I'm tempted to respond: "Oh yeah? For reals? In that case, would you see me for free?"

Anybody else tired of these bull shit emails some providers send?

Teasing you like crazy! Ever got that text message before?

i get these almost everyday..i could never figure out why..it is either my magnetic personality and charismatic charm or all the bills came due at once..

Don't read the emails, or ignore the email after you read it.

I can't even read my own posts, I got my self on ignore.

Damn, I'm so lonely, I wish I got some of them....especially with the photos....
Seriously, I've gotten email or text notices from different providers when they're out my way. I just take them for what they are: advertisements just try to generate business. Afterall, that is what a successful provider needs to do for her business to be successful. I either treat it like the junk mail in the snail mail and just delete if I'm not interested in seeing that girl ever again or, if I don't want to burn any bridges and keep open future possibilities, then I politely respond with a thank you and perhaps let her know that I'm unavailable now but keep me in mind in the future when you're next out this way (two can play that game!). What's the problem? No biggie....

Are you saying they just want my business when they send me their emails? The nerve of those people!

i figure it's my huge penis...

i actully just posted about this, i got 3 "miss you" emails last week.  lol!

It literally cost you nothing.  The girl is just trying to generate some business.  No one is putting a gun to your head.

It's the same buncha haters that gotta come on here and bitch about a girl's asking price.  Look...no one is putting a gun to your head.  If you think it's an excessive asking price, you have two options:

1.  Pass

2.  Counter with your own donation price.

That's really what it comes down.  No need to continue to harp on free options.  Whatta buncha fuckin' whiners.

... messages asking me the same thing.

I am thinking... their business must be slow... I will ask for a discount.

So, I text (or email) them back asking if they want to see me, they have to offer a discount.

I never hear from them again. That usually shuts them up.

Both of my ATF don't do that to me.

It's the others that I have not seen in many months, in some cases over a year.

Sighs...

Serpius

I have clients that I adore seeing more than others...yes, but I don't call or email them out of the blue asking them to see me. It's simply tacky, and what your money is supposed to prevent! If you wanted a girl calling you, you would not be in the hooker world to begin with.

They place an ad, then wait. This practice of cold calling and spamming clients (and yes, it is SPAM) is unprofessional and tacky. Some guys don't mind because they see it as a chance to get a discount, but married men usually DO mind, and it should not be done. It is one thing if you flat out told her to contact you whist in town or you're on her mailing list, but out of the blue? FAIL!

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to let them know when they'll be touring again in their area so he can be sure to arrange his schedule to see her.  I do this frequently with traveling gals, and appreciate that they do contact me.

Also, if a local gal I see is going to be unavailable for some like because of some family or health issue, I appreciate finding out so I can see her once before she becomes unavailable.

In either case, client buy-in on this is essential, otherwise like LR says, it is just spam.

I get a couple of those now and then, but they are from an ATF that we have a good friendship going as well that includes some OTC dinner etc now and then. We talk about our lives as well in text so in that case, yeah she is just saying miss you its been a while.

Marketing ones from providers that where not friends like that would annoy me a lot and drop them off my repeat list.

But then again I am replying...so I'm terribly bored as well.

Sure...I'd love to see you sweetie.

Bring all your pals with...Ben in particular!