In my opinion and experience, many women must work as providers because they have made poor choices in men and selected "bad boy loser deadbeat boyfriends." Usually, these guys impregnate a woman and then do not want to take the high road and support their own children.

A former girlfriend of mine recently admitted to working as a "part-time provider" now since she had a deadbeat boyfriend that fathered two kids for her and will not support them.

A female coworker of mine is "joking" about working as a provider since she had a child with a "bad boy" that can't work a regular job since he owes child support for three other kids and his paycheck would get garnished if he held a real job. What kind of men are these guys?

I don't know why women make such bad choices in men.

I have heard about the same old deadbeat loser boyfriends in Mexico, Costa Rica, Philippines and Thailand. Always the same shit about a women having to work as a provider because of a bad decision in men. In these countries, there is no child support enforcement and all responsibility is on the woman bearing the child.

Some people on this site think that I am a bad guy. In reality, I am a very good person.

I am currently engaged to a woman in the Philippines that I met online. I am traveling to the Philippines next month and we will marry. It requires a 10 day waiting period before marriage in the Philippines. She has a child from a deadbeat Philippino boyfriend that inpregnated her and then just married another woman and fathered another child at the same time without any financial responsibility to her.

I will marry her and adopt her child as my own to give them both a better life in the US. She is 15 years younger than me, very pretty and sexy while my only request is that we have one child together. I will not share her bed until we are married but hope to impregnate her on our honeymoon in the Philippines island of Bohol since I asked her to stay off birth control.

I have been very upfront with her about my need for lots of sex from her and she claims that she will keep me satisfied as well as I shall satisfy her needs in bed.

I hope that she that will cure my "yellow fever."

A dumb ass that thinks he is smarter than anyone.....but screws up everything they touch or attempt...a person who acts like they know what there doing, even though they do not....this includes dumb ass people, and morons.

Hey check out that guy in the tassel jacket and moccasin boots, he's a Legend in his own mind!!!!

I know that the truth hurts many people.

Just looking to be honest about my feelings here.

News Flash...what other people do is not the cause of OUR choices!!! Ok, maybe some people like to play that card, but I don't. I don't blame other people for where I am at in life, and I never will.   I am not a hooker because of what some man did to me, but what I chose to do. A man can't get you into debt if you don't give that fool all of your money because you are so desperate for love and attention, you will take whatever loser comes along just not to be alone. I don't know what type of women you're hanging out with, but maybe you should start hanging around college campuses or some shit...get out of the clouds and delusions.

Yes, many women have had men leave them with children and not many choices but it's not always on the man. Who said while that woman was married that she could have have gotten a degree? I mean gimme a fkin break. Most of us are here because we don't want to work a 40 hour week for shitty pay, but we also know this is not forever so we damn well have our shit together.


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Mail order bride? Hope that works out for you.

Now that you will be married, hopefully she is the only one you will be fucking without a cover. The only risk of spreading disease will be between the 2 of you.

Good luck and I hope nobody gets the eye chlamydia.

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For YOU of all people though, to sit here and pass judgement on other men when you're out barebacking an entire nation and unloading in EVERY ONE OF THEM, is comical and absurd. I hope you do get married and keep your germ infested monkey out of other providers...best shit I have heard all week!

Yeah, pump her up and impregnate her good on the honeymoon. Tell her you'll be having sex all night till the wee hours of the morning.  I'm sure she'll oblige.  

I'm a married man. But if I ever get married to a younger woman in the future .. I will make sure she's a sexy dynamo who will satisfy me for hours.  Good luck.

There must be about 32 Victim cards in it for some people.  Sure does get played a lot.  
Good luck governor.  

I have a son in college right now. His mother, that I apparently impreganted, was not sure who the father was when she became pregnant. Three different men were tested for DNA and I was the match.

I love my son and I paid significant child support to his mother even though my son told me she was spending the money on drugs and alcohol for her new boyfriends. In my opinion these men were losers since most eventually inpreganated her and would not support their children with my exgirlfriend since they could not hold a job since their wages would be garnished for their other children that they fathered. This is a fucked up cycle.

I don't really consider my fiance from the Philippines to be a "Mail Order Bride" since we met on CherryBlossoms.com which is a site for American men looking for Philippina  and other Asian wives. We Skype multiple times a day for the past months and I know that her town just went through a horrible typhoon. We know each other very well and it is not as though I am marrying someone that I don't know.

I really like the idea of marrying a woman that I can be a good man for an possilby save her and her kid from a life of poverty in the Philippines. I want to do a good thing in the world to negate some of the evils of bad men. I am open to her bringing her parents to the US with a parental visa.

My Philippina fiance is going to "hit the floor" when I put an $8000 engagement ring onto her pretty little hand two weeks before our wedding. In my eyes, she deserves this and it is something that I can afford to provide her with.

I want to do good in the world.

Yeah, I'd rethink the filipina option if I were you. I speak from experience; my own and that of many others.

