Do men really all want 2 women in the bedroom and can they truly satisfy both of them?  
Furthermore, do they compare the two ladies in the bed with them to see who maybe blows them better? Does it somehow become a competition between the two women?

Having done a few...bucket list...I prefer one on one. Too much stimuli for this gent. My current favorite asks from time to time and I tell her the same.

In my experience, there rarely is anything that applies to all men. Some certainly prefer one on one and do not have interest in duos. Some fantisize about it but would never do it. But a fair number do want this experience. I would gather most do not want to make it their regular thing. But even then, some might.

Do you really think most guys satisfy even one woman?  So two? Nope.

I'd  hope that the two women would help satisfy each other, in addition to whatever I could contribute.

I've never ever had an interest in two women at once....I am fine and content and happy having one very nice woman to focus on and please.....that's it.    Two women just seems absurd to me....

I like my duos to be bi and play with each till I decide to intervene.

Every duo is different. People don’t have the same needs or desires. All my duos are 100% tailored to customize each person’s naughty desires. I am truly bisexual & adore extra erotic fun!

are paying ME, then I would feel an obligation to satisfy them both, but if I'm paying them, MY satisfaction is the only thing that is important.  If a customer sees you, and pays you the agreed rate plus a nice tip, would you refuse to see him again because he didn't ALSO make you cum?  

So you will watch two, or more, men go at it with one woman. So a gang bang is on the table? And you think this is hot. But you find it absurd if there’s a second woman? Not the answer I expected.

But I will say I've never worried about "satisfying" 2 women. I'm lucky if I can distract one.  

I can see providers paying you.....to leave and forget about ever calling them again....you may be the most obnoxious, revolting person I have NEVER met.....

It's pretty clear you are looking for an emotional relationship with a provider.  I have had these, but they happened organically over time, and I did not initially see it coming during our professional interaction, nor was it planned or something I was "seeking."  

" I'm lucky if I can distract one." Funniest thing I have read here in a long time! Great line bro!

Go back and re-read THIS latest post of yours and explain why you choose to make each single point.....it is NOT to teach me (or anyone else) some Free lesson on hiring sex workers;  you aren't teaching anything first off, you're performing (primarily for yourself but also for whomever you imagine is interested in this spectacle.)  

Very well explained thanks.

Lol 😂 nice answer!!!

In the same so I’ve had great duos actually. I’d like more!

My one and only duo was in a BDSM scene in which I "forced" them to do me and each other.  That was fun, but not that big a deal.  Once was enough.

So there is no point in explaining it again.  The disparity in our comparative experience in the P4P scene is never going to give us the same perspective.  It's possible for you to learn though increased experience of your own what the perspective is of someone who has seen hundreds of providers, but it's not possible to me to go backwards and understand at this point what it was like to see two providers while trying to block out everything I have learned seeing the hundreds more.  

He isn't looking for an emotional relationship. A lot of people just get pleasure from giving other people pleasure. Lots of people enjoy giving other people orgasms and making other people feel good.  

"The disparity in our comparative experience in the P4P scene is never going to give us the same perspective."

I just explained in my second paragraph that romantic entanglements always happen unexpectedly.  There are several posters on this board that have had the same experiences in this regard that I have, and some even married a provider.  Do you think they entered P4P scene looking for a wife?  Don't be a moron just because you are looking for a reason to disagree with me.  The disparity IS related to relative experience and how are you even qualified to speak on that point when you show NO reviews?  Get some cred here and then lecture.  

Both of you have legit points.

Romantic entanglements aren't things that just happen. Feelings and emotions may come unexpectedly but forming an actual relationship requires two people to act on those feelings. You made choices that you have agency over. Nobody here cares if you formed romantic relationships with your providers. I just give you shit because you're a hypocritical dick. One second you're bragging about dating multiple former providers the next moment you're talking shit about looking for love because Gus enjoys pleasing someone else during sex. You often have negative perceptions of other people's behavior. However, if you engage in similar behavior that perception tends to radically shift. That's why nobody cares about your "experience."

I have had about a dozen over the years and I have to say that 90% of them have been underwhelming.  Don’t get me wrong it’s fun  playing around with two women. But the vast majority of times they are just taking turns on me.. when I am in a threesome, I want  everyone to enjoy playing with each other (or at least pretend like it).   I have had just a handful of those truly unicorn sessions .  But there is always hope for more

with everyone else, too.  The difference is, I can tell the difference.  Many low-volume mongers cannot.  Since you are suggesting that you can make every provider you see reach an O, maybe YOU should be the one to explain how you can tell a real O from a fake.  What is the tip-off for you.  I'll wait while you think up a deflection to avoid answering, because you don't know, do you, Mr. Beta?  

