: TER General Board Discussion : I HAD that problem, now I'm divorced. It's all good. eom

imtori See my TER Reviews 2090 reads

posted 13 years ago

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wives finding out

Does anyone else have this problem?

RealityBites 883 reads

posted 13 years ago

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My now ex found out

She went through my cell and called around. Dumb hooker answered by saying hey (So and so). Blasted out Mother focker.

Now for the past few years, hookers do not answer like that (ones I deal with) and still my ex tries calling (stalker). It is about quality you chose. Higher end hookers have common sense and don't do dumb ass stuff to out us.

This is WHY it is important to bother with well reviewed hookers. You know basically what you will get. I travel alot and I get satisfied without the bs.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 638 reads

posted 13 years ago

3 / 15

I HAD that problem, now I'm divorced. It's all good. eom

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Tallman57 3 Reviews 699 reads

posted 13 years ago

4 / 15

Re: My now ex found out

I am lucky My wife Never bothers my Phone or computer. Never looks in my wallet, If she ask for cash I will say get it of my wallet she bring it to me to get it out.

donbecker54 19 Reviews 487 reads

posted 13 years ago

5 / 15

By the time I started, it didn't matter

Posted By: imtori

Does anyone else have this problem?

I didn't even consider seeing a pro until it had been two years since my wife and I had sex. I knew we were headed for divorce. I knew it was adultery, but I didn't view it as cheating, as our marriage was over. Just not yet on paper.

Still, I kept it very secret. She still doesn't know, and we've been divorced for several months. No need for her to know.

For years, every time I'd take a trip out west, I'd mention passing the Mustang Ranch or some other brothel in Nevada, and she'd always tell me I should have stopped there. I always figured that was one of those wife traps where you do what she says and then get murdered for doing it.

If she'd found out, she would have been hurt, but it wouldn't have changed the way the divorce went down.

GaGambler 573 reads

posted 13 years ago

6 / 15

No, I am very happily divorced, and I didn't hobby while married

but I would imagine over 80% of the mongers ARE married, and this is a major issue for them.

Truth be told, I am too lazy to lie, everybody in my life knows about my whore mongering. I don't shout it from the rooftops, but neither do I make the slightest effort to deny it, except around the wives of my married friends. I have the right to do whatever I like with my own life, I don't feel as if I have the right to do things that negatively impact others.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 723 reads

posted 13 years ago

7 / 15

Re: My now ex found out

One of the reasons I don't list a phone number on the net. If a wife contacts me, it will be through email and before I say shit, she will have to PROVE she is a provider..one with reviews and a website.

I don't think some providers do this crap on purpose, but just out of being clueless. They don't bother making sure the person asking for a ref is even a damn escort, before they go off at the mouth.

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NCCEO 590 reads

posted 13 years ago

8 / 15

And give up her $25K a month budget - never!!

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inicky46 61 Reviews 469 reads

posted 13 years ago

9 / 15

I've been married and divorced twice and never cheated during the marriage,

unless you count what I did after we separated and the divorce was not yet final. But that's just me and I don't judge people who cheat, I just could never do it. I'm a really shitty liar and Wife #2 had an awesome bullshit detector. Like GaGa, virtually everyone in my life knows what I do. That's a comfort because I am virtually un-blackmailable and un-outable. It makes playtime much more fun. Even several of my friends' wives know I play and they think it's kind of cool. Of course, they would NOT think that way if their husbands did it!

Hotandcurious 2 Reviews 468 reads

posted 13 years ago

10 / 15

Re: By the time I started, it didn't matter

I am the wife. I think this is awesome. Becoming a hobbyist was all my idea. My only rule is we play together. We have had some fabulous times!

harborview 10 Reviews 485 reads

posted 13 years ago

11 / 15

Hobby Phone

Wife doesn't check my phone. Though she could. I use a hobby phone off & well hidden when I'm not playing. I clear the call log before I go home.
I bought her her own computer because she complained about my old one... I upgraded later. surfing history deletes on shut down & I run a cleaner program often to limit damage. I don't access adult sites when anyone is in the house.

If there was any sex happening at home, I wouldn't hobby. That's not happening.