and there can still be an intense connection.  Had a few older ones myself when I was in my 20's.  I don't go 1/3 or 1/2 my age as the OP suggests, but I am most comfortable with women 15-20 years younger than me, in both civvies and providers.

the alligators are getting their revenge, don't worry

firstly, "connection" does not necessarily mean "oboy this girl is in love with me!"  to me, it means that the lady genuinely enjoys her time with me as much as i enjoy it.

By and large men are not primarily attracted by a woman's CV (curriculum vitae, aka resume.)  Beyond looks, of course, guys are attracted to happy women.  On the flip side, women tend to advertise back to men what they find attractive in men -- accomplishments being one of them.  You'll see female civie dating bios and provider ads stating things like they are well traveled, speak several languages, have advanced degrees.  This means practically nothing to the guy.  He's going to like them based on looks and spirit.  There is no greater gift to a man than a naturally happy woman.  There are so few of them around.  They are almost unicorns.  

Since you are bashing Walt, but replying to mojojo, 🤔

Talk about clueless!

I often find myself swooning over gals who are not particularly attractive nor the best in bed.   The feelings at least appear to be mutual.

Interesting

I've never really been romantically interested in people my own age, or younger. I guess I'm personally attracted to people who know more/different things that I do. Not that some people my own age don't, but you don't really tend to see them, say, going to a classical saxophone performance. Friends my age always seem to want to go to bars, watch a movie, and listen to pop music... Obviously they do have other interests, but those are the ones that seem to dominate the social scene at my age. Which is dull to me. I do feel that if a person is intelligent, his/her interests and life tends to evolve. I prefer to hang w/older people who'd rather go to an art gallery, or a jazz performance, or travel... than go to dollar wing night (not that it can't be fun, but that's seriously a dream night for some people my age, and they'd do it every night of the week if they could).

A lot of men w/high intellectual capacity seek a woman with whom they share some interests, and can have a substantial conversation.

Well you asked why some men would hang with you if you aren't quite Madame Currie (by the way, she got into a little trouble having an affair herself.)  That doesn't mean every high IQ guy would find you stimulating.  But more than enough will.  To them, your social/intellectual skills are icing on the cake

I connect with older men all the time. I love their maturity, and more often than not, a very respectful way of treating me in and out the bedroom. Simply because they have been around longer than I have chronologically, doesn't discredit our ability to connect conversationally and physically among other things. Chemistry is chemistry.

Smart man IMO xo

to treat a lady like a lady.  Something that is lacking with younger guys, who are usually very casual.  Personally I LOVE getting charmed and serenaded by a man, seduced with roses and gifts, and all those little things they do that make me feel appreciated.  Older men almost always go out of their way to make me feel appreciated. And I love it! Regardless of their age, they know what to do.  So yes! I do feel that connection with them and am happy to share it with them.
Kisses
Frederic

totally my mistake, i meant that for walter disney, not you.

Obviously I have no idea if VooDoo has big or small tits, or anything else about her appearance, but the fact remains, most guys really don't give a fuck about how well traveled, educated, etc etc a woman they pay sex is, they care about her performance in the sack and her appearance above all else and like you just said  the rest of it is simply "icing on the cake"

It will help you grow old graciously.

told me I was her favorite.    She paused and looked me in the eye and said I was her favorite too.   Lol.        I'm in love.