Cdl, he never suggested (at least in this thread) that he "can make every provider he sees reach an O".

Wish you two sexy hotties would spend more time out here on the East Coast

I have had this happen twice outside the hobby and it was fun, but I prefer a Porterhouse or Chocolate Fudge Cake to a 3 way. Yes, I satisfied them both, both times.

First things first, I will not reread Gus' posts. I start reading them and just start skimming them because they are long and meandering so.... I take what I can get.

Here's the biggest issue with Gus' posts. He joined TER in June 2024, so he's been here between 4 and 6 weeks. In that time he's made 113 board pasts (virtually all way too verbose) an posted 0 reviews. That's right, NO REVIEWS! So he's on the boards starting shit and calling experienced members names, but he's not sharing any information with us. Basically, he's a time waster and/or a shit stirrer.
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And, one has to question his veracity. In one board post a couple of weeks ago he told a story of setting a multi-hour date with a provider. When she showed up according to Gus she was heavier and less attractive than the provider he had scheduled. So, what does he say he did? He paid her up front for the multi-hour date, gave her a large tip up front (I think he said 400), and then was disappointed in the session and felt like he was taken advantage of. This makes no sense, because virtually all experienced hobbyists would have either sent her packing or converted to a one hour date and only tipped if the service was fantastic. But not Gus, who's on here giving us advice. And, by the way, HE DIDN"T REVIEW THE SESSION OR NAME THE PROVIDER WHO RIPPED HIM OFF!  He didn't want to help other hobbyists so they wouldn't get ripped off like he did [that part is for you Rocket].
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I've reached the conclusion that Gus can't be trusted, and that he's just here to stir the shit. I no longer pay any attention to his posts, and wish everyone would just ignore him until he contributes to the community by posting a few reviews and showing that he's one of us.
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That's my $0.02. What does everyone else think?

You know you do have that option. There’s guys here that are so full of shit that it pops out of their eye sockets. But you know what I do? I ignore them. I don’t engage.
If this guys bugs you, then bypass his shit. No one is forcing to read his post

Good advice, and trust me Happy, I do my best. But he just keeps yapping while not contributing.

my only 3somes in past 5 years were with two ladies who were friends (and lets call them amateur escorts ) and totally BI and into each other so that was a blast.  

I've only had one duo and it was with a civvie friend. I'd love to do one with another provider. I think guys like them!

For me the best part of duos are the visual memories that get seared into the brain. Having two hotties on all fours on a bed in front of you or on their backs legs spread wide or watching yourself in a mirror get blown from the front and rimmed from behind at the same time… those visuals will last a lifetime.

I had a provider tell me. That her client compensated her friend “duo” partner that she introduced to more. Does that back stabbing shit go on? I was probably being told a sympathy story but still. Lol

Each lady sets her own rate, and I pay that rate. There are some ladies who charge extra for duos, and I pay that too, if I think it will be worth it to me. And I've also tipped a lady if I think she went above and beyond in a duo session (I'm looking at you UTR--performing DATO on another lady was an unexpected thrill).

in criticizing someone else's experience when you have no reviews?   You seem to like taking things out of context.  The two examples you gave are from different threads, and if you read them on the thread they were posted on, there is nothing hypocritical if you read them IN THEIR ORIGINAL CONTEXT.  The fact that I have had successful relationships with providers, and the fact that Gus's posts show he is looking for a relationship, but has no clue that you can't just buy one, can easily co-exist.  If they are not mutually exclusive, they are not hypocritical.  You are the dick by trying to be a tough guy on a review site when you have no reviews.  Without reviews, what relevance do you have here?  You're just a lurker to everyone else.  

hasn't replied to your post!
Maybe he's putting a looong post together!  
Not one of those little, short one's he's known for^^!

He just today said in another thread that he's never going to post a review because they are his memories (and the fictional woman's/blow-up doll's) and he's not going to share the with us. Hello! This is a review site. If you're not going to share why are you here? What a complete jackoff.  
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Based on his board posts I seriously doubt whether he's ever seen a provider (other than his blow-up sex doll) and he just come on the boards and starts shit, all the while sitting in his tiny little room giggling and jacking off. My best guess is that he has no friends and comes here to get the only social interaction in his life.

