Since coming back into the hobbie for about three months now, I have met three wonderful ladies. Laughed at some of the hysterical posts here and even sent a few private e-mails to those who seemed to be having a hard time with things... With all that said, I am not sure where my future is going with this hobbie... I joined back because I want one thing - No strings attached sex- A woman visits me, or I visit her. We indulge in the parlor activities for a bit, and then part ways.
I have had several occasions where things fell through however. When I commit, I don't bail out, however, several women who I am corresponding with just stop, then I get an e-mail apology the next day. Kind of ruins your night.
I have been single since Thanksgiving and don't want a girlfriend at this time. I could do the on-line dating service thing, for it is very easy for couples to hit a home run on the second date. But then I have to go out to dinner, tell jokes, etc... I want no attachments.
Quality ladies rarely ncns or back out at the last minute. Do your research and choose a winner. I've been in the hobby for 6+ years now and never had a no-show. I have had a few back out a day or two prior to meeting. No problem...I always have a plan B.
Just keep doing what you are doing. No one bats a thousand in the world of P4P. Stick with well-reviewed ladies who want your business...and your return business...and you will see the NCNS ratio go way down.
Thanks cats, you are both right. Like any business, professional attitude will keep the hobbiests coming back.
Here is my plan, I will go with the well reviewed ladies. I may also do on-line dating again, however, take a more casual approach, with a new profile and let the gals know I would love to have fun, but am open to dating more than one woman. The last thing anyone wants is mixed signals.
Oh for the love of god, you are always posting same day requests. Yes, we are familiar with your many requests in Philly. You can be the legend in your own mind but quality women aren't interested in last minute shit.
Posted By: KingBuffet
Thanks cats, you are both right. Like any business, professional attitude will keep the hobbiests coming back.
Here is my plan, I will go with the well reviewed ladies. I may also do on-line dating again, however, take a more casual approach, with a new profile and let the gals know I would love to have fun, but am open to dating more than one woman. The last thing anyone wants is mixed signals.
Raven, please understand I have a life too that is busy... I go day by day. We all have many responsabilities, and it is difficult for some of us to plan ahead...
I have had success with same day requests too, just so you know, and these were quality women who were sweet enough to work around my schedule as well.
I may see the problem but I'm not sure. For now keep doing what you're doing. At some point in the future x consider actively placing yourself in multiple situations and circumstances where you will meet or hear about quality ladies available for dating. More easily said than done I do know that. While I do like the dating service concept I would want to take a very hard look at a service before I signed up.
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