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Is age a problem for you?teeth_smile
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Ladies, do you have an age max? Is there a cut-off age for you that the money is just not worth seeing a guy that's x years old?

I've had guys add "Oh I'm 59 years old, if that's too old for you I understand" to the end of their emails like they've been turned down because of their age before.  

Age has never bothered me in my personal nor professional life.  

You can't possibly be older than Benjamin Franklin, so we're all good. ;)

Since there's only two choices:  getting older or getting younger, you'd think that by chance I could sometimes become younger rather than older, but apparently not.

Though it's not much of a consolation, people do tell me my mental age seems to become more infantile as time goes on.

I guess I'll have to settle for that.

Life is so unfair sometimes.

I read a girl's profile that says she sees men above 40. That discouraged me from making contact cuz I'm still under 40.  

Well,  the real reason I didn't follow up on making contact was because another girl caught my attention,  but I suppose the first girl would've been OK with a guy who is in his 30s had I asked her.  

I can't imagine how a girl can have such a rigid minimum age limit at 40,  prolly just a rough guide stating her preferences

By the time you really got good, you are too young to get it up!!

A lot of girls your age are, if not weirded out, then unenthusiastic about getting naughty with someone their grandfather's age. I think it's fair to give a heads up if there's more than say a 25 year age difference. I'd say stay open to it until your experience tells you otherwise. After all, you may get someone like this 64-year old geezer...

89Springer1602 reads

this 61 year-old geezer. He may not have the tan of the guy in the above post, but he can have the guy in the above post "disappeared". ;

It's just because you're so young and most guys have had mixed experiences with young providers. Some good, but a lot of bad. For example, most guys don't want the girl to start calling them "Daddy" followed by dirty talk. That, is a major turn off (for me anyway)... just my 2 cents.

And for what it's worth, you are young, but you are not immature and are wise beyond your years. That means a lot to us older guys.

Posted By: WilmyAlice
Ladies, do you have an age max? Is there a cut-off age for you that the money is just not worth seeing a guy that's x years old?  
   
 I've had guys add "Oh I'm 59 years old, if that's too old for you I understand" to the end of their emails like they've been turned down because of their age before.  
   
 Age has never bothered me in my personal nor professional life.  
   
 You can't possibly be older than Benjamin Franklin, so we're all good. ;)

Majority of my best dates are from the age group 60-80.. They are low maintenance, highly accomplished, generous and super fun to be with.. I have seen gentlemen from ages 30-90 (yes I see a gentleman who is 90) as long as they treat me with respect, courtesy since I offer the same in return. Typically older men enjoy the experience much more than the actual act.. they cherish our youth and they want to make you feel very very special, undeniably that sometimes can be found on the younger crowd also..

89Springer1249 reads

Hell, I'm 63 and I wouldn't wan to have sex with me. ;)

Paloma,
As an over 60 gentleman, I appreciate your attitude. As a pilot, I LOVE your photo shoot in the Gulfstreams - probably the sexiest biz jets around, and you fit in perfectly! If you let them use the pictures when they go to sell the jets it will probably up the sales price 10% - you should get a commission!
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act while using their life experiences to treat a provider like a queen.

Similarly, but not as frequent, younger guys can act more mature than their calendar age.

This is true- I once, many years ago, had a virgin. He was precious. Not a kid at all, but only 19. Very wise for his age.  

But older men really know how to treat a lady. :)

A gentleman who is mature enough to engage intellectually & appreciate the same. I'm 40 this year, I appreciate someone my age or older. My cut-off is 34 & younger.

AnotherDonJohn1602 reads

I'll let her describe her reasoning though.

Posted By: WilmyAlice
Ladies, do you have an age max? Is there a cut-off age for you that the money is just not worth seeing a guy that's x years old?  
   
 I've had guys add "Oh I'm 59 years old, if that's too old for you I understand" to the end of their emails like they've been turned down because of their age before.  
   
 Age has never bothered me in my personal nor professional life.  
   
 You can't possibly be older than Benjamin Franklin, so we're all good. ;)

GaGambler1589 reads

At fifty six I will be "too old"  for her next January.

Anyone want to bet that I can still sweet talk my way into her bed even at that "advanced" age? With a fistful of hundreds of course. lol

Pimpathy1415 reads

That yourself, another bonbon, and Ms. Tardford. Are the only folks who would be concerned, if you did or didn't.