You can get yourself a hot little number many years your junior who will probably even want to have another child with you but she will suck up your money quicker than a slot machine and be constantly on the prowl for a better situation.

There are many good women in the PI but the ones trolling online are as insincere as they come.

London,

I do respect your openess and honesty about everthing in the hobby. Working a 40 hour low paying job sucks ass since you have no time for family and don't make a lot of bank at the end of the day. I agree. There is a point when you don't want to be a provider due to age concerns. I understand lady!

Based on your emotions and "charged responses", I find you quite a sexy woman.

Would you ever consider a date with me before I marry my Philippina fiance? I intend to be 100% loyal to this woman since she nows my requirements for sex and planty of oral sex by us mutually. I actually love DATY as my top sexual event since I love the taste of a woman and knowing that if I get her to cum, fucking her will be incredible.

I am also looking forward to raising her child as my own and wondering what our child together will look like when a blond blue-eyed German American breeds with a dark skinned Philippina island girl with big gorgeous eyes!

I am in love!

I think that I found a winner. I found many scammer women on the "CherryBlossoms" website. If a 21 year old woman wants to marry a 40 something year old, there is a high probability of divorce later and money extraction from me. I have spoken to about 30 Philippinas.

One woman from PI asked me for cash right away after speaking and another one wanted me to stay in PI until here "Fiance Visa" was cleared after a few months. She was not concerned that I have a job in the US and wanted me to take her to Thailand for a two week vacation (she has a PI passport) while the fiance Visa was approved. She "promised me great sex." These women would marry me, produce kids for me and then leave me after two years and sue me for alimony and child support.

I know all of my finace's family from Skype. I am actually now good friends with her brother. I will stay at her brother's house before our wedding. I know her sisters and parents and they are good people.

I think that I found myself a nice bride til death do we part!

I just am excited about your emotion and passion. You do excite me London!

and the last sentence.

I'm sure that was all I needed to read...

Lets see

another deadbeat post from brain dead Udo..

oh fuck..hey london..i think serpius has an offspring here..

I've done body molds before, it does take time to set.  Don't forget to charge him properly to compensate for your time lol!

Hm... actually, what would your rate be?  That could be sold as art!

he IS a vagina..

Don't lump the "lawn boy" in with the likes of that fucker.

Dude as soon as she has that baby and she can stay in America legally, she will be out of there.  WHY O WHY do men keep falling for this...maybe the same reason why the women in your life keep falling for bad guys.  And to top it off you are adopting her child, come on man!!!!!!!!!!!

I have always believed there are two ways to learn.  The easy way and the hard way.  I think it is pretty easy to see which this one is.  I have seen a couple of these stories start with their grand expectations.  Have yet to see one even work out as what would be considered acceptable or cost effective.  

Good luck to the happy sucker, I mean groom.

By the way "Captain Save a Ho"  That's classic.

If he's being honest, he's not real bright.  I also think he's morally unique.  In any event, I wish him luck, but I fear he is going to be screwed in a bad way.  There are bad women out there as well as bad men.

Yes! Ten points to b in b..  Perhaps bothe Udo and London will finally find true love. Film at 11.

Dude, I think you need to do a search for UDO and read the shit he has to say. He goes to third world countries, so he can BBFS and does not care if the girl gets pregnant as a matter of fact I believe it is his goal. In this thread he calls the baby daddy of his soon to be bride a deadbeat, yet it's what he has boasted about doing himself.

A recent touch of morals, which are still warped, is not going to change the opinions of those that have read his rants on these boards.

With that said, I have gone from pissed at this guy to laughing at his absolute insanity

This post in particular makes me never want to log in to TER and click on "Discussion Boards" again. Ever.

You're kidding, right?  You don't like men who mistreat women by leaving them stuck with kids to raise by themselves without child support.  Yet, you find a mail-order bride type situation through the internet with a girl from the Phillipines who will do anything you want sexually?  Who's exploiting and mistreating who?  This poor girl is probably in poverty and desperate and will do anything to get out of it.  You have to go to a third world impoverished country to find a bride, because women over here in America make their own choices and are not going to bow to you and submit to your every sexual desire.

First of all, my Filippina girl is not a "Ho." She was involved with a deadbeat loser boyfrend. Apparently, it is only American men that must pay child support to the the mother of their children.

Nearly 50% of US marriages result in divorce. Therefore, I would have the same "marital risk" as any US man marrying a younger woman regardless as to where they come from.

My note that he might be morally " unique" was not meant as a compliment to Udo. "twisted" might be another way to put it.  Even so, I have a problem with watching him  possibly get badly sucker punched by a different sort of villain.  I understand how others might think it an example of just desserts or karma for his own immoral behavior.

Yeah, he's bad.  Assuming he's real at all.  But I still hate to watch him get sucker punched by someone else for what appears to be stupid but not bad behavior.  I should have said"twisted" instead of "unique" when describing his morals.  But I was trying to be neutral for some inexplicable reason.