Couldn't agree more!
a 2 hour session (or longer) is all about intimacy not how many ballons get popped. I can pop all I want at home with a high speed internet hook-up, some lotion and for a lot less $$$.![]()
Whats the point of spending time with another person if you don't get to treat them like a person, or get treated that way in return.
I was told that only doing 1 hour sessions would turn some guys off....What does everyone think? What happens in 2 that cant happen in 1?
You should go with the schedule that you makes you feel comfortable. Some ladies offer only 1 hour appointments, others only offer multiple hour appointments and others offer both. Each lady goes with what works the best for her.
The reasons that a man or a lady might prefer a multiple hour appointment over a single hour appointment vary from person to person. A couple of possible reasons are listed in the next pragraph.
Below are a couple of reasons some guys might prefer a multiple hour situations where Some guys want multiple hour appointments because they like to spend some time socializing before moving on to the main event. Some guys want multiple hour appointments because they want multiple cups of coffee but can't manage more than one in an hour.
Hopefully a lot of the ladies and men will respond with reasons for their preferences.
I need an hour DATY at least! So an hour would mean that I am left out!
A first pop can come too quickly, some times. It's kind of a warm up. But 1 hour is too short for that long lasting, much more enjoyable, 2nd time.
If you want to do 1 hour sessions only, that's fine, but you will definitely be excluding some potential clients.
Thanks for the feedback! I updated my page...I love ter..so helpful!
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I'm an idiot! Thanks for pointing that out! I'll fix it right away!
I'm going to call this an age thing. I see by the TER reviews that you are in the 21-25 y/o group. I am so far away from that that I can't even do the math.
I have postd before that I like the experience of a "date" much more than the old "wham, bam..." encounter. I have the money now that I didn't have when I was your age and I like to schedule dinner dates where I can relax and get to know some of the person with whom I'm getting intimate.
I still have the rush when I first meet a new lady and so do like to get to it soon after we get together. But I still spend at least 20 min. chatting. Then a slow warm up with foreplay seems to really add to the intimacy. So two hours is easy to use up. Then I usually take her out for a nice dinner with wine and easy chat then go back to the room for the now more personal intimacy. I find that fun. And I think I have gotten better service on the second session of the night.
I guess it's part of the idea that the area between the ears is the primary sex organ. I think of it as an extension of the non contact part of the encounter: looking, smelling, listening, experiencing adds to the event.
I'm 37 and I prefer the two hour get together as well. Things are less rushed, more conversation is enjoyed, and the extra time makes a huge difference in the after glow department.
Besides, I'm still young enough to hit that 3rd set of mental fireworks, but I need 2 hours to get there. Things take a little longer for #3, but that is half of the fun (some are so skilled that #1 takes about 5 minutes of intense attention and then I'm recovering for a bit).
Also, the extra time allows a provider to better read a hobbyist as to his likes and dislikes. Most of us just assume that the provider is a mindreader and will instinctively know what we want. Others just blurt out some of the more crude requests and I think that would create some YMMV situations as the providers heart isn't into things as much when dealing with a cruder client (based on my limited experience). I'm sure there are several that get off on the harsher treatment, but most prefer a more romantic atmosphere (or maybe I'm just drawn to them more as the PSEs who might be more aggressive tend to be out of my price range).
Ah, don't mind me, what do I know? I've feeling restless as XMas bills have hit my wallet and I haven't been able to afford seeing a provider since early November, but I hope to jump back into the pool shortly.
I hate to say it..but I kinda like one hour apts..2 is great..but longer unless your going to dinner is just too long..for me..why? because usually a one hour apt with me is 2-3 pops(depending on the guy) and definately anal..I saw someone for 2 hours last night and believe it or not ..the guy had 7 pops..how can I do more than that..and if for some reason you dont click with the person..it can feel awkward for that 10-15 minutes it may take for him to be able to even think about another one.I feel if I dont wait at least 5 minutes in between..by passing the time with kissing,massage or talking he will feel I am rushing him..maybe its just me..but I dont want to seem like I am rushing him...but when I click with the person..the times seems to fly..my 2 hour apt ran to 2.45 without me even noticing..and no I did not charge him extra..why would I ..I was having just as much fun as him...out of couriosity...has any other provider ever felt like the time was so much fun with a client that you should not even charge them..I feel like that alot..but them I'd be broke....
I am so confused. Do you like 2 hour or dont you?
I think all of that would give me, AT ATTENTION DISORDER or AADD.
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I agree 100%
Couldn't agree more!
a 2 hour session (or longer) is all about intimacy not how many ballons get popped. I can pop all I want at home with a high speed internet hook-up, some lotion and for a lot less $$$.![]()
Whats the point of spending time with another person if you don't get to treat them like a person, or get treated that way in return.
You know what? I love that response...What a wonderful way to look at it. We providers are Prime Rib or Lobster...not the 3.99 Happy Meal at McDonalds. (which I have at least twice a week btw)
I personally prefer two to three hours, because I look for a true GFE provider, which means that I look for some conversation and LOTS of foreplay... an hour just isn't enough time for that kind of a meeting. I'm not interested in the "wham, bam, thank you ma'me" experience...
By the way, thanks for the link... you are a STUNNING lady!
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Boy, this hobbyist is late on this one. The normal situation is way early. Looking at your picture would make one prefer more than 1 hour because the first pop would end up in the shorts when you enter the room. Seriously, from an economic and longevity standpoint, multi-hour appointments make a lot of sense. Let's say there is a charge was $400 for one hour or $1000 for three hours. Let's Look at the long-term math and the impact upon the body. To earn $4,000 scheduling one hour appointments, a provider would have to have ten appointments and take who knows how much pounding. To earn $4,000 with three hour appointments, a provider would have to schedule four appointments, with probaly less wear and tear since the hobbyist's involved will almost surely spend much of the time on things such as conversation. So if a provider REALLY, REALLY, REALLY likes sex then the person should go for the single hour appointments, any pleasure state short of that calls for multi-hour appoinments.