I definitely don't agree with everything CDL (or anyone else) posts around here, but yeah. Just reading the first sentence of the OP had me shaking my head. When I pay a hooker, I feel zero obligation to please them sexually. I'm there for me, paying for me, and expect ME to be happy.

..and as a woman myself I've enjoyed every one of them. There is no competition between the women to see who can satisfy me more. It's a universal fuckfest with each woman receiving and giving pleasure, myself included. I can be a selfish lover at times, but when I know I'm with two other women that are really into the whole sapphic experience, I'm going to make sure that everybody involved gets as much sexual satisfaction out of it as they can!

With all due respect, you do speak mainly from the perspective of experiences with a particular type of provider.  
I do not have to worry about getting too tired for the next customer as I will get plenty of rest between my appointments.  

I put he/she on ignore soon after seeing his/her posts. Not one regret.

And I agree with the just ignore (be it put on Ignore or just skipping over the posts/threads).

Ditto!

review the doll!
It's a start!

Ive done a few and none were 'great' also none were planned. So its still on my bucket list to plan one with clear expectation's called out up front. The biggest of which is that the girls myst be truly Bi and into one another.

I've done doubles (mostly FMF but a couple of MFMs) in NY, LV and in Costa Rica.
It can be distracting when so much is going on and, as others have said, it's crucial the girls are into each other. That was true in LV because the gals were GFs in real life. It didn't hurt that they were also insanely hot strippers, so it was quite a show. The worst (as I've said here before) was in CR where lots of girls work in pairs and sell themselves by promising a really hot "lez-bion cho." The one time I fell for it the "cho" was obviously fake and they didn't even really lick pussy. So I just fucked them both. I think they charged $80 each, so no harm done. LOL.
The MFMs were with a buddy and no swords were crossed. In each case the girls had admitted to my friend that they'd never had sex with two guys at once and wanted to try it. It was fun but I was less than enthused by having to see my friend's junk, his pale, flabby body and his O-face. I haven't done one since.

I did a few when I was in college back in the mid-70s. Back then they were just spontaneous Friday or Saturday nights in the dorms. Smoke a joint, drink some beers, and shit happened. Sometimes threesomes, some times foursomes, it was cool in the Bay in the 70s.  
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I also did a couple more IRL in the early 90s. The best was a pair of identical twin sisters I met at a concert. I  took them backstage and started kissing the one I had first met. Things progressed and I invited her back to my hotel and she asked if her sister could come since they were riding together. I said sure thinking the sister might give us some space and then they would go home. Boy was I surprised she just jumped in with us. It was weird, surreal and flaming hot all at the same time. Pretty sure it wasn’t the first time that they had done this. And luckily for me it wasn’t the last.  
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So, having had this experience IRL I’ve never been interested in doing it p4p. And, at my age now I’m a single shot guy so I’d likely just be a spectator and that wouldn’t be of interest for me.

Over the years I have participated in 5 duo's....the best was with 2 Asian Girls in Atlanta....they knew what to do and how to do it for sure!  Both were into the session with nothing held back.....very creative, etc....no cover...etc....

Yes I can see why you think that, and honestly I'm not sure why 2 women with me does not appeal to me...it deserves some clarification.   If I had a long term relationship with a woman, who one days simply says, "You know I might like to try being with a woman..."   That's different in my mind, because now its about making your significant other HAPPY.   If it's a case of just her being with woman by herself, that's fine;  if I am there to watch, ok too.  But me trying to participate with the two women (one being my significant other), NO, I personally, given my own physical circumstances would just be in the way lol!     I didn't mean to act judgemental towards you if you like multiple women with you....my bad.   I should have chosen a different word than "Absurd".....  

Having a MFF was definitely on the bucket list for me, and I hit the jackpot.  It worked so well because they started by satisfying themselves while I got to help, then turned all the attention to me.  It wasn't a competition, more like a fun, friendly make-everybody-cum as much as possible party.  The two girls were friends and very comfortable with each other.  They started the session by all of us getting naked and then kissed each other, then me.  Then they started  basically a sex show just for me.   My advice is to research and find girls who say they're at least familiar with each other.  Could I have satisfied them both?  Maybe, but they made it a group effort and everybody was satisfied.