provider i visit has recently decided to offer a "sugar daddy special". for a flat fee ($1k per month) you get unlimited number of visits. all you have to do is call one day in advance for appointment.  regular call is $250, so would have to see her 4 times a month to break even. although she is very good at her job, not sure if i want to commit to seeing same provider that often.  she claims that this will allow her to limit her client list and provide a consistent income.  any thought on this???

Usually we are in the business of variety, once you commit to just one you might get tired of her sooner. Unless you can afford to see others and it won't break your bank I say go for it, try it for a couple of months.

I only see a few friends each month..
I like the sugar daddy concept..

be honest, talk about expectations and timing and talk about this is a month to month and you and she have the right to move on or go week to week.... 1 month at a time..

Now if you don't want her to see anyone else in general it is a great thing. but both parties have to know all the rules....

Again.. how well do you know her.
does it feel to much like a real relationship and does that kill the thrill?

She likes you and she obviously thinks you are a nice guy who she enjoys.. She does not like taking risk..

be honest with yourself and what is it about seeing her that you like, want and expect..

Hmmm, clever lol that's not a half bad idea!  May backfire on her with some people but it may provide a little more consistency.

There was a time when I would have offered that same deal to the provider but something about it just didn't feel right.  For one thing, she'd need more clients than just me.

I'm wondering if the provider you're talking about could get enough clients that way.  Also, you run into scheduling problems.  Plus, you're not really getting a whole month, assuming you don't see her during her period.  Still, $1000 might not be a bad deal if you don't feel you'll need additional variety.

I've seen offers like this elsewhere, normally they are called "exclusive arrangements", they aren't really exclusive of course.  It more like buying wholesale than retail (providers selling at Cosco?? hhhmmm...that's an idea).

To be honest, why commit like that unless you plan on seeing her more than once a week?  I'm not to sure I have the time to see a provider more than once a week and unless you do that there is no price break.  I'd entertain the idea if it was for 90 minute appointments or the monthly fee was more like $750.

Besides, I'm all for repeat visits, but the same provider week in and week out???  Before long won't you get bored?

4 times a month is a lot for me with any provider because I travel too much.  If my travel schedule was different I still wouldn't see most women that often.  But there are one or two who if I set down roots in their area I would jump on that deal.  It all depends on your idea of what you want.

It isn't a unique situation at all for a provider to want such a situation.  It makes their financial situation much more predictable, reduces much of their risk.

Are you thinking of doing something similar? I see you are in Chicago its my home town.

Must be why you are a gentleman, "You can wade that red river just don't drink from it"

"guestimate". What you have shared isn't a typical sugardaddy arrangement. It only affords you a time slot. That's all. I would be surprised if you didn't have an arguement or two,each month,about availability. If you want me to guess relative to what you have offered here, I would say pass this one up. Some girls will say whatever it takes to aquire that first installment. You might get left high and dry after that.

Now, she could be counting on the fact the guy will get bored of her eventually...OR else she really does want a SD for the relative stability & security it MIGHT have...Maybe she's sick of screening, maybe she's sick of the worry that comes w/ meeting someone new, and the lower bank is worth it to her.
If she's trustworthy, meaning, she won't take the 1k upfront & then disappear, then go for it.
Most SD's I've talked to though...The usually is 2k/month allowance...so I think she's selling herself short. Trust your gut...

There is the issue of availability and of course do you want to see the same lady (girlfriend now maybe) 5 or more times a month. OK Lets explore time; is this a 1 hour interlude or as stated unlimited? Basically what I am asking is can you make an appointment for 2-3 hours, overnight, what exactly is the "limit"? Lots to think about.

...be prepared for her to start having more "scheduling problems" where she can't see you as often.  She will realize that she's already got your money for the month, and that you aren't bringing fresh money with you on your visit and she will get harder to schedule.  As my name states...been there, done that.

unlimited time....what's the difference...she gets 5-10 guys to do this...I am sure she Will be Very happy...there are Pros and Cons to this...but I have to say...it's creative and very interesting to say the least

If unlimited means unlimited, I like to have sex at least once a day, actually more like about 10 times a week.

If you do the math, five guys like me would mean sex 200 times a months for a paltry 5 grand. lol

I would expect that under an arrangement like this, "unlimited" would change it's meaning very quickly