..... give me your zip code,,,,, wow they aren't even trying to hide it.
..... got called a cop 3 times when I asked for FT verify or even a picture
..... 200.00 deposit on a 600 non gfe no refs, no revs, no verifies .....seriously?
..... send PII pics and on forms on open source to a strangers verify service. HAHAHAHA
..... arrived there was a 300.00 security questionnaire, she wasn't onsite but asking for more money to prep,  HOLY!!!!
..... pay full amount now on Zelle, as you are 'new' to her- I used 3 accounts to eventually show it wasn't her-scam
..... will not verify on FT but wants 40% up front  
..... 50.00 for a 30 second FT verify
..... broken English 'why u at have no zelllllle'
..... Ask enough questions they take down their ad, in all 8 cities 'they are in'....
..... 200.00 an hour  for all I want (hahahaha)
..... Zelle? Really? The app doesn't exist anymore.
And, my favorite ........... 500.00 for NO ANYTHING AT ALL. COVERED EVERYTHING. No No No and did I mention, it was NO to anything at all?  
Basically, that one was just a glory hole.  

If you want to know why I only see verified women, either from reviews or reccos, your numerous frustrations is exhibit A. Sorry this happened to you as I cant imagine the hassle.

Why not try P411 to narrow down all the hassle, at least a bit.  TER reviews coupled with P411 is the way to go.  

Because you definitely sound like you need to get laid.

Looking at your reviews you're fairly new here and, so are the ladies you have review thus far.  

1. Girl isnt reviewed on here, she doesnt exist
2. Never send a deposit
3. Go as light as possible on the screening. Never send a linkdin or allow a provider to know where you work or live.  

Yep good advice.

Yes you can go the more reliable root with p411 + TER.  But man the prices just keep going up and up. Now seeing more 2k / hr on p411, even for "athletic" (aka curvy), with deposits $200 or 50% in too many cases.  
BUT, there still are some needles in the haystack with some patience and compromises (older, thicker, etc)

Nailed it.

In conclusion. You all helped me out. Many thanks. Found an exceptional provider right under my nose .... the whole time.... aint that the way....