New to the hobby and I see a lot of ads with "no black men or no pimps". Do a lot of pimps show up? Is the no black men a preference or to guard against pimps. I also see a lot of no black men under thirty-five. What is the average age of clients? I know I'm 45 and I feel like the girls sometimes look at me and are bummed because of my age. Thoughts?
Yes. The dirty little secret is that "no black men" really means "I dont want wannabe pimps tryin' to turn me out in their stable". If you see that in a profile, it may not be the highest-class provider.
I know two white females with financial problems who were "recruited" by black males via social networking sites. Both were arrested. Seems that often law enforcement is after the "pimp" and arrests the female in order to obtain a "cooperative" witness.
a certain level of class. It is simply her body , her mental health, Her preferences. You turn tables and pretend your choosibng to get naked and let woman suck your cock and fuck you up ass with thier strap ons, Just say reverse tables your a male prostitute your life was different and thats where you woke up and found yourself, Lets say you decided you dont want woman over 200 lbs , or women over age 60. Does that mean your low class low rent no good ? Its the ladies body and she has a right to select whom to entertain. No need to judge people, You dont know what they may have been through or what there reasons are and it shouldnt evn be on your mind or a topic to discuss, You thionk its classless or wanna bash em? Simply move on to one of the other tens of thousands you can select from as the industry is full of all types. There are women in national top 100 on ter whom are black and say no black guys, Are they too classless????? No offense but the ladies in national top 100 most are professionals and this is very very secondary to thier lives and income i personally wouldnt call them classless which you just did.
So a professional fitness model that makes a grand or more an hour and is rated highest in the world is classless then ?
your obviously only perusing classless places to have that view, Go look at the national top 20 on ter, There are african american women who state they dont even wanna see the same race as themselves, So your saying they are of low class? Professional mosels that close to hundreds are reviewing and saying they are ten ten. You know ? i disagree with your opinion big time, I think its the dumbest comment i heard so far. So your calling provioders on national top 20 low class? women in all walks of money charging can be making thier specifications and wether it be cuz they have a bad memory or endeured a traumatic event , or like here your saying it means they are low clas,, When a woman is narrowing down the amount of penis she wants to have in and out her kootchie , that in itself deserves a godam applause in this dam field,
How is a lady saying she wants less cutomers, by saying i only want this type client and not this types clients, Your basically narrowing down the traffic your gonna be runnin in and out your pussy so how is that makn em classless? youd think wanting to be exclusive or seek what makes you most comfortable shows higher class,
I personally feel narrowing it down to whatever certain ages maybe she only wants white dudes, I personally have no rules on race do i have personal experiences on each race what i experienced with them may lead me to not want that style client,
any ways, If a lady wants a certain thing she can go right ahead, Unfortunetly the power of the pussy wins. Its obviuosly working for them or they wouldnt be doing it, The ones that dont like it and wanna make assumptions of thier class , just as well they probly dont wanna see guys psycho analyzing thier ads and choices in wether to be select or not, I know i wouldnt want clients that are sittin around psycho analyzing womens choice to entertain select gents as opposed to opening thier legs to every inquiry that strolls through, Who even cares and second dont judge a woman for deciding whos dicks she wants in her mouth.b
That doesnt reflect on class. like at all. ????seriously, grow the fuck up.
maybe we look at a different class of hooker ads.
As for "no black men" though, the girls have the right to fk who they want.
And since you are over 30+, the hookers wont give a shit what comes before the words "years old"...they only care about what precedes the word "dollars."
Check out the "60 and Over the hill board." You're an infant compared to some of those old bastards and tons of hookers love to play with that group.
Trust me, if your "amount" is right, your "age" will be right too.
Apparently a lot of pimps will use BP as a recruiting ground and try to get the girls to work for them. It must be a legitimate problem as you see the "no pimps" line on many BP ads.
As for "No Blacks" not much you can do about a woman's personal preference about who she fucks. Is it racism? Yes, of course it is, but does anyone here really want to book with someone who clearly doesn't want to fuck them? All you can do is move on to the next one, and there are plenty of women who only care about the color of your money.
In many/most/virtually all, yeah, probably, but I def would give myself some wiggle room by not speaking in absolutes on this particular topic, imo.
There is a difference between unwarranted fear and/or psychological trauma and racism, is there not?
LR had "no AA men" on her site, and she explained her reasons here. I don't know that I'd attribute them to racism.
LR might not be a racist, but discriminating based on race is racist. YOU CAN'T ESCAPE FACT!
Yet I don't think it's about skin color.
There is a difference between unwarranted fear and/or psychological trauma and racism, is there not?
The fear and psychological trauma applied to a specific "race" is racism. That is the fact there is no escape from. That's not say someone's fear and psychological trauma dose not warrant them the right to make. Common sense decisions based on racial profiling, profiling by race is inherently racist, and there for is racism.
The lady's action of self preservation is in fact racist, but justifiable. Yes I'm calling it Justifiable Racism.
You are confused so let me set you straight. Your first problem is that you are confusing the definitions of two VERY different words. Because something is "racial" in nature, it does NOT mean it is "racist."
If the psychological trauma of a provider was induced by rape from a rapist of a different race, that in and of itself is a legitimate reason for her to stop seeing men of that particular race other than "racism", especially if that provider didn't have any race preferences previous to that incident and had no racist feelings/tendencies prior as well.