Posted By: GaGambler
At fifty six I will be "too old"  for her next January.  

Anyone want to bet that I can still sweet talk my way into her bed even at that "advanced" age? With a fistful of hundreds of course. lol

AnotherDonJohn1523 reads

Same st cred. Lol.

Posted By: Pimpathy
That yourself, another bonbon, and Ms. Tardford. Are the only folks who would be concerned, if you did or didn't.  
   
Posted By: GaGambler
At fifty six I will be "too old"  for her next January.  
   
 Anyone want to bet that I can still sweet talk my way into her bed even at that "advanced" age? With a fistful of hundreds of course. lol

I'll take that bet, bitch! :D How many hundreds can you fit in your fist?

Posted By: GaGambler
At fifty six I will be "too old"  for her next January.  

Anyone want to bet that I can still sweet talk my way into her bed even at that "advanced" age? With a fistful of hundreds of course. lol

AnotherDonJohn1444 reads

The person controlling the outcome.

Anyone want to lay odds on that?  

Lol

Posted By: Tobi Telford
I'll take that bet, bitch! :D How many hundreds can you fit in your fist?  
   
Posted By: GaGambler
At fifty six I will be "too old"  for her next January.  
   
 Anyone want to bet that I can still sweet talk my way into her bed even at that "advanced" age? With a fistful of hundreds of course. lol

GaGambler1300 reads

but I think we have also established that Tobi is willing to "bend" her no one over 55 rule. For a price of course.

and I've always known that Tobi wants me, or at least wants to relieve me of a "fist full of hundreds" that is. lol

AnotherDonJohn1460 reads

That will be fun for the lucky guy. Lol.

Posted By: GaGambler
but I think we have also established that Tobi is willing to "bend" her no one over 55 rule. For a price of course.  

and I've always known that Tobi wants me, or at least wants to relieve me of a "fist full of hundreds" that is. lol

Nah man, I'm gonna leave it at "notorious." That makes it sound kind of badass.  

Posted By: AnotherDonJohn
I'll let her describe her reasoning though.  
   
Posted By: WilmyAlice
Ladies, do you have an age max? Is there a cut-off age for you that the money is just not worth seeing a guy that's x years old?  
     
  I've had guys add "Oh I'm 59 years old, if that's too old for you I understand" to the end of their emails like they've been turned down because of their age before.    
     
  Age has never bothered me in my personal nor professional life.    
     
  You can't possibly be older than Benjamin Franklin, so we're all good. ;)

I'd love to see her, but she said it would be like banging her Dad.

Bummer, I love her body and mind.  She gets me hot and then the cold water.

I'm gonna try to book her under another name and tell her I'm really only 30 but have progeria (rapid aging disease) and see if that'll get me in the door...

To be fair, I really don't think I said that. My dad is actually barely 50, and yeah...let's just not bring up my dad in this context.  

Posted By: 2labman
I'd love to see her, but she said it would be like banging her Dad.  
   
 Bummer, I love her body and mind.  She gets me hot and then the cold water.  
   
 I'm gonna try to book her under another name and tell her I'm really only 30 but have progeria (rapid aging disease) and see if that'll get me in the door...

It's an age-old problem (no pun intended), the more you can't have something, the more you want it.

AnotherDonJohn1361 reads

Posted By: Tobi Telford
To be fair, I really don't think I said that. My dad is actually barely 50, and yeah...let's just not bring up my dad in this context.  
   
Posted By: 2labman
I'd love to see her, but she said it would be like banging her Dad.  
     
  Bummer, I love her body and mind.  She gets me hot and then the cold water.  
     
  I'm gonna try to book her under another name and tell her I'm really only 30 but have progeria (rapid aging disease) and see if that'll get me in the door...

I do not like or meet young guys. Period.  
I prefer 35-40 and up. No age max limit. I just dont feel confortable with the jumpy, all high energy, all over me young male. I prefer meet with a gentleman and have a fun and relaxed time. I had few experiences with young males and it was a disaster of a date.

I prefer to see men 35 and up. Not really into younger men (just being honest).

I've had guys as young as 18 contact me. I feel more comfortable with a man that has plenty of experience behind closed doors.

Attraction and chemistry are two things that cannot be faked. I've seen a few younger men and it didn't work out.

