As a segue to the "definition of a gentleman" post...it seems the ladies have opined.  Now the real question is what do the gentlemen want?  It seems there has been an expression on the part of ladies for a guy to "take some time" for chatting or, like a crock pot to "season" a little bit.  Obviously if a guy wants to get some high quality poon tang he best not stink.  Ok I can relate to all this.

But let's be real here - remember this is a NSA FFB enterprise - and we're on the clock.  Quite frankly I find some providers use the "chat" modality to - a la Mohammed Ali - provide a little GFE ropa-dopa - i.e. to take time off the clock.

So the question is for the "gentlemen" of TER - do you prefer to use your time to "warm the lass up" or  do you prefer, ala Victoria VonHelkine - and others - to have your bones jumped????

Me?  I say forget the warm interlude.  I know what I'm here for, jump my bones.

KatieLadie.........I still love you.  Will you marry me?

CDC



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It is rare that I find someone that I want to talk to, but those that I do like talking to, on the clock and off, know who they are as I keep in touch on some regular basis.  They are the 1% that I see again.  If it is just bone jumping, then there are plenty of others to see, no reason to repeat the same one.

While reading giorgio's thread below, it came to me.

There must be a connection.

My favorities all vary greatly in size, shape, age, interests, activities, etc.  Yet each of them is able to touch something inside of me that makes me want to come back.  I think that sometimes it's more chemical than mental, but the formulae must be very complex.

I have had sessions with some providers where they do all the right things, and are otherwise just great providers; but deep down inside I don't feel a connection.

That's one of the things that makes this hobby so interesting.

Take some time off the clock??

Oh good God give me a break. If I had a dollar for every gent who left at the 70-80 minute mark for a 60 minute session, I would be rich.

But hey, if you want her to just shut up and f/k you, that is no problem. They make very high quality dolls a la do it yourself ropa dopa that will provide that for you. (Hey, notice my attempt to sound witty too.)

PS. Don't humiliate a girl by first posting a condescending thread, then singling her out for attention. If you "love" her don't embarass her.

Jump the bonz first, talk later, then jump the bonz again.

CDC

I want the lady behind the door
to sit up straight upon the floor...

I want her begging and moaning to view my prize
and never to complain about my size...

I want her to say so sweetly soft
pretend that I am your own laura croft

I want her asking oh so nice
do you mind if for you I lower my price.

I want her then going to leave her man
and become a part of my plan...

my plan to live on my book sales
about my life and all of my tales...

Those tales of escorts and me
oh how they loved me - only for me

Girlfriend experience or not...
a happy ending with more than one shot.

kissing her lips and feeling her breast
and alphabet wanderings - they are the best.

What gentlemen want it is plain to see
Is someone who enjoys the session same as me!

Jump bones at the door (since it seldom happens in civie relationships), then talk and snuggle for awhile, then squeeze off a second round (if I'm able), then allot of smooching at the door as I'm leaving.

I agree with chef on this one, but keep in mind about 50% of providers love this sort of thing & 50% detest it---so have have to be careful about which provider you use this "approach" on.

with kool-aid - it is gonna taste the same... everytime.  with wine - it won't.  every vintage and every vinyard will produce a different sensation - no matter that each and every bottle is the product of fermentation... all done pretty much exactly the same...

Ladies... they are all different.  and thanks for that!

I want to have a great time. Nothing more, nothing less. I generally book two hours with my regulars and I'm honestly not a "wham bam" kind of date. I like a little animated conversation, I like foreplay and I like taking my time. Honestly, sometimes it's two hours of mutual playing around, massage and oral with no penetration at all. I don't go in with a punch list of activities to be accomplished. My only expectation is to enjoy the time spent with a lovely lady.

I really only try new ladies when I travel at this point and my expectations are set a bit lower than what I get from my favs.

and then move onto the bed.  I always have something to drink for the lady and present them with a token of my appreciation (flowers or something they like).

I usually booked 2 hours sessions, or more.  This way there is not the time concern to "hurry up" to get to the main event.

It depends on her!

I have two favorite providers who have a very different approach, but time with either is unforgettable.

Provider A offers a fantastic sensual massage and leaves me feeling special, relaxed, and ready to go to sleep.

Provider B jumps my bones, screws my brains out, and leaves me worn out in the best way (also ready to go to sleep).

I couldn't be happier with either experience!

Very funny- great job!  

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Not any more honny.. When you get up this way come see about me.

we enjoy spending time with are not f*#k machines.  They are real people who need to get to know you somewhat, warm-up to you, and maybe at the top of the list--feel safe before engaging in a very intimate act.  Despite how well they screen, sometimes  a wacko can slip through.

I like the fact that each woman is a unique experience, a unique individual.

I love a hot sensual experience.

I like to know that we both have a good time.

I like the excitement of new ladies, and the comfort of old friends.

At some point I want to have some conversation so it feels like I'm with a woman and not a blow-up doll, but I'm not meeting the ladies just for someone to talk to. I like sex.

Sometimes I have a good time but don't really make a connection, so even though it was fun I don't go back.

Sometimes I make a nice connection which enhances the experience, and I want to go back again - these are my favorites.