I was just strolling down memory lane remembering the time I was fucking a civie married woman (not my wife.) There is something psychologically erotic about fucking another man's wife (behind his back, not the voluntary cuckold kind.) She's risking a lot to be fucked by you. It captivated the imagination dreaming about the next time we would meet. This relationship lasted several years. It was infrequent due to the usual complications. But a hot experience every time.
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I did try to recreate that scenario with the failed foray into Ashley Madison. But never did manage to arrange a similar situation. Never the less it is one of those things I wouldn't hesitate to dive into again if the opportunity ever arose.
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I was married at the time too. So I often wonder if a similar feeling exists in the other side. There are supposedly women who are drawn to married men, and I assume for the same ego gratifying reasons of stealing another woman's husband. He's risking it all to fuck her. That's gotta stroke anyone's ego.
The one I fucked wasn't a civie though. She was a female monger who invited me for a visit and I fucked her in the bed she shared with her husband. I also fucked her in my hotel room. And she fucked a fellow monger friend of mine the week before. I'm not sure what her motivation was, as we didn't talk about it. I know she hated her husband on several levels, but it was more than that. She's just a very independent, sexually voracious person who refuses to be put into a box by conventional society. I'd love to fuck her again and I suppose it could happen, as we are still in touch. I have never been able to replicate the experience.
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I yam what I yam.
Spot on, Forbidden apple?
I was just strolling down memory lane remembering the time I was fucking a civie married woman (not my wife.) There is something psychologically erotic about fucking another man's wife (behind his back, not the voluntary cuckold kind.) She's risking a lot to be fucked by you. It captivated the imagination dreaming about the next time we would meet. This relationship lasted several years. It was infrequent due to the usual complications. But a hot experience every time.
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I did try to recreate that scenario with the failed foray into Ashley Madison. But never did manage to arrange a similar situation. Never the less it is one of those things I wouldn't hesitate to dive into again if the opportunity ever arose.
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I was married at the time too. So I often wonder if a similar feeling exists in the other side. There are supposedly women who are drawn to married men, and I assume for the same ego gratifying reasons of stealing another woman's husband. He's risking it all to fuck her. That's gotta stroke anyone's ego.
So as you can guess I don't see the allure of it. I don't want to come off so self righteous but it just isn't my style. I have boundaries, as little as they are but knowingly being with a married women just isn't in me. I've been pursued by married women but I just couldn't see any good coming from it, if it was a conquest/ ego thing then ok, but I'm not wired that way.
but like you, it's not my thing.
I remember dating a married woman many years ago, I had no idea she was married when we met, and I eventually got her to leave her husband to be with me, and I am sure you've already guessed it, just as soon as she left him for me she started cheating on me too. Yes, I am sure I deserved it, but the sex really was THAT good. lol I will say it was by far the most dysfunctional relationship I have ever been in, and not anything I ever care to repeat.
I too have been pursued by married women that I knew were married, most of them married to guys I knew. I NEVER acted on any of them. I guess I am not wired that way either. I can't imagine feeling good about fucking a friends wife, I would probably feel like a guy who just fucked his friends wife, IOW a weasel.
so I don't see it as a big deal one way or the other.
What if she’s married but working as an escort?
I know one like that - very pretty MILF type and a great fuck. Husband knows what she does (he encouraged her to do it) and helps her manage her business.
But I did see two that were married. One told me at the end of our date that she was married. She told me that her husband reads her reviews so she has to "tone" down the activities. Her attitude was to give them enough to make them happy.
The other one was separated, again I didn't know she was married. Her husband got a hold of my number. She gave me the heads up so we got our stories aligned. He was a nice guy, and it went well. But I never saw her again....she had more drama besides the Ex.
Had that experience. Provider told me before we started and it immediately made me want to leave. Just doesn’t appeal to me.
Not interested in married women or civies in general. I don’t want to drama and don’t want to have the attachment. Life is better without it in my opinion.
Unless her hubby doesn't know it is not the same, since it is not "forbidden." It has to be with someone who's husband would object strenuously. That's the risk. She's risking it all for YOU. Pretty hot.
I have posted this before so if you have read it, just pass on by.
It was the late 1980's. I had been married four years when my wife died of cancer. It was a horrible death and left me emotionally weak and lonely. At the time I was a mid level manager at the company I worked for, and was 800 miles away from my home town.
A peer of mine had a cute Admin who was 8 years older than I, and was married. Through the course of conversation I discovered her husband was 18 years her senior and could not get it up, this was the days before Viagra.
Now I am not that great looking, but she wanted some dick and made her move. Once I got past the moral implications, I went for it.
Sex was great....best I have ever had. It had an edge to it. I did not realize how naive I was in bed until we started fucking. Almost got caught several time. Went on for two years.
My company was acquired so I relocated back to the Midwest. I hoped that she would follow me but that was not the case. Best sex I ever had, because of the risk and naughty of it.
years ago when the internet was new, there was a lot of hot one night stand hookups from chatting online. it was new and novel and exciting to the women as well. heck for the first year i actually RECEIVED requests for dick pics ! shows you how much has changed.
well one girl asked me over to her house late at night, it was our first time meeting, mid 30s average looking attorney .. we quickly wind up in the guest bedroom .. turned out guest because no evidence for her out of town hubby to find. that's when i found out .. well still went ahead it was kinda exciting .. forbidden fruit and all .. but that was it .. checked off bucket list. since then i have had opportunities with married former lovers but i declined. there is even a line i wont cross ..... imagine that ! LOL
oh i think the attorney did divorce the husband sometime later.
It's been that way forever...as long as human beings trod this Earth we'll forever be attracted by anything regarded as "taboo."
Spot on! This will always be the case. Something tempting about what's forbidden or frowned upon in society that's so appealing.
I know some providers find the illegal nature of the biz part of the turn on.