I'll be 31 in early June

I prefer older, mature & respectful gents myself.  60+ is all good!

In a couple years you'll be too old for me.

Just kidding
Couldn't help it !

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I love older gentlemen.  Always have.
But I did see a young guy the other week and I felt like his mom!
Ugh.  Not even THAT young really, but just looked like it and acted like it.
I laughed to myself when he was super excited about how clean my shower was!  lol

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I don't see too much discrimination against older gents, barring the 70-90 range, but younger ones like myself seem to get cut off more frequently. Based on ads I've seen anyway.  

I've heard both that younger gents make easier appointments, and that we make harder ones, so I'm not sure of the specific reasons for this. I guess it all depends on the particular provider's past experiences.  

I think it may be mostly a mental/maturity thing, with maybe there being a higher chance of a younger guy to be a bit more peculiar if he is doing this at that age. Whereas most older gents' reasons are pretty clear cut.  

Personally, I'm a reasonably attractive young man, but sometimes I just find the whole bar chasing process exhausting and am just interested in exploring new experiences. Hopefully that wouldn't be a turn off to providers, but sometimes just the age # (mid 20s) would be enough to scare some away.

A lot of dudes seem to think that I have that restriction in place because I "think they won't be able to please" me or whatever. In reality, I'm just immature.

Pimpathy1414 reads

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Posted By: Tobi Telford
A lot of dudes seem to think that I have that restriction in place because I "think they won't be able to please" me or whatever. In reality, I'm just immature.

89Springer1304 reads

Immaturity doesn't seem to dissipate with age.  

So, that's your mother with the peeing statue? ;)

GaGambler1562 reads

Remember I have been immature for a lot longer than you, I have mastered the are. I would think my board posts have proven that.

nah I never thought you're immature,  just hot headed. I'm thinking it's the silicone and asian mix that has more to do with it.  lol

"Maturity is a bitter disappointment for which no remedy exists - unless you believe that laughter will fix anything"

Or something like that

"Vonnegut"

I enjoy the company of older gents 40+ in age.
I do have age requirement on my website due to having some less than pleasant times with some guys who were in their early 30s.
Not to say I have not enjoyed the company of younger gents I have seen a few who were in their late 20s years ago.But at this point I rather see a gent who is 40+ as far as the oldest gent I will see I don't have an age restriction regarding that.I have seen more than a few gents who were in their 70s.
I also get the emails from guys who are in their late 50s or 60s asking if their age will be an issue.
Most of the guys I see fall in the 45-65 age range.
Every lady is different:)

I will say that the older gents are better in bed, but that goes without saying. ;)

89Springer1380 reads

by filling the envelope with tens. ;)

0603450onThe1306 reads

I would highly NOT recommend that prank on any gal of any age lol.

Posted By: 89Springer
by filling the envelope with tens. ;)

0603450onThe1042 reads

that this world has introduced me to a generation I never even contemplated dating before. And Wow, have I missed out. The mature gentlemen my age and older have most definitely got 'it' going on. At least the majority I have been introduced to.  

There's something to be said about a gentleman who carries himself with uber style, treating you to the 'best' of everything without so much of a blink of the eye. He is established, refined, and simply knows how to treat a woman the 'right' way. Now you tell me, what woman simply 'wouldn't' want that. A few of my most memorable clients ever, past and present  ;)  are +*0 years and simply amaze(d) me. (yes, you can guess that # lol)

Oh and for the record ... I won't say if any of them left a review, but think more on the half cup * side for that one lol. (yes, you can take a wild guess on that one too, but I'll bet your guess is wrong lol)

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I sometimes wonder if my Bens are too old. When the envelope has some old and some new bills, I sometimes feel like the lady is going to suspect me of passing counterfeit. It would be an obvious way to blend and distribute. (Too obvious. Don't even think about it).

Uncle Ben is a stranger around my house so plans are mainly in the realm of wishful thinking. But there is this one that I want to see that has an advertised age cut off that I am past. By the time I have made a few more visits with my ATF I will be almost 4 years past her cut off. She has stated her wishes so I move on. I try to be respectful and appreciative here and in real life. So to your question I guess there are those of that are turned down by a number on a web page and just want to make sure you didn't omit that one little point. Thanks for your post.

I mean, at 99... I doubt they're coming here. Lol.

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