Trauma of any kind can make one lose their "common sense", thus rendering your argument ineffective re: same
racialism and racial-ism are the same thing.
http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/racial
1: of, relating to, or based on a race -a racial minority-
2: existing or occurring between races -racial equality-
http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/racism
1: a belief that race is the primary determinant of human traits and capacities and that racial differences produce an inherent superiority of a particular race
2: racial prejudice or discrimination
What's the difference between "racial" and "racism"
If the psychological trauma of a provider was induced by rape from a rapist of a different race, that in and of itself is a legitimate reason for her to stop seeing men of that particular race other than "racism", especially if that provider didn't have any race preferences previous to that incident and had no racist feelings/tendencies prior as well.
http://www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/racial-discrimination?
discrimination, unfair treatment or bias against someone or a group of people on the basis of their race
How can you say "racial-discrimination" (that's what is happening here) is not the same thing as racism?
RD is "racism" in practice. The Lady may not intended for her actions to be "racist" or discriminate out of hate for a particular race, but it's still "racism"
Really, LOL?
Steph
I assume "thugs" is code for AA? Christ, if that is the case, just say AA then and knock off the bullshit.
Never saw that ad either but I believe you Steph.
I think it means just what it says, no thugs. I'm sure a Carlton type would be ok with someone who put that crap in an ad.
My point is this: WHY is that necessary to put that in an ad or website if a lady is presenting herself correctly.
Steph
A Milwaukee police captain was demoted because in an email to his officers he said, "let's get the thugs off the street". Some people said that was a racial reference, and the chief bowed to political pressure.
but you can always try - just for giggles!
In a lot of cases, those girls are already with pimps, so they don't want yet another one trying to take their girls. (or simply he girls are fed up with it).
I got a ton of that in the beginning on BP. Farkin' creepy and annoying.
I got a ton of that in the beginning on BP. Farkin' creepy and annoying.
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Dear Ms. Ova:
Although it is well known that you are the queen with the Golden Coochie, when did you first recognize that he was trying to run game on you? Also when was he trying to tell you when you needed to choose? I know that you are a seasoned professional who is true to this and not new to this but maybe this is a good time to discuss when game recognizes game.
I caught the tone in the voice on the phone and told them to go jump in a river.
The ones who actually made it in i just said I had diarrhea. They left quickly lol
in Dupy's response. The good news is, I suspect no pimps could follow either.
But I don't see black men; I'm not attracted to them. Nothing has happened to make me feel this way....there is just something about a chocolate-vanilla mix that gets the faucet going.
it's preference not prejudice in sooo many cases!!! And the mix is hot for a LOT of people - the success of interracial porn seems to support that, in any case.
As soon as I see a stereotype like "all pimps are black" I know it is incorrect. The kind of thing that used to piss me off, but now just makes me SMH
(I think I will just Copy and Paste this old post everytime I see this question being asked again and again and again.)
I want to start by saying, I AM AN EQUAL OPPORTUNITY WHORE.
I have sessioned with people of every racial group. I have sessioned with people who have immigrated to the US from at least 60 or 70 different coutries. I have sessioned with people of all the major religions. I have sessioned with blind people, deaf people, quadriplegics, paraplegics, people with speach impediments, people missing limbs, people with cerebral palsey, people with tramatic brain injuries, etc etc etc. I have sessioned with people who identify as bisexual. I have also sessioned with people who have some of the oddest fetishes you can imagine.
But to say 'pimps aren't necessarily of any specific racial group"- that's a bunch of freaking PC nonsense! I have had no less than 40 or 50 pimps harass me MERCILESSLY in recent years, trying to recruit me into their "stable." And YES, every single one was a black dude. And YES, I am a blonde girl! Lol.
Do I still see black men? Yes. Do I feel a little bit on edge until I determine they don't have a hidden agenda? YES.
So do you want a 100% honest top 10 reasons why women "don't see black men?" I have seen all of the following reasons listed on message boards time and time again. These don't necessarily reflect my personal views, so please don't shoot the messenger!
1.) Most pimps are black. 2.) Black pimps don't want to risk losing their girls to other pimps. 3.) Some women are racist, plan and simple. 4.) Fear of big black dicks. 4 1/2.) Fear of "pound you into the bed for an hour straight" style of sex. 5.) Fear of robbery or assault based on the racial disparity in crime statistics. 6.) Fear of STDs based on the racial disparity found in CDC statistics. 7.) Fear of haggling due to the racial disparity found in reported income statistics. 8.) An exagerated PTSD response because they were robbed/hurt by one or more black men. 8 1/2.) They don't want their cracker, small dicked, white clients to feel threatened! Lol. 9.) The majority of black men who try to book are younger and don't have screening references. 10.) They get sick and tired of being called RACIST for declining to meet with said men. (See number 9)
AGAIN, don't shoot the messenger! I have sessioned with enough black men to fill at least 4 or 5 NBA teams. And YES, I realize that is actually 12 reasons... I told you I was BLONDE, didn't I? Lol
of being the first white man to offer to be your pimp?
I think that solves all of the problems you mentioned!!! LOL
I can not confirm nor deny the allegation that the "gentleman of leisure" depicted in this video may have text stalked me mercilessly day and night for over a week last year. Watch the closing sequence for a sense of the "hard hustling" he's talking about. I await your white guy rendition with baited breath! Lmao.
crazy rhymes! Yeah... I'll make him my biatch! Here's a lil' sample what I'm talkin' bout:
What I find funny is when a white girl on Backpage states that she loves white men. That shit makes me chuckle every time I see it.
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I think people are thinking too hard about this. If a provider has a certain criteria and you don't meet said criteria move on. Trying to analysis the reasons why a provider has a certian criteria is pointless and meaningless, as they are not going to change it just because of a couple of posts.
If you feel that you age is a problem with certain women, then you need to expand your horizons and seek out providers who love older men. TER has a In Search Of board and I would recommend posting there, if you are having a problem finding a provider that likes older men.