Receive a white-list reference after not scoring the provider higher than a 8 for performance or appearance?

Lately I've been receiving blackmail offers that I would have to give a certain score just wondering if that was the norm

Yours is just another example of provider review manipulation run amok. My advice is to hold your mud, don't let some desperate, conniving hooker or hookers make you a part of corrupting the system.

White lists are not really worth a lot in the grand scheme of things, and most providers know which of their sister providers are blackmail artists and a white list from them might only say "sucker" in their minds, which will just result in more of the same treatment.

Yeah I'm going to continue to review honestly...

Sucks though that I could've had two additional white list

They would give me a white list reference

YOU are part of the problem, just like the guy who pays a "cancellation fee" when he runs into a B&S, you are rewarding bad behavior. As long as guys like you won't man up and do something about this crap, it's never going to end. As long as you have the attitude that you are going to let these women run all over you, you need to turn in your man card and give up your right to complain

I will stop short of calling you a pussy, but if the tampon fits.......

sorry to be harsh, because I actually like you, but if you aren't going to stand up for yourself, what do you expect the rest of us to do for you?

It's not that difficult to figure out an alias

If I had I would've gave both 10/10s and had two additional white list lol

If a lady white lists you it simply means your safe to see and she's comfortable with you. Has nothing to do with the score. And it's ridiculous that a provider would threaten someone over her ratings. Just simply choose to see the gent again or not.  
Xoxo
Taylor

It's only the norm for guys with no balls and a broken back.  Give her the score she "earned"...and then make sure to comment in the review that she is soliciting favors in exchange for a whitelist.

I've never asked for a white list, although I've gotten them.  Some were from ladies I only rated an 8/8, which was in line with their previous scores.  

Where a provider whitelisted me right after a session, then revoked it when I only rated her 8/8.  Crazy!

every time a guy gives a cancellation fee after he's been lied to, or goes through with a session just because "I was there and I was horny", or allows a blackmailing bitch to continue blackmailing other guys because he "doesn't want the hassle"  Every time you do any one of these things you are reinforcing in their minds that this is not only acceptable behavior, but that they will receive a benefit by their bad behavior, and you are making it that much worse for the next guy.

Can you imagine how rare this type of behavior would be if EVERY guy would call out these ROB's the very first time they pulled this kind of crap, this kind of shit would end virtually overnight, and this was the very type of thing that TER was designed to stop.

You can lie to yourself all you want, but you are either part of the problem or part or the solution, and you my friend right now are part of the problem.

getting WL from gals you've never seen lol

At least tell your pals about her...and frankly if you've got some gals who are friends...let them know as well.

It was a long time ago and I forgot the actual number - had given a 7 for performance

You have nothing to worry about....

Can't say the same for all of us

Dear Gambler:
If you were the top watch dog of the Coochie Consumer Protection Bureau, what would be the top five items on your agenda to protect those who participate in the hobby? Also how would you approach the pusilanimous and deficient responses that you address with the recent poster on how he responded to the surreptitious situation that you elaborated about?

When i saw it I PM'd her and said, why?  She never replied.  Who cares?  White Lists aren't worth much anyway.

Either way, in the large scheme of things, a reference counts more than the whitelist. I prefer to contact those who have given you the whitelist. Not the norm and it will never be.. it is called blackmail...

I like the idea of turning emails over to TER admin.  

That's why I'm glad I virtually can't be outed because its out in the open with my SO.

if you can't afford to speak your mind...don't do it.

blackmail is usually delivered in the form of a "promise" not an "offer", such as "Give me a 10/10 or I promise I will track you down and cut off your nuts."

You can review a provider under your “ALIAS”!

If you pass screening, you're golden.  

I personally cannot earn over an 8 for performance, as I do not qualify for anything over an 8…and have given whitelists to gents who I have seen when asked for one. Maybe this is more common among those who are use to only receiving 9s and 10s…but would not say it's the "norm" or something that should sway a gent in his reviewing procedures.  

Though men get annoyed, don't you as well when you don't do so? It's your (our) competition.

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because 1.  7 is not a bad score, no matter what the rating-obsessed, BSC girls think, and 2.  Blackmailing is wrong.

you're cool as hell Court

In the ATL!

I've never not passed screening so I won't worry about the white list too much.

It's more of an ego booster to have them lol

It's nice to know not all chicks are hungry for inflated scores... we need more like you thanks for the reply

That's one cool ass chick you gave her a 7 and she still white listed you.

and I still don't have a bit of problems passing screening.

I agree with Courtney, tell these manipulative cunts to Fuck Off!!!

I never reviewed, or where I gave 7s and 8s.  I often ask before the review is even submitted.  I am sure there are providers out there though that expect a quid pro quo...  That said, I also suspect many providers are not putting a lot of stock in TER WLs for screening purposes.  Despite my WLs and dozen Okays on P411 I know a few providers who admitted to me they still checked in with some of those providers just to be sure.  A good practice if you ask me...

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The chick who gave you the WL

And next time that's exactly what I will do.

Yep, that is another reason she is a cool ask chic!  Looks are subjective, I thought she was quite attractive and we had a very good time.  The content of my review was quite detailed and people can make up there own minds.  I am a relatively tough grader, product of an education that graded on a very strict curve.  I have given out one 10 in looks so far and not a single 10 for performance yet.

That I got a fair number of hobbyists PM'ing me to BC about Bridgette.  I pretty sure my endorsements have garnered her a few more dates so I doubt she is complaining about my review.  In fact, she thanked me for it.  Another reason she is a cool ass chic!

and if you pull her profile, you will understand why. She is definitely NOT my type, in either age or size.

I contacted her a few years ago to ask her "why the white list?" and she simply responded that she heard I was one of the "good guys" I've mentioned it to Admin, but it just doesn't seem to be a big deal to anybody. It does give me the distinction of having more white lists than reviews however, dubious honor that it is.

Yep that's a cool